Why I'm Making My Husband Miss The Super Bowl

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Calling it a known unknown doesn't answer his question.

Yes it does. I'm calling it a known unknown. That's the answer. Is String Theory correct? The answer is: "we don't know because we do not yet have the tools with which to measure any empirical predictions."

If we are to assume you are consistent in your viewpoint, no piece of art or creative work in the history of mankind holds any sort of value as those items are intrinsically linked to subjective interpretation.

That seems quite possible. But that doesn't mean such a work could not exist, and it's also possible one already exists which we are unable to measure.

And that's fine; it is your opinion as directed by your perspective. You can hold your opinion that sports are meaningless just as must as the rest of us can criticize that opinion as reductionist and myopic.

No, this is incorrect. This isn't a discussion of opinions (and further, even if it were, you evidently did not understand my "opinion").
 
Which is why you shouldn't be looking to objectively measure something that is entirely subjective in the first place.
You're missing the point slightly. It's more like, "This is why you shouldn't be looking to objectively measure something via a subjective criterion/definition."

If you compare football to cricket, you can use some kind of objective metric like number of fans, worldwide gross sales, etc, but that ultimately doesn't matter since it's mostly based on culture and personal preference (subjective criteria) that determines how much a sport is important to you.

If you compare football to something like the electromagnetic spectrum, and use objective values to measure importance, the EM spec is eternal while football is merely a concoction of the human mind whose existence depends entirely on the subjective value we humans confer upon it.

Based on this criteria, football is of course relatively unimportant.

BUT, this does not at all diminish the importance football has on humans, the positive contributions it has on society, and its historical importance in our cultural evolution.

If you are trying to objectively measure than you are in fact telling someone how to live their life because you will attach numbers of worth to how people choose to live. Objectivity should not have a place in terms of what someone decides to do with their time especially when we are talking about god damn hobbies.
It's just putting things into perspective, that's all. No one's forcing a way of life on anyone else. Just because Opiate puts forth a thesis that football is unimportant to the universe, that doesn't mean he's shitting on your favorite sport and saying that it's unimportant to the human race.
 
The more I read this thread, the more I think meaning can't be objective at all. In Opiate's cupcake example, for instance, he says eating lots of cupcakes is objectively bad for your health, but that's a subjective value judgment unless we assume there is an objective measure of good and bad. Am I wrong?
 
Which is why you shouldn't be looking to objectively measure something that is entirely subjective in the first place. If you are trying to objectively measure than you are in fact telling someone how to live their life because you will attach numbers of worth to how people choose to live. Objectivity should not have a place in terms of what someone decides to do with their time especially when we are talking about god damn hobbies.

For approximately the 2,000th time, Opiate is not making any argument at all about what people should or should not do with their time.

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Other than Football being a far safer evolution of the greco-roman gladiatorial sport, what meaning does football hold for you? I only ask because I didn't grow up around sports (my Dad hates sports, so my common hobbies with my father were comic books and movies)

Sports hold zero meaning for me. I played sports for years in school, and still don't understand the point of watching other people play sports.

I have to admit, I don't understand why people are so offended. People call video games dumb and stupid all the time, and we hear equally disparaging words about comic books on this very forum.

Sports holds a lot of meaning to me since I appreciate the human need for competition, and I appreciate the way sports has evolved as a way for us humans to be competitively violent in a controlled environment that substitutes as an effective replacement for war.

Even though I'm not physically good at most sports, I still enjoy them and other competitive activities like Street Fighter.

Nevertheless, I still accept that sports itself is an entirely human-derived concept, and that it takes a complex and sentient species to invent it. Once the last traces of human civilization rot away in the universe, sports will go with it.
 
I need to go to bed to prepare for work yet again, but I will say that the reductionist nature of this discussion (which is a point I definitely agree with, and has been pointed out by several people) is caused by the nature of the argument.

As already stated, I had no intention of creating an epistemological discussion in a super bowl thread; I made a post that I had incorrectly presumed would be generally accepted, but it was not. When people strongly disagreed with my position, I could have simply left the thread, but that's a behavior we try to avoid on GAF, so instead I stayed and explained my position in more detail providing as much evidence and reason as I could. Eventually, this discussion became lengthy enough that the fundamental assumptions of my argument needed to be explained.

