Awful women embarrass themselves and their children on Mother's Day. (NSFW)

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hey_it's_that_dog said:
Yes, article titles on the internet are often bullshit.

What if these women were having intercourse in front of their kids? Would condemning that behavior be condemning poor judgment or slut-shaming? I get that sexy self-pics are certainly several degrees less serious than that, but I think it's the presence of the children that is driving the reaction. If it was *just* sexy self-pics, then sure, some assholes would find that unacceptable, but their motherhood credentials wouldn't be the first thing brought up.

They are putting these pictures out in public without their children's consent and so their behavior in the pictures probably should be subject to additional scrutiny. If they aren't considering possible negative effects on their children, then that is indeed a strike against their mothering skills. I'll agree they absolutely aren't the "worst mothers" in the world.
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Do you think young parents abstain from sex during their child's first years? Hire a babysitter every time they want some intimacy? Hope for the best leaving their baby in another room? It may surprise you to know that for much of human history, parents had sex in the same room as their children all the time--hard to do it any other way when most families shared a single room.
 
I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand the title is shitty and judgemental, but on the other hand I found some of them pretty hilarious.
 
Erin S Kittens said:
Do you think young parents abstain from sex during their child's first years? Hire a babysitter every time they want some intimacy? Hope for the best leaving their baby in another room? It may surprise you to know that for much of human history, parents had sex in the same room as their children all the time--hard to do it any other way when most families shared a single room.
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oh ok
 
that one where the mum is taking a photo of her daughter - why is she still taking it reflected in a mirror? She can just point it at her daughter's ass. Unless her daughter is medusa..
 
Erin S Kittens said:
What is the criteria for judging these mothers so harshly, if not slut-shaming? If the worst thing these supposedly 'worst' moms can do is appear around their young children in little or no clothing sometimes, they're probably pretty awesome mothers.
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It really isn't slut shaming to suggest that perhaps mothers shouldn't take sexy pictures with their children present in the frame, posing grabbing at their breasts or slapping their ass.

I don't think little kids should be made to view their mothers as sex objects, doing sexy poses around the house, that's creepy. Thinking this is wrong isn't slut shaming.

yongeandcollege said:
The fact that their kid is around while they are taking a selfie (motivation for taking a selfie notwithstanding and irrelevant) is probably a by-product of the fact that many of them have no alone time.
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Did you happen to see the pictures where the kids are grabbing ass and boob? Do you know how long it takes to snap a selfie? Not very long, seconds in fact, you can find time somehow without this happening.
 
Erin S Kittens said:
Do you think young parents abstain from sex during their child's first years? Hire a babysitter every time they want some intimacy? Hope for the best leaving their baby in another room? It may surprise you to know that for much of human history, parents had sex in the same room as their children all the time--hard to do it any other way when most families shared a single room.
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And thus, the having sex in front of your children defence force was born.
 
Erin S Kittens said:
oh i'm just saying. Being naked around your young kid isn't being a bad mother. I'd be more concerned about a mother who inadvertently teaches their child to think of their body as shameful and wrong.
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Of course being naked around your child isn't wrong, but being so in a sexual pose, even having them take the pictures of you in those poses, definitely is.

Wait til they're in bed before you take your pictures for sexting, for fucks sake.

(I say this as a mother myself)
 
Erin S Kittens said:
oh i'm just saying. Being naked around your young kid isn't being a bad mother. I'd be more concerned about a mother who inadvertently teaches their child to think of their body as shameful and wrong.
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You can be proud of your body without being inappropriate though, which is what some of these pictures are. I doubt anyone would care if the kids weren't in the pics.
 
braves01 said:
And thus, the having sex in front of your children defence force was born.
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EchosMyron1 said:
It really isn't slut shaming to suggest that perhaps mother's shouldn't take sexy pictures with their children present in the frame, posing grabbing at their breasts or slapping their ass.

I don't think little kids should be made to view their mothers as sex objects, doing sexy poses around the house, that's creepy. Thinking this is wrong isn't slut shaming.



Did you happen to see the pictures where the kids are grabbing ass and boob? Do you know how long it takes to snap a selfie? Not very long, seconds in fact, you can find time somehow without this happening.
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I agree that those photos are strange, but to suggest that it says anything about their parenting is a stretch. What if this was a well-built guy who had his kids hanging off his arms while flexing?
 
I don't see the problem.

I don't know why you would repost them in an article if all you want to do is criticise them, but I guess being a judgemental twat is more popular than taking a selfie.

EchosMyron1 said:
It really isn't slut shaming to suggest that perhaps mothers shouldn't take sexy pictures with their children present in the frame, posing grabbing at their breasts or slapping their ass.

I don't think little kids should be made to view their mothers as sex objects, doing sexy poses around the house, that's creepy. Thinking this is wrong isn't slut shaming.
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The kids don't view their mothers as sex objects, that's you, the kids view their mothers as their mother.
 
I think a lot of these photos are unfair.

Some of them are in change rooms so their only options were to leave their children waiting outside alone or wait inside while they try on clothes.

A shame that the person who they sent the photo too decided to use it as an opportunity to gain a few hits on the internet.
 
If these women were wearing fedoras would it be OK to make fun of these photos? Joking aside, I am not sure what to think of these pics but I find them really weird.
 
yongeandcollege said:
I agree that those photos are strange, but to suggest that it says anything about their parenting is a stretch. What if this was a well-built guy who had his kids hanging off his arms while flexing?
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If it was a photo of him laying seductively (think reverse thriller) with his kid grabbing his ass then we'd still have problems.

Why does the guy need to be well built in your scenario? Because that would make in inherently sexual or something? Having a kid hanging off your arm isn't sexual. Bending over seductively and having them grab at your ass is. There's a difference.

I agree that not ALL these photo's are damning evidence of bad parenthood. The one with the older mom helping her teenage/early 20's daughter take a sexy pic is actually funny and fine by me.

I also don't think it's wrong to be naked in front of your children, but being simply naked and sexualizing yourself in front of your children are super different. That kid grabbing boob in the first pic looks 5 years old!

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The kids don't view their mothers as sex objects, that's you, the kids view their mothers as their mother.
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great point (nsfw) I'm certainly the one being a weirdo about this. You don't think the mother in this photo is blatantly sexualizing herself in front of her child?
 
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