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I don't think that is what people mean when they talk about girls shouldn't get in bad situations. It's not blaming the victim. The person to blame is the animal who rapes anyone. They are to blame. I think when my daughter is born and gets older I'm going to tell her to be careful and not get in situations that are not safe. That would include going into some guys dorm room by herself, never accept a drink at a bar from someone other than the bartender or waitress/waiter. Things like that. People don't want anyone raped. At least that's my feeling from these posts.
The problem is that going down that route means basically that women should never go anywhere with anyone. People get raped in many different situations, and yes, women constantly take precautions against it. (See the 'covering the drink' thread). But saying that women should stop hanging out with football players if they don't want to get raped, or should respect themselves more if they don't want to get raped is blaming the victim. The person I quoted said that the football playing type couldn't control themselves.