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The more I read this thread, the more I think meaning can't be objective at all. In Opiate's cupcake example, for instance, he says eating lots of cupcakes is objectively bad for your health, but that's a subjective value judgment unless we assume there is an objective measure of good and bad. Am I wrong?

I would provide two separate arguments to rebut this position.

1) Yes, in some cases my examples are assuming some basic axioms, like "living longer and healthier is good." That's why I've tended to stick to examples which have no necessary value to human life, like special relativity. It exists whether we care about it or not, and whether we harness its power or not; this relies on fundamental rules outside our personal or subjective viewpoints. But yes, the conversation does become even simpler if we make some very basic assumptions, like the one listed above.

2) It is certainly possible to argue that even something like special relativity only exists through our subjective perceptions, and therefore it also has no inherent meaning. This is referred to as a posthumanist viewpoint. That is logically consistent, but then very few people actually live like this, and further, it robs discussion of meaning. For example, this viewpoint suggests that Football is no more meaningful than the lint on the floor next to me, because importance is an entirely subjective thing.

In addition, the word "meaning" effectively loses any real value, under this standard. Yes, it is possible to insist that everything is subjective and nothing is better than anything else, but that ends essentially all discussions of any kind. If nothing is more valid or true or better than anything else, then no argument could possibly rise beyond he-said-she-said viewpoints. Again, not that this is logically inconsistent; it's just entirely unproductive. And not just in relation to sports discussion.

(Okay, really going to bed now. Thanks for the discussion again!)
 
The more I read this thread, the more I think meaning can't be objective at all. In Opiate's cupcake example, for instance, he says eating lots of cupcakes is objectively bad for your health, but that's a subjective value judgment unless we assume there is an objective measure of good and bad. Am I wrong?

While you might be thinking that "bad for" carries an implicit value judgment, it can also be seen to objectively mean "diminishes" or "reduces," in which case lots of cupcakes do objectively have that effect on one's health.
 
While you might be thinking that "bad for" carries an implicit value judgment, it can also be seen to objectively mean "diminishes" or "reduces," in which case lots of cupcakes do objectively have that effect on one's health.

The concept of health is partially shaped by discourse though. Yes, cupcakes may lead to an objective weight gain or change in some other metric, but there is no objective scale marking healthy and not healthy.
 
Depending on the guy, usually a "big game" can be the equivalent to Valentine's Day in a way, just with far less expensive market/retail gimmick (wings vs jewelry). The guy goes out for a girl that day, if this guy's V-Day is the Super Bowl, then she should respect that. But the real kicker is that this guy has done work at these games, and in the future it can be again, so what is she going to do then, tell him to get a different job? That article fully explains what kind of person she is: controlling, her way or the highway, and "I am so great, I am so great, everyone look at me I am so great". Of course the thing that seals the deal is "i'm wearing a leather dress". That shows that she thinks she's the cat's ass and is very self absorbed.

I watch football, it's one of the few sports I watch anymore. I'm no "super-fan" by any mean, and didn't give a shit about either of the teams in it this year. Even still, my gf knows that I watch my team play whenever I can, and didn't make me do jack shit. She made buffalo chicken dip, chicken clubhouse squares, got some Victory moonglow, and told me to invite some friends over. Afterwards when everyone left, we had sex, no leather dress to fight to come off. My girl is a good girl, and not a troll like this woman.
 
Is your opinion not sports are a meaningless and hold no value? Please clarify as I haven't read the entire thread.
Yes, that's his opinion (which is completely fine even if he's talking about games or cupcakes or whatever activity he comes up with), but he won't say it's his opinion, he'll say this:
These aren't personal standards, though. I'm using as objective a standard as I possibly can, which I have repeatedly detailed as best I can.

If I knew from the beginning that this was how he felt, I would've stopped wasting my time a while ago. The condescending tone of his initial post makes sense when you realize that he actually believes that they aren't his personal standards.
 
I fucking HATE when people do shit like that for their wedding. 4th of July, Christmas, New Years Eve, the fucking Superbowl, fuck people that do that shit. A buddy of mine had his wedding Christmas eve and was pissed I didnt go. FUck that shit man.

