isamu said:
Someone pinch me cuz I must be dreaming...
there isn't
ONE post from Biff Hardbody in this thread. Biff are you OK man?
I hope he's alive..this is
VERY strange!
Hey buddy, hows life?
Not sure what I should write, but I'll just let my brain empty out while I wait for my porn to finish downloading. Let me go through the stuff here and make any points I have.
why would anyone take weight lifting over martial arts?
Well, because if you don't have some type of power your technique will be ineffective against someone good or just bigger then you. Weight lifting is the quickest way to get power. Personally, I don't lift. I don't want to go into the reason why I don't, that would take to long. But, I do different types of strength training and its a huge part of my martial arts.
Don't underestimate a weight lifter. They can wreck people because they are big and strong, and could even have tard/roid strength and aggressiveness. Most martial artists don't fight. They just talk.
Kung Fu
Aikido
Kendo
Yoga
Tai Chi
Jujitsu
Karate
Judo
Which one do you practise and has it improved your life etc?
Well, as others have said before there are many styles of Kung Fu. If you want to get into a nit picking contest about it, Kung Fu doesn't definitely mean martial arts, but everyone associates it with that so its fine to use it for that (argument between Karasu and Stele solved, woohoo!).
Anyhow, the state of Kung Fu is a sorry one. The national art of China, San Da doesn't even resemble styles of Kung Fu. If you don't know what San Da is, imagine kickboxing with wrestling style takedowns and throws. One can argue they are doing Kung Fu, or that styles evolve into what they have done, but I believe the basic truth of the matter is that Kung Fu has been in decline for a long, long time and allot of it is dead/lost.
There are good Kung Fu schools out there, and its always important to keep an open mind. But, your chances are slim of finding one in my opinion.
Aikido is an interesting art. If you look at the founder, he was supposed to be some type of saint or demi God. I've read a few biographies on Ueshiba, and I have to say I think he was an interesting man, but he's been more deified by certain groups of Aikidoka. The end result is it doesn't matter what he could do, but what practiconers of the art can do today. The answer? Generally, not much. Like Kung Fu there are some bad ass Aikidoka out there, but on the whole? Choose something else.
Kendo, haven't done it.
Yoga, not a martial art. Excellent stretching, and it'll make you strong.
Tai Chi, see Kung Fu. I'm an avid Tai Chi practiconer, and its helped me learn a unique way of jabbing. Its also increaded my strength a good deal, as well as my mental composure. That being said, 99% of Tai Chi people are granola eating hippies who would get their shit wrecked if they somehow got the balls to even contemplate fighting.
Jujitsu, depends on what kind. There are various Japanese styles, and they can be in the Kung Fu camp. Some are out of touch with reality and are just terrible, while others like Aaron Field's school in Seattle are grade A bad motheruckers. There is some excellent Japanese Jujitsu.
Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is an excellent style that I recommend. I recommend learning it without a gi, and in a more "vale tudo" setting. If you fight with a sport minded BJJ, you can get pounded on. Very fun style to.
Karate, some tough guys in Karate. But, I think you'd be better off in a boxing or kickboxing gym.
Judo. Judo's awesome. Very underrated for self defense. BJJ will teach you better submissions, but a good Judo school (one that spends allot of time on matwork) will make you good at subs and standing. Very nice.
Personally, I recommend boxing. When people want to choose a martial art, they think of something esoteric or mysterious, as though it will make them a super man. The truth is, boxing is simple, will make you very tough, and will teach you the reality of being hit and hitting back under fire (something many martial artists never learn).
Its important that you learn something grappling oriented to compliment your boxing, because there will be no ref in a real fight to seperate you when you clinch. Learn Judo, wrestling, or BJJ along with it.
When you get good at fighting, you can check out Aikido or Tai Chi and see if it agrees with you. Even though the technique of those arts is old and antiquated, the theory is very good and can make you a much better boxer, wrestler, or fighter.
I'd also recommend you just get in shape. Being in shape will supercharge your technique, and honestly if you are out of shape its hard to fight.
I'm sure that's true, but the sort of jerks he wants to avoid at the gym sound like the guys who just want to beat the crap out of people and immediately join a famous "cool" one like kung fu. I suspect you'd get less of those people at something more spiritual, like Aikido.
You'd be surprised, but there is a giant amount of assholes in the martial arts world. You have to understand, it can be very cult like. Many people who get involved have a deep insecurity about themselves, and allot of them seem to be searching for a father figure. You can imagine the types of petty infighting and bizzare rumor spreading that goes on with a group like that. It isn't pretty. These types are more common in the Kung Fu realm where one can sit on the side, get fat and talk about how deadly he is without actually doing anything to prove it.