People do realize how horrible the notion that white males will outright refuse to play a game that does not star them is, right? Further, people realize how awful the idea that nothing should be done to change this is, yes? Lastly, surely people know that saying it's okay to take a "fuck 'em" attitude to women, different racial and ethnic groups, and LGBT people who want more representation in a medium they enjoy because we should be bending over to intolerant jackasses is just plain sick, right?
Like, people have to realize that. They just have to...
I have never had an issue playing someone not of my gender, race, or fuck all even species.
I don't feel the need to somehow 'connect' with a game protagonist. They're fictional avatars. I also don't feel the need to somehow feel 'connected' to any protagonists in any other entertainment medium.
If I needed to 'connect' with a protagonist, I'm sure I'd be in a huge minority, because I'd need to find a slightly overweight white guy (read: super pale, the sun is my enemy) with strawberry blond hair, red beard who is of English, Irish, French and Russian Jew descent. Last I checked, there are about 0 protagonists like that.
Should I try to get SJW's to help me demand characters that represent me?
It's not that there shouldn't be more diversity, but diversity for diversity's sake is just as bad as no diversity at all. If the narrative doesn't have specifics needed for a protagonist, then, sure, go hog wild with the customization options. Let people make bisexual polar bears that worship the Flying Spaghetti Monster if people want to make that. If the setting and narrative call for something else, then deal with it.
Do I care if the only way to play Tomb Raider is to play a woman? No. That's the character. If I had a PS Vita and was interested in the Assassin's Creed for it, would I care that I'm playing a black woman? No.
It's, of course, ironic that Anita's tweet has a scene from GTA V as the preview pic for the video... because I'm fairly certain if Rockstar made a GTA game where it was a woman as the main protagonist, running around killing people, etc. she'd decry that just as fast as being a blatant misrepresentation of women.
If a game was made where all the cannon fodder enemies were women, even if it is a women doing all the killing of them, there would be cries about glorifying violence against women.
That's the problem with diversity for diversity's sake. It tries to please everyone, but will still somehow offend someone. And then people will complain about how the new diversity is somehow misrepresenting a race/gender/sexual preference/religion/etc.
It's a battle that cannot be won. Diversify just to make people happy, and you'll piss off just as many as you made happy.