I like one woman that doesn't seem to like me. Her coworker seems to like me. Ribbit.
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hydrophilic attack
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This isn't quite as shocking as Denko guy.
Yes, clearly going to a thread and saying search posts by this user is the same as sniffing girls hair, talking about being in love with adolescents, taking pics of girls "pale legs" without their knowledge, putting them in dungeons, running on stage and snatching them, taking credit for sexual harassing them on twitter, talking about "buying them" like they're objects, etc.
Yes, all of that is equally the same as searching post history that literally takes a few mins.
The k-pop thread isn't creepy in the slightest. Please keep your brash generalisations and ignorance to your self.
Dokish gets called out a lot in the thread for the weird / offensive shit he has posted. He's also been banned numerous times.
People going through more than his posts in here.
I also find it comedic that a lot of people were "you don't know her at all, you just know her at work". Are happy to condemn someone from some, probably out of context, forum posts.
Doks weird. He has issues. A lot stem from his really average grasp of english and mis-communication because of it. Some isn't, some is just plain offensive. So I'm not really defending him. Just some of y'all are goin a bit far.
hydrophilic attack
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Hey, we should point and laugh and have fun at his expense.
But we shouldn't go all Internet detective on his ass. Not cool.
But we shouldn't go all Internet detective on his ass. Not cool.
Angelus Errare
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Yea I'm totes against digging up forum posts. That shit is private yo, not cool man...
lolwut? The mental decathlons some of you mofos are going through equating post history with taking creeper shots of completely clueless girls/smelling hair/dating 12 year olds.
lolwut? The mental decathlons some of you mofos are going through equating post history with taking creeper shots of completely clueless girls/smelling hair/dating 12 year olds.
Dude Abides
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One guy isn't people. And finding his instagram account that he presumably linked here isn't exactly Batman level detective work.
hydrophilic attack
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Going through post history is ok. Trying to find his accounts on stuff like Instagram and figure out his identity in real life is not.
He posted all that shit in the thread, there was no True Detective gymnastics going on. You see, that's what crazy people tend to do.
Messofanego
Banned
Man, it just gets creepier but at least the other members of KpopGAF make him out to be an outlier.
I know it's quick and dirty but I couldn't resist...
Bobby Roberts
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This is obviously not true. It's at the least "slightly" creepy in that it appears to house Dokish's weird shit. Almost all of the creepy shit people are posting as examples of his questionable behavior are coming from that thread.
No. If anything, it could probably be said some of y'all ain't been going far enough. "Doks weird" is a pretty severe understatement.
You're attempting to draw a straight line between looking at the guy's posts and looking at the guy's instagram to behaviors from a man you have to freely admit "has issues."
I understand, from hitting the "find more posts" under your own screenname that you're a very frequent visitor to the K-Pop threads yourself, so I guess it's kinda understandable you'd wanna try to mitigate the negative atmosphere that is now clouding one of your favorite online hangouts. But I'm going to suggest that adopting an argumentative strategy that's maybe two steps removed from "You're the ones that are crazy!" isn't the best way to clear that particular air. Maybe instead try to distance yourself from Dokish,(like other members of that sub-community have done and are doing now) as opposed to trying to defend him and shame those who are upset at his behavior.
There is no way you can pursue the line you're currently pursuing and come out of it looking good. Point blank. You're starting from a bad stance and stretching yourself even further the more you try to suggest that holding a poster responsible for the things he's openly posted is somehow a bad thing.
No problem! I'd only seen his posts from here and the one or two that were linked. Given the creepiness of all the other posts popping up and the K-pop posters backing up his mental state, happy (that's not the right word here) to apply the "sicko" tag to him.
ViewtifulJC
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Wow
So, NeoGAF Community threads huh
So, NeoGAF Community threads huh
John Kowalski
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the kpop guys are alright dudes don't bully them!!
Hey, AusGAF is pure and clean, thank you very much.
SecretMoblin
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yikes, eek a bit, and air.
freenudemacusers
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well, kpop isn't just a wall of images tho
this is a lie
i went into kpopgaf during my brief kpop era and all it had was a bunch of images of the kpop girls
and i got dragged for getting into God's Generation late. trash.
freenudemacusers
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how much kebab did you buy during this era?