I agree with this. I mean is moving the wedding a week ahead really that big a deal? It is just a wedding.
 
So i showed this to my girl and i told her since football is the only sport I like our wedding will be between April and August she said fine..
 
I showed the article to my wife who only watches Football because I am obsessed.

Her words were "wow what a thoughtless bitch"
 
Is your opinion not sports are meaningless and hold no value? Please clarify as I haven't read the entire thread.

Yes, that's his opinion (which is completely fine even if he's talking about games or cupcakes or whatever activity he comes up with), but he won't say it's his opinion, he'll say this:


If I knew from the beginning that this was how he felt, I would've stopped wasting my time a while ago. The condescending tone of his initial post makes sense when you realize that he actually believes that they aren't his personal standards.

He's using a specific definition with objectively measurable standards. If he was basing this on subjective feelings, it would be his opinion, but he's not.

You could try to argue, however, that it is his opinion that eternal permanence throughout the universe imbues special relativity with more meaning than football. But that would be a bit of a stretch.

And no, it's not condescending.
 
He's using a specific definition with objectively measurable standards. If he was basing this on subjective feelings, it would be his opinion, but he's not.

You could try to argue, however, that it is his opinion that eternal permanence throughout the universe imbues special relativity with more meaning than football. But that would be a bit of a stretch.

And no, it's not condescending.

The criteria chosen for determining what is meaningful are subjective. I can say the most perfect numbers are those that are evenly divisible by 9. I can objectively demonstrate which numbers meet this criteria but in doing so I have not objectively determined what the most perfect numbers are.
 
The criteria chosen for determining what is meaningful are subjective. I can say the most perfect numbers are those that are evenly divisible by 9. I can objectively demonstrate which numbers meet this criteria but in doing so I have not objectively determined what the most perfect numbers are.

Deeming "divisible by 9" as perfect is a lot more arbitrary than universal constancy, but like I said in my previous post, one could make the argument that even criteria like that is still subjective.

But then we fall into the trap, like Opiate said in his previous post, that everything is subjective, and then if that's the case we're not really gonna get anywhere.
 
Deeming "divisible by 9" as perfect is a lot more arbitrary than universal constancy, but like I said in my previous post, one could make the argument that even criteria like that is still subjective.

But then we fall into the trap, like Opiate said in his previous post, that everything is subjective, and then if that's the case we're not really gonna get anywhere.

That doesn't make everything subjective. As I said, whether or not a number is divisible by 9 is an objective measure; either it is or it isn't. If we agree that the definition of meaningful or important cannot be made objectively we aren't led down a slippery slope.

The idea that this means anything could be important and therefore it must be wrong to recognize its arbitrary nature is ridiculous. Deciding just to ignore the fact of its subjectivity to delude ourselves into a satisfaction that this isn't happening is foolish, frankly. There is no equation that quantifies it or properties to be measured.

Anyone can argue that anything is important or meaningful. So what?
 
That doesn't make everything subjective. As I said, whether or not a number is divisible by 9 is an objective measure; either it is or it isn't.

I said that the attribution of the quality of "perfection" towards numbers that are divisible by 9 is the subjective act. Not the actual property of being divisible by 9.
 
I said that the attribution of the quality of "perfection" towards numbers that are divisible by 9 is the subjective act. Not the actual property of being divisible by 9.

I was pointing out the contradiction. You said my argument would lead us into the trap of considering everything subjective.
 
Both sides make me lol.
Religiously worshiping a sports team is something I'll never get.
Seeing that his team wasn't even playing makes the situation even more WTF.

As for her: who cares about an arbitrary date. The celebration could easily be a day earlier or later.

But the wonderful thing about marriage is that everyone deserves what they get. Good luck for that marriage.
 
I was pointing out the contradiction. You said my argument would lead us into the trap of considering everything subjective.

The objective quality of "being divisible by 9" and the subjective quality of "perfection" are two separate things. The only reason it's "perfect" is because you said so, not because it has any inherent value of perfection. I can refute it's 'perfectness', but not its 'being divisible by 9' because one is an inherent quality of those numbers, and the other is quality chosen by you.

