Living in St. Louis is so depressing for me. Do any of you people on Neogaf live here?
For starters, there is a huge disparity between St. Louis City and St. Louis County. Ferguson and similar problem areas tend to be on the inner belt of the County, not part of the city. That said, while St. Louis City cops are far better at dealing with people who's skin runs a bit darker than mauve, it isn't like North City isn't a massively disadvantaged swath of people itself.
St. Louis is, overall, a great city. It is however still dealing with racial issues many other cities made progress on because it's geographic location made white flight too convenient. The end result is that every neighborhood is effectively it's own little cultural enclave.
The whole "what high school did you go to" question really fucked with my wife when we first moved here. She didn't get why everyone always asked that. Then I explained to her that for the average St. Louis resident the high school they went to basically identifies the following:
1. race
2. religion
3. economic background
4. cultural background
5. likelihood of having gone to college
etc. etc.. If you say over the phone or on an application that you went to Vashon or Roosevelt the person you're talking to or employer doesn't need to ask race, they know you're 99% likely to be black. If you go to Lindbergh you're almost definitely white, at least middle class, likely upper middle to high end period, christian etc..
It basically isn't really a city. It is a collection of tightly clustered medium to large towns. In some ways that's really nice. The Hill is great in large part because the Italian american culture there never faded. Dogtown is similar in that regard (though not quite as well off and developed). There are clear examples of where neighborhood gentrification isn't actually a bad thing like Tower Grove and all the beautiful historic brick homes that have been restored. Overall it is a pretty great city for those of us who aren't burdened with a pejorative view towards the traditionally "bad" (i.e. BLACK) neighborhoods.
You wouldn't believe how many people I've worked with were concerned for my safety when the wife and I chose to live in Tower Grove, or are dumbstruck when I talk about going to Crown Candy Kitchen or Pappy's, both located north of the 64/40 interstate imaginary line that so many St. Louis county people treat like a contemporary Mason-Dixon Line in reverse.
The biggest thing I keep trying to tell people in St. Louis is this: we make this city what it is, for good or for bad. If you don't like St. Louis being portrayed as a racially biased part of the country then do something about it, because right now it sure as hell is. It has problems, but the solutions to those problems are the same things that make St. Louis an interesting city with the potential for vibrant cultural and economic booms in the near term if and when people finally stop making assumptions based on what their parents told them were the bad neighborhoods and instead get out and experience those neighborhoods.