Supermanisdead
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nobody is here for girls genocide. get into sistar
You know there's no way you typed this out with a straight face
many, many creepy posts add up to a pattern and we've got veteran K-poppers coming in here to note the general creepiness they got out of his posts over long periods.
You even said so yourself.
CarpeDeezNutz
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So community is the "dark underbelly" of gaf?
Why does this have to do with k-pop thread though? Quote all you can from there, but we haven't done anything wrong as a community thread. If you don't like what is in general being posted there, just don't enter that thread.
If some person has questionable behaviour, go blame him, don't generalize with this type of things.
If some person has questionable behaviour, go blame him, don't generalize with this type of things.
Wolf Dawgz
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Read Lionel's post on the top of page 6.
outunderthestars
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The amount of objectification and borderline fetishistic behavior in that thread is striking.
This is just a sampling from a single page of the thread:
For a "music thread" it seems to have an almost obsessive focus on pictures of young girls.
He has some troubles expressing things sometimes and can sound weird. Example: saying females.
Also, he is not white, those pics are not from him, but what does his skin colour matter in this topic?
The amount of logical fallacies, ignorance, and generalisations in this post are genuinely staggering.
To say that a community that out right condemns said behaviour, but has no mod authority (there's no mod that I know of that reads k-pop-gaf anymore) to regulate, is creepy, based on one persons actions is all three wrapped up in one. We're not mods. We can't do anything about it. When really bad stuff gets posted by ANYONE in the thread, they get reported, but that's as much as we can do about it.
It's similar to me saying that a Tennis Club is racist because one of the members belongs to the KKK. It would be a horribly ignorant generalisation to make.
I'm not defending Dokish. I'm one of his biggest critics. Doesn't make digging for his instagram right. His posts here ? sure. I just called it out before people started going deeper. Cause it gets creepy. But unless everyone who condemned him for those posts, and also said "he doesn't really know her, you only know her from work" went back and read the posts surrounding his statements, most are committing the same crime. (not the contents of his posts, but one of possibly taking stuff out of context: Him, her friendliness, Them his posts).
About the only place I post here is k-pop-gaf, that is hardly a secret.
And I'm going to suggest that I can think for my self and don't need to have my thought patterns dictated by someone trying to play moral high ground like some bible thumper screaming "think of the children" who is just trying to use said position to justify his own actions.
Just because one action is wrong, it doesn't justify everything that follows.
What's the problem of liking young no underage girls? The fuck with this shit posting now?
That's basically the k-pop industry for you.
The Return of
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K-pop and popgaf should just be one thread
I'm from the K-pop thread. I don't really like K-pop. I'm more into Ballad and Indie artists, both sit around and use their voices.
The women and men of K-pop are PERFORMERS. They dance, sing, act, go on variety/reality shows. They do it all. They are very much apart of K-pop themselves, not just their music. It's why they are called Idols not singers.
But yeah thanks for cherry picking one POST.
Bobby Roberts
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Bullshit. Knock it off.
You can, and you have. Positive examples of such are posted just above. I acknowledge that in the post itself. You're the one that said the thread wasn't creepy in the slightest. That's obviously not true. That's not to say you guys aren't doing anything about it. You are. But you, as a person, posting right now, are not helping yourself or your community by worrying more about whether your pic-posting community is being maligned, and trying to equate people's rooting out Dok's bullshit to out-and-out stalking.
Good thing I didn't make that generalization, simply pointed out your assertion that the thread wasn't creepy in the slightest was bullshit.
I don't even know what these two paragraphs are getting at, and I don't know that you do either. Which is what makes your choosing to proclaim how much you can think for yourself seem pretty ill-timed there.
You're being super-fucking-defensive and you don't need to be.
It's not a problem of liking them, it's a problem of focusing on their sexual desirability over their music in a music thread.
If I posted about Lady Gaga's latest with 50 ass shots, I'm not a music fan.
SteveWinwood
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what in the fuck
It's not a music thread, it's a pop thread.
HORRORSHØW
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hey dokish, did you get the advice you're looking for?
The k-pop thread is okay in my book. 56k warning.
Are yall posting gifs of performances? Or pictures of their ass?
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