I give up. I find my cousin more sexually attractive than my GF and she dumps me?

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Anyway I knew what I was getting into posting this here. Some good advice as well as deserved ridicule. BTW my gamer tag is jea song. I play gears judgment, halo 4, and borderlands 2. Feel free to add me, as I dont have much friends on live anyway. Damn I didn't realize 360 had such a huge library of games and cheap too. Might not jump back current gen until something really worth it. Having a blast with 360
 
Sho_Nuff82 said:
Rereading OP's last relationship thread, it appears that his tag was in reference to breaking up with his last cheating GF. So I can understand why he'd be so jaded, this relationship started just after that one ended if the timeline's are correct.

This may sound kind of fucked OP, but maybe you should start seeking women without so much...baggage? Having kids isn't an automatic red flag, but you seem to have a type and keep running after them. If having kids is important to you, maybe you should start a family fresh? You're 29, not 40, no need to dive in head first into these emasculating situations one after another.
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His most recent GF (now ex) was a rebound to top it off? Prior GF dumped him in September. Then he met the "love of his life" that same September ?

I don't even. Poor girl.
 
Jea Song said:
Anyway I knew what I was getting into posting this here. Some good advice as well as deserved ridicule. BTW my gamer tag is jea song. I play gears judgment, halo 4, and borderlands 2. Feel free to add me, as I dont have much friends on live anyway. Damn I didn't realize 360 had such a huge library of games and cheap too. Might not jump back current gen until something really worth it. Having a blast with 360
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Damn man get a PS4. We can play and be miserable together.
 
Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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Yeah, I would have left your ass stone cold after that one. Sorry OP.
 
Jea Song said:
Anyway I knew what I was getting into posting this here. Some good advice as well as deserved ridicule. BTW my gamer tag is jea song. I play gears judgment, halo 4, and borderlands 2. Feel free to add me, as I dont have much friends on live anyway. Damn I didn't realize 360 had such a huge library of games and cheap too. Might not jump back current gen until something really worth it. Having a blast with 360
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Sorry man, but I find current gen games graphically more attractive.
 
I want to know what kind of 'sex' jokes were shared between the op and the cousin in years past. my guess is that they are all similar to the drunk joke, and cousin illuminated the other girl to this fact.

be surprised that girl dumps you after being confronted with a history of cousin lusting brehs.
 
Jea Song said:
I knew coming into this I would be flamed. deserving too.

Here's my point.

An (drunken) inappropriate comment to another female is enough to break up a relationship? Yes or no?
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If you know you make weird decisions when drunk I think you kinda lose that excuse. Right?
 
Spaced Harrier said:
You broke the golden rule.

I was with a group of guys once, where at you know 2 am ish, one announced he was going home to "fuck his ugly girlfriend", "She needs to go to the gym" blah blah.
Now this is a bunch of guys who would not wince at the most out there insensitive remarks. Whether directed at themselves or others outside the group.
The guy's bravado was annoying for sure, but the reaction of everyone just shuffling there feet waiting for him to leave was telling.

Whatever you think yourself, you don't insult your girlfriend like that. Its so disloyal.
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Yeah. Don't do that OP.
 
Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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...I see what you meant. That actually wouldn't have been as bad if it were actually a dude. Clear joke...

But being that it wasn't, this is your L to bear.
 
Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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Dude.....

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Oh man at that title change.

I have to reiterate OP, wherever you're meeting these girls, go to a different well. Sometimes you have to Costanza your life to get shit moving in a positive direction. You should not be in the "head over heels in love I'm gonna move in and marry this person" phase after 3-5 months, that's not healthy. I feel like you're an emotional guy, and you're being taken advantage of by women with far more experience. Need to find someone more on your level.
 
the joke is awful, but people haven't been addressing that in describing the joke he said he wasn't even fb friends with this girl cousin. Doesn't matter if you used to make jokes like that at some point, if you've been so distanced from a person for so long that you aren't even fb friends it's probably not wise to tell them you wanna fuck them, even jokingly and even if they're not your cousin
JustenP88 said:
What? No.
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Yeah honestly I'm still hung up on "so-pose" too. That is no mere typo. I feel like I need a full life history after that.
Jea Song said:
I knew coming into this I would be flamed. deserving too.

Here's my point.

An (drunken) inappropriate comment to another female is enough to break up a relationship? Yes or no?
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100%. Especially in the context you described, where this girl let you live in her house and you got sloshed with a buddy until 3am instead of hanging out with her and you contacted this now-distant cousin out of the blue. And being drunk does not excuse it. In fact, this was the first time you got drunk around this long-term girlfriend? And this is how you act when you're drunk? Kinda good she found out then, she doesn't like a person who acts the way you do when you're drunk. Seems perfectly fair.

And through all this, her actions have made you feel that all women are crazy and unattractive? Seriously dude, step back here. Clear your head. Take a break from getting boozed up and playing xbox. Focus hard on your job for a while or something. Maybe it'll wake you up.
 
Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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10/10 would break up with again.
 
Ha. I'm not ofended by the title change. I know I messed up. I deserve this. Its funny actually. But hey I'm on GAF here. I knew what I was getting into. Looking for some Xbox live friends