One could also argue that even the attribution of "meaningfulness" to scientific principles and mathematical constants is a subjective matter as well, and perhaps even those concepts itself only rely on human interpretation to manifest in reality so that they too must be subjective. On and on it goes. Which leads to -

2) It is certainly possible to argue that even something like special relativity only exists through our subjective perceptions, and therefore it also has no inherent meaning. This is referred to as a posthumanist viewpoint. That is logically consistent, but then very few people actually live like this, and further, it robs discussion of meaning. For example, this viewpoint suggests that Football is no more meaningful than the lint on the floor next to me, because importance is an entirely subjective thing.

In addition, the word "meaning" effectively loses any real value, under this standard. Yes, it is possible to insist that everything is subjective and nothing is better than anything else, but that ends essentially all discussions of any kind. If nothing is more valid or true or better than anything else, then no argument could possibly rise beyond he-said-she-said viewpoints. Again, not that this is logically inconsistent; it's just entirely unproductive. And not just in relation to sports discussion.


Until we're just arguing about what constitutes objectivity and what doesn't and ultimately we lose track of the fact that we're supposed to be discussing what a jerk that woman is for denying her husband the Super Bowl when she could have just as easily worked around it.
 
The concept of health is partially shaped by discourse though. Yes, cupcakes may lead to an objective weight gain or change in some other metric, but there is no objective scale marking healthy and not healthy.

It's objective in-so-far-as you agree on the fundamentals of the argument. I would say human wellbeing is a reasonable foundation to base moral judgments on (I like Sam Harris, yes).
 
>Read OP and first few replies
>Click on last page
>Discussion about cupcakes, dividing by 9, and healthiness


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The objective quality of "being divisible by 9" and the subjective quality of "perfection" are two separate things. The only reason it's "perfect" is because you said so, not because it has any inherent value of perfection. I can refute it's 'perfectness', but not its 'being divisible by 9' because one is an inherent quality of those numbers, and the other is quality chosen by you.

Exactly.

One could also argue that even the attribution of "meaningfulness" to scientific principles and mathematical constants is a subjective matter as well, and perhaps even those concepts itself only rely on human interpretation to manifest in reality so that they too must be subjective. On and on it goes. Which leads to -

Before we go on to that, let's address the leap from suggesting "meaningfulness" is a subjective determination to suggesting concepts of mathematics and other tools used to understand our world are subjective. How can we do that? Why does one lead to the other? Beauty is a subjective quality, I don't see that anyone could argue with that. Is recognizing this subjectivity leaving us open to math becoming useless? Of course not. The argument for why meaningfulness or importance or beauty or heaviness is a subjective determination driven by personal opinion does not also lead us to question the ability for humans to perceive the world around us objectively at all. Those are two entirely different arguments.

So, on to what Opiate said...

Opiate said:
2) It is certainly possible to argue that even something like special relativity only exists through our subjective perceptions, and therefore it also has no inherent meaning.

Only if we define meaning, inherent or otherwise, as a consequence of being objective. Again though arguing that special relativity "only exists through our subjective perceptions" is beside the point. The philosophical question about "is the world really as we see it, man?" is not the same as opinions about what is or is not meaningful.

Opiate said:
For example, this viewpoint suggests that Football is no more meaningful than the lint on the floor next to me, because importance is an entirely subjective thing.

This is nonsensical. Just because we understand that anything can be classified beautiful or meaningful or important depending on the person doing the classification, doesn't mean everything IS beautiful, meaningful and important. The mere understanding of these qualities as being not intrinsic to whatever concept they're used to describe precludes declaring that anything objectively or inherently IS beautiful, or IS important. Beauty and importance are assigned by people using their own subjective measures. This does not rob the terms of their usefulness or purpose.

Opiate said:
In addition, the word "meaning" effectively loses any real value, under this standard. Yes, it is possible to insist that everything is subjective and nothing is better than anything else, but that ends essentially all discussions of any kind. If nothing is more valid or true or better than anything else, then no argument could possibly rise beyond he-said-she-said viewpoints. Again, not that this is logically inconsistent; it's just entirely unproductive. And not just in relation to sports discussion.

