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[riotous]

Your friend sounds very narcissistic, but that doesn't excuse the husband from cheating on his wife (not that that's necessarily what you're focusing on). If not breaking up a family is so important, it shouldn't matter whether his wife had become an unattractive SO after having the husband's children.

The wife as well as the OP's future should matter to them. I'm not discussing fault, excusing anything, etc. Literally, not the topic I'm discussing. Placing blame won't change the future for someone cheated on; self reflection can.

And it's quite possible the wife and/or the OP (the 2 people cheated on) might self reflect and discover they feel they couldn't have done anything better in the relationship (and/or better for themselves, as the OP has already reflected on, he understands now he should have left earlier and saw signs.)

The point is that it's important to examine your role in situations. It's not about fault, it's about the role you played.

 

[Skullface]

Full disclosure... Feel like it's necessary here considering the topic matter. I was a notorious cheater between the ages of 14-16 years old. Then I grew up.

Still... Karma may have caught up with me in my 20's.

 

[Glorified G]

Considering he's cheated on a GF in the past, I'm sure he might not like snitches too much and can sympathize with the cheating husband.



You got it!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=42521608&postcount=99



But it's cool guys, his reasons were good!

 

[Fink]

You got it!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=42521608&postcount=99

What is a good reason to cheat? You're always gonna hurt the other person involved. Nothing is keeping you attached to that person. Grow a pair and break up before you sleep with other people. It's inconsiderate to mess around with other people when the person you're cheating on is waiting around for you.

 

[Cow Mengde]

Full disclosure... Feel like it's necessary here considering the topic matter. I was a notorious cheater between the ages of 14-16 years old.

At 14? I bare barely figure out how sex worked when I was 14. I'm not even joking, and I had sex ed.

 

[Skullface]

At 14? I bare barely figure out how sex worked when I was 14. I'm not even joking, and I had sex ed.

Lost my virginity at either 12 or 13. Not sure if I remember correctly. But I also moved around and the only social media at that time was AIM. Not excusing my actions by any means, but having sex at such a young age without the social eye in the sky made it easier and somewhat more acceptable at the time.

Edit: I'm sure you missed it since it was such a large thread, but our sex ed started when I was 9.

 

[You Are Viewtiful]

Considering he's cheated on a GF in the past, I'm sure he might not like snitches too much and can sympathize with the cheating husband.



You got it!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=42521608&postcount=99



But it's cool guys, his reasons were good!

Fail... just so much fail. What is it with cheaters and the need to blame other people?

 

[Cow Mengde]

Lost my virginity at either 12 or 13. Not sure if I remember correctly. But I also moved around and the only social media at that time was AIM. Not excusing my actions by any means, but having sex at such a young age without the social eye in the sky made it easier and somewhat more acceptable at the time.

Edit: I'm sure you missed it since it was such a large thread, but our sex ed started when I was 9.

I'm probably around your age. I remember sex ed starting in maybe 4th or 5th grade. In my defense, I knew the Velociraptors were wrong in Jurassic Park. I also thought they engineered all the dinosaurs to be female so they could have babies (I didn't know what breeding meant ok). Jurassic Park came out when I was around 10 or 11.

 

[oyoshimaru]

You got it!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=42521608&postcount=99



But it's cool guys, his reasons were good!

holy shit!

 

[ModBot]

Since the thread has entered the "insults back and forth" period of the evening, I think it's fair to say that it has run its course. Condolences to the OP, hope everything works out for the best in the end.