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[Xun]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

Fucking hell man, I'm so sorry to hear that.

 

[intheinbetween]

dude, dump her, I'm being serious, I lived a very similar situation and I got stucked with her for a year and a half even knowing she was emotionally cheating on me.

just do it!

 

[NeoGeoOwner]

Hey Brah. If you need a friend or a fuck buddy. Call me.

 

[Nuklear]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

Let me guess she has your kid still and doesn't get into any trouble for filing false charges.

 

[ronito]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

Yeah man, I had a friend that went through something incredibly similar. His ex-wife accused him of domestic abuse and rape. They took him to court and it lasted only a day because the ex-wife's testimony completely fell apart and the judge chastized the prosecutor for letting it get that far (that and my friend luckily kept all his IM logs and texts from her). In the end the charges were dropped. Still, it practically ruined my friends life. Years later he's still paying for lawyer fees and still dealing with the implications (no one wants to hire someone that was accused for battery and rape even if charges were dropped, an article with your name on it in connection to that stuff is practically professional poison)

 

[kirblar]

Have you tried filing charges against her for kidnapping, or something similar, in order to get your daughter away from her? I would not trust her to raise a sea monkey.

 

[Skullface]

Fucking hell man, I'm so sorry to hear that.

I'm going to do my best to respond to everyone here, because it means a lot that you guys even took the time to read my post

...But is your avatar George Harrison? I have a tattoo of him on my forearm with the phrase "All Things Must Pass" underneath the portrait. I got it years before this event, but that sentiment, as well as that song and album got me through many tough times.

 

[Brazil]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

By the fucking heavens, man. I'd ask to be locked for longer so I wouldn't commit murder in that situation.

I hope everything works out for you and your daughter. It really sounds like you could even put that woman in jail if you wanted to.

 

[Tadaima]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

So basically your fiancé had you locked in prison under fabricated claims while she kidnapped your daughter... and your daughter is currently living with this woman.

You need a better lawyer.

 

[SalvaPot]

Fist of all, thanks for reading and the show of support. GAF really is an awesome place.



It's always been tough, even now. I keep it together by telling myself her mother will hate her for what she did.



This is an ongoing process...



You're not kidding. Believe it or not, I heavily abridged the story.



She said I shoved her durning an argument, which was bullshit. She also told the cops this happened the night before. Red flag for a lie anyone?

Anyway, thanks for your kind words.



It's always good to know how to talk to the police. After their initial investigation, they asked for my side of the story. Told them it would be best to have a lawyer present. I had no idea what she told them.



She's with her...



I will do. Thank you.



Yeah, Christmas was really tough on me this year...



Thanks man.

Sorry to hear that man, be strong! Justice will be done and you should be able to see you little girl soon.

 

[Dreams-Visions]

Yeah, Christmas was really tough on me this year...

Fuck man I felt those feels way over here. I'm sorry man. Relationships are really a roll of the dice sometimes. You just don't know what someone is capable of until someone shows you their final form.

We buried a cousin a couple of weeks ago because her live-in boyfriend didn't want to lose her. So he shot her multiple times before shooting himself.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/local...8d0917-90c9-40ea-914b-32b1c8119ff9_story.html

Be careful and take your time getting to know potential mates, GAF. And when someone shows you who they really are...believe them and be prepared to walk the fuck out for your own health and safety. Don't let love blind you from the cold hard reality that some people are fucked up and NO your job is NOT to turn hoes and abusers into "good wo(men)". Fuck that.

 

[Death Metalist]

Holy shit, Skullface. Reading that made me pissed off to the point of punching my table. What a demon, that's not a woman. That's a fucking demon.

 

[Mariolee]

That is rough Skullface. If I had a kid, I couldn't imagine being away from him or her for a year especially knowing he or she was with some scumbag. I hope everything works out for the better man. Will be prayin for you.

 

[giancarlo123x]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

:/ Some people are just fucking monsters. One day she'll get whats coming to her and you'll have your little girl back.

 

[Skullface]

Fuck man I felt those feels way over here. I'm sorry man. Relationships are really a roll of the dice sometimes. You just don't know what someone is capable of until someone shows you their final form.

We buried a cousin a couple of weeks ago because her live-in boyfriend didn't want to lose her. So he shot her multiple times before shooting himself.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/local...8d0917-90c9-40ea-914b-32b1c8119ff9_story.html

Be careful and take your time getting to know potential mates, GAF. And when someone shows you who they really are...believe them and be prepared to walk the fuck out for your own health and safety. Don't let love blind you from the cold hard reality that some people are fucked up and NO your job is NOT to turn hoes and abusers into "good wo(men)". Fuck that.

