I wasn't asking for an example of her, I wanted an example of Batman going through something similar. In her cover, she's at the behest of The Joker, a pretty normalish villain; no fear gas, no nutso super powers. Counter covers use Scarecrow, who is famed for bringing people to irrational fear. If there was a cover showing Scarecrow terrorizing Barbara, I wouldn't mind it at all, because it makes 100% perfect sense.
I don't really agree. The joker is a pretty freakish and terrifying villain already by itself, if you think about it. I wouldn't need any fear gas to be pissing myself if I was in that position.
Now, in the case of Batgirl (as in, if we really take the general idea of Batgirl in the DC universe), most remember the killing joke as an important part of the history behind the character, and her very specific trauma towards the joker. Not only was she shot and abused, then subsequently became the Oracle because forced in a wheelchair, her father also went through horrific abuse, and bruce himself was put to the test. That is a VERY intense relationship with a villain i'd say.Which, I think, justifies the cover as "This is what Joker is specifically to her, because he's a horrible fucking maniac". It's absolutely not a nice sight no, but it's justified and I don't put it in the same malignant category as other more sexist covers who would blatantly exploit the imagery.
After that, if we wanna talk about the overall writing of comics, that's a whole other story. Usually I'm not a fan of how most mainstream comic series are written as a whole