Again, where is this coming from that we've arrived at a place where nothing is objective? A number is still either divisible by 9 or it isn't. That is an objective measure and will not be affected one bit by how we choose to treat the concept of importance, I promise you. I also notice the mixing of terms here: "more valid or true or better." "More valid" and "better" are subjective, true is not.

I'm baffled by this argument existing on a forum like this. I can't think of any better place to demonstrate how subjective values and concepts of right and wrong shape a discussion and those who participate in it. Is there an objectively correct answer to who the "best" movie director is? Is tipping objectively a "better" system? Is it "important" to take your shoes off when coming inside? The fact these questions don't have an objective answer doesn't suddenly put us at risk.

Until we're just arguing about what constitutes objectivity and what doesn't and ultimately we lose track of the fact that we're supposed to be discussing what a jerk that woman is for denying her husband the Super Bowl when she could have just as easily worked around it.

This is a more interesting discussion!
 
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Myself not a sports fan and never watch sports on TV, but the woman sounds petty and controlling.

One thing, though, very easy to get a table at a popular restaurant on Super Bowl day, so if food is your thing, it's certainly a good day for eating out.
 
Did I say something earlier that was inconsistent with this?

Before we get into another round of mutual misunderstandings, what is it exactly, in your words, that you think my point is? And, what is your point that is the rebuttal to what you think that I'm saying?
 
Did I say something earlier that was inconsistent with this?

You have forwarded an argument made by Opiate that suggests if we consider the concepts of meaning and importance to be subjective, we might as well consider things like relativity and math and human perception subjective, which leads to a place where nothing is objective.

Before we get into another round of mutual misunderstandings, what is it exactly, in your words, that you think my point is? And, what is your point that is the rebuttal to what you think that I'm saying?

You seem to agree with Opiate's arguments regarding meaning and importance. That if we simply allow them to be subjective in nature this might as well lead to everything being subjective and therefore everything being meaningful and important. That logical progression doesn't make sense.
 
You have forwarded an argument made by Opiate that suggests if we consider the concepts of meaning and importance to be subjective, we might as well consider things like relativity and math and human perception subjective, which leads to a place where nothing is objective.

I referenced Opiate's post where he said that such posthumanist thinking is unproductive.

You seem to agree with Opiate's arguments regarding meaning and importance. That if we simply allow them to be subjective in nature this might as well lead to everything being subjective and therefore everything being meaningful and important. That logical progression doesn't make sense.

My point was that having everything be subjective is silly. I'm not sure where you got that I'm agreeing with the "everything is meaningful" crowd. If I did that, then I wouldn't have agreed that football is meaningless compared to something like special relativity. I wasn't making the case for objective qualities to be subjectively evaluated.

The whole reason why this thread is so long is because Opiate gave a specific definition of meaningfulness, which says that football is not as meaningful as something more important to the universe, like special relativity. Other posters misunderstood his statement and thought he was calling football totally unimportant (which he wasn't, since it's still subjectively important and culturally significant to a particular group of humans), and 12 pages later, here we are.
 
I referenced Opiate's post where he said that such posthumanist thinking is unproductive.



My point was that having everything be subjective is silly. I'm not sure where you got that I'm agreeing with the "everything is meaningful" crowd. If I did that, then I wouldn't have agreed that football is meaningless compared to something like special relativity. I wasn't making the case for objective qualities to be subjectively evaluated.

The whole reason why this thread is so long is because Opiate gave a specific definition of meaningfulness, which says that football is not as meaningful as something more important to the universe, like special relativity. Other posters misunderstood his statement and thought he was calling football totally unimportant (which he wasn't, since it's still subjectively important and culturally significant to a particular group of humans), and 12 pages later, here we are.

Did he not argue that his definition of importance and meaning were the only useful definitions, in a sense saying: "otherwise what's to stop us from just making everything important and meaningful?"

If he is simply saying his own personal definition of what is important leaves out football, that's fine. I don't think he was though, otherwise his surprise that others had their own definition of what qualifies as important doesn't make much sense. He seemed to be approaching it as if his definition were objectively correct or the most useful or what have you.
 
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