Wow, I'm really sorry man. We buried a cousin recently too. She jumped in front of a train after giving birth to twins. She had schizoaffective, but there's some evidence that she was murdered and placed in front of the train to cover it up. We may never get justice. Her funeral was on my daughter's 2nd birthday, her first birthday away from me. Where was I? In a fucking court house when I should have been with my family for the burial. Hell, she never should have died. I should have been with my baby girl.

 

[Skullface]

Holy shit, Skullface. Reading that made me pissed off to the point of punching my table. What a demon, that's not a woman. That's a fucking demon.

Remember Kaz's rage towards Paz at the end of Ground Zeroes? My rage was on that level. If I got bailed out day one I would have started yelling at her like a madman about fiddles.

 

[Azuran]

Fist of all, thanks for reading and the show of support. GAF really is an awesome place.



It's always been tough, even now. I keep it together by telling myself her mother will hate her for what she did.



This is an ongoing process...



You're not kidding. Believe it or not, I heavily abridged the story.



She said I shoved her durning an argument, which was bullshit. She also told the cops this happened the night before. Red flag for a lie anyone?

Anyway, thanks for your kind words.



It's always good to know how to talk to the police. After their initial investigation, they asked for my side of the story. Told them it would be best to have a lawyer present. I had no idea what she told them.



She's with her...



I will do. Thank you.



Yeah, Christmas was really tough on me this year...



Thanks man.

Hope everything goes well for you Skullface. It's disgusting how easily a life can be ruined by a stupid lie.

 

[Bboy AJ]

Skullface, man, I am so sorry. Good luck in February. Keep all this evidence for when your daughter is grown and potentially hates you. I hope it never comes to that.

 

[Skullface]

Thanks guys. I'll be back in about 20 minutes. I'm going to grab a bite to eat and a little something to drown my sorrows temporarily.

 

[Takashi]

Damn Skullface, I'm sorry you have to go through all that. It pisses me off how people can be so despicable and get away with shit like that. Is there anything you can do to get your kid away from her?

 

[Nightbird]

Wow, I'm really sorry man. We buried a cousin recently too. She jumped in front of a train after giving birth to twins. She had schizoaffective, but there's some evidence that she was murdered and placed in front of the train to cover it up. We may never get justice. Her funeral was on my daughter's 2nd birthday, her first birthday away from me. Where was I? In a fucking court house when I should have been with my family for the burial. Hell, she never should have died. I should have been with my baby girl.

This is horrible.

I can only imagine how this feels like, and i am truly sorry for you Skullface. You don't deserve this.

 

[Skullface]

Damn Skullface, I'm sorry you have to go through all that. It pisses me off how people can be so despicable and get away with shit like that. Is there anything you can do to get your kid away from her?

It's complicated... I lost my job because of this, so I decided to move back in with the folks and go back to school. I don't even have the means to provide for her reliably at this current moment. I went from making about 80k per year to about 20k. I hope to be able to afford to be her primary provider once I finish my bachelors.

Edit: I feel really bad, I never intended to hijack this thread. I just wanted to let OP know I can relate.

 

[SpacePirate Ridley]

Im really sorry for what happened to you Skullface. It sounds like a horrible experience.
And I thought I had a horrible 2014.

Hope you can have a good time with your daughter soon.

 

[Brinbe]

Holy Jeebus, these stories. Why do people have to be so awful? =(

 

[CosmicSmash]

What a way to close out 2014. Fuck!

 

[Cow Mengde]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

It's stories like this that makes me appreciate whatever bad things that might have happened, someone out there has it so much worse. Very sorry you had to go through that. Good to know things have gotten better for you. Unfortunately, this is also why I have trust issues.

 

[Vigilant Walrus]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

That sounds insane. It always scares me when people who are accused of something don't get the benefit of the doubt. I understand that domestic violence is heavily skewed in the other direction, but even if there is a small chance, doesn't a person deserve a fair hearing?

 

[Barzul]

It's complicated... I lost my job because of this, so I decided to move back in with the folks and go back to school. I don't even have the means to provide for her reliably at this current moment. I went from making about 80k per year to about 20k. I hope to be able to afford to be her primary provider once I finish my bachelors.

Edit: I feel really bad, I never intended to hijack this thread. I just wanted to let OP know I can relate.

Fuck

 

[Exploratory]

No way in hell I'm going to post the link or the logs.

I'm going to the cinema in like an hour, a lady friend asked me out to go see The Hobbit 3, so this day might not be so bad after all. Will try to smash it for my bros xD
Will update the thread later tonight.

I don't believe you.

 

[Takashi]

It's complicated... I lost my job because of this, so I decided to move back in with the folks and go back to school. I don't even have the means to provide for her reliably at this current moment. I went from making about 80k per year to about 20k. I hope to be able to afford to be her primary provider once I finish my bachelors.

Edit: I feel really bad, I never intended to hijack this thread. I just wanted to let OP know I can relate.

Keep at it man, and don't give up. I know it doesn't mean much coming from some rando on the internet, but good luck. I hope your diligence pays off and you're able to get your daughter back.

 

[jts]

I don't believe you.

Heathen.

 

[ProtoCents]

God, the OP made me sick to my stomach. My ex-fiancé started acting really sketchy when she started college. I could always sense that she would frequently be using school as a front for other shit since it would take up so much of her time and she was only taking two classes.

So one night at around 8PM, she told me that she was going to Dunkin Donuts for coffee and to study. I let our daughter sleep in our bed that night, and she didn't fall asleep until around midnight. That Dunkins had closed an hour ago at that point, it's only a 10 minute walk away... I was genuinely worried, and I couldn't reach her because her phone was off. In the end, she comes home at 3AM and feeds me some bullshit story about how she was driving around with her friend that just broke up with her boyfriend to console her. The goddamn irony...

I checked her phone the next day and saw a text that said "I want to tie you up and fuck you in every hole". I couldn't keep it together to read the rest. She denied it when I confronted her, and when I was finally direct and showed her the evidence from her own phone, she have me more excuses.

After days of arguing, I find two cops on my front porch as I stepped out to head to work that morning. They were there for me... I was arrested for domestic assault and was held for two weeks. The accusation was complete bullshit. She used that opportunity to leave the state with my daughter and the guy she had been cheating on me with. She knew that I'd never let her leave with my baby girl, so she had me locked up to carry out her plan.

Fucking girls dude... Well, as it turns out, I found myself a much more attractive girl that's ok with the baby mamma baggage.

Glad you handled business OP.

And now we know the origin story.

Easy to see where it all came from now.

But seriously, damn. Sorry brother.

 

[StarlordDial]

Is this how MGS Skullface in real life is born?

Spoiler

edit goddamit beaten ahaha

 

[Skullface]

And now we know the origin story.



Easy to see where it all came from now.

But seriously, damn. Sorry brother.

In all seriousness, that game helped ease my pain in some small way way when it came out. It was something I could try and get excited for. I've been a huge fan of the series since MGS1.

Edit: My username was in fact inspired by MGS:GZ

 

[BlueTsunami]

Soooo five more hours till 'The Battle of Five Armies' is over?

 

[Mexican Sting]

Damn, Skullface, that's rough. I had a tremendously shitty lead up to Christmas, and spent it alone, as well. I kind of never want to talk to anyone in my family again. That story, and the size of the photo on mobile makes Tom looks so cold and scared in your avatar; makes me wanna give you a big hug. Here's this, instead:

 

[Skullface]

Soooo five more hours till 'The Battle of Five Armies' is over?

"there is joy in sucking dick"

Wut?

 

[BlueTsunami]

"there is joy in sucking dick"

Wut?

Posted "there is no joy in sucking dick" years ago and the Gods turned their gaze towards me

 

[Skullface]

Damn, Skullface, that's rough. I had a tremendously shitty lead up to Christmas, and spent it alone, as well. I kind of never want to talk to anyone in my family again. That story, and the size of the photo on mobile makes Tom looks so cold and scared in your avatar; makes me wanna give you a big hug. Here's this, instead:

Thanks man. I'm sorry you spent Christmas alone. I don't know your story, but I want to tell you that if ever your world falls to shit, they're the only ones that will really care for you. Then again, I know some families really can be shitty...

 

[CornBurrito]

Which ones?

If you're actually interested I can try finding the exact threads. But there's been a lot of "help I think person A is cheating on person B what should I do" and the general response is "None of your business"

 

[Hydrus]

Yo skullface, I'm not sure if this is legal, but couldn't you just take her back home to your state when you visit? Yes I know this is basically kidnapping but its no different then what your ex did. If anything you guys are gonna have to duke it out in court in your state.

 

[Xun]

I'm going to do my best to respond to everyone here, because it means a lot that you guys even took the time to read my post

...But is your avatar George Harrison? I have a tattoo of him on my forearm with the phrase "All Things Must Pass" underneath the portrait. I got it years before this event, but that sentiment, as well as that song and album got me through many tough times.

It is indeed!

A man who had such wisdom and I'm glad he has helped you in the times of need.

Good luck with everything.

 

[Skullface]

If you're actually interested I can try finding the exact threads. But there's been a lot of "help I think person A is cheating on person B what should I do" and the general response is "None of your business"

If someone had some tangible evidence, I would have loved to have known sooner rather than later in my case. Everyone is different though... "None of your business" is probably always the safest bet.

Hell, that's the stance I took when I found out my brother was cheating on his wife. I just thought he was a dirtbag for a few months. Now they're getting a divorce, my sister in law has a new boyfriend, and the four of them go on double dates together. I just don't get life sometimes...

 

[Symax]

You shouldn't take my advice but you should. Dump her pronto. Like don't even bother talking it out, just straight up end it.

Yep that's the best way to do it. Break up with her. Don't talk about you reasons or your feelings. She doesn't deserve your time and you know it. Girls love drama, don't give her any of that. You will get the best revenge possible by going no contact. She will even come back crying and beginning you for forgiveness. But you will leave her in pain without any feeling of closer, by showing her how little you care about her. No contact immediately. Use the time to improve yourself. Hit the gym, read a book, learn a new skill. You will become the best version of yourself after that. Trust me. No contact!

 

[Rur0ni]

Fuck man I felt those feels way over here. I'm sorry man. Relationships are really a roll of the dice sometimes. You just don't know what someone is capable of until someone shows you their final form.

We buried a cousin a couple of weeks ago because her live-in boyfriend didn't want to lose her. So he shot her multiple times before shooting himself.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/local...8d0917-90c9-40ea-914b-32b1c8119ff9_story.html

Be careful and take your time getting to know potential mates, GAF. And when someone shows you who they really are...believe them and be prepared to walk the fuck out for your own health and safety. Don't let love blind you from the cold hard reality that some people are fucked up and NO your job is NOT to turn hoes and abusers into "good wo(men)". Fuck that.

This is an example of why you don't stir shit up. You don't know what people will do. But gaf is hungry, whatever.

 

[Vincent Alexander]

This thread has been an emotional roller coaster. We've hit all the bases, including anger, happiness, and damn depressing.

 

[BeatResetsTheWorld]

If you're actually interested I can try finding the exact threads. But there's been a lot of "help I think person A is cheating on person B what should I do" and the general response is "None of your business"

Well that sounds like suspected cheating of completely unrelated people. This is definite cheating with the OP being one of the people directly involved (cheated on in his case)

I'd say those key distinctions make all the difference

But, I'm sure they're more nuanced than that so I really have to see those threads

 

[NoctisVsStar]

not all women..but damn there's some vicious evil females out-there. I hope everyone finds a keeper. I wanted to tell how my ex relationship ended but i don't want this thread to get deviated by fillers and turning into a confession thread.

Skullface keep your head up bro wishing for the best in your current predicament.

 

[Joel Was Right]

Well that sounds like suspected cheating of completely unrelated people. This is definite cheating with the OP being one of the people directly involved (cheated on in his case)

I'd say those key distinctions make all the difference

But, I'm sure they're more nuanced than that so I really have to see those threads

No. Many really did adopt that view and defend it vehemently. Furthermore, they did so consistently in several examples. I can remember one particular example when a member conceded the point that - were they the victim - they'd want to know, and yet ironically, here they were telling others to 'mind their own business'.

It was mind boggling.

 

[NolbertoS]

It's complicated... I lost my job because of this, so I decided to move back in with the folks and go back to school. I don't even have the means to provide for her reliably at this current moment. I went from making about 80k per year to about 20k. I hope to be able to afford to be her primary provider once I finish my bachelors.

Edit: I feel really bad, I never intended to hijack this thread. I just wanted to let OP know I can relate.

Its OK skullface, GAF as the collective supports all, plus I'm sure Revoh is gonna be back tomorrow to post after telling GAF how he got nooky and stuff . Sucks that you went from an 80K job to 20K. I'm guessinh your ex's police statement and your jail time damaged your credentials. You shoulf get a better lawyer to clear your name and get back your daughter.