So basically: You're excited for No Man's Sky and weren't excited for Titanfall, thus one seemed pushy while the other isn't.
The community was hyping up titanfall too. It was, y'know, actually playable and had good feedback back when it was pulling all those awards(like evolve this year), which is generally an important thing to know about a game.
Alright maybe if I reword. First off, yes I am looking forward to No Man's Sky and yes, I was looking forward to TF (Though admittedly I was much more skeptical and less interested in it then I currently am for NMS).
Now, here's what I mean. The reason I call TF's hype manufactured is because it was pushed so strongly by the press and MS. The hype train centered around it being this amazing, revolutionary, once in a lifetime gaming messiah, the next CoD, the savior of the X1, etc. We all saw the countless and constant articles, we all saw how it was the only thing MS could talk about. They really wanted to make it happen.
The game comes out, it's okay, not bad by any means, but certainly not the revolution the media hyped it up to be. Sells very well first month, completely collapses the second month and all of a sudden no one's even talking about it. That's what I mean by manufactured.
Does that mean there wasn't any real hype? Of course not, I'm sure there were plenty of people looking forward to it, and plenty that were swept up by the hype train. However, I don't feel the media's overhyping translated to the audience. Compare that to NMS, who's hype started the moment the game was announced. The media's picking up on it more, but the hype is strongest within the community.
You get what I'm saying? I'm not saying TF is a bad game, and I'm not trying to insult anyone that thinks it's great. I'm just talking about the manufactured hype aspect of it. TF2 will likely be hyped, but nowhere near the degree of TF because:
1. MS is not going to be behind it (if it's indeed multplat)
2. Most importantly, people won't get fooled a second time and will know what to expect.
The Bloodborne leaks were pretty hyped for just a few pictures and snippets of a trailer. Wasn't it over a million views?
Bloodborne is a great example of genuine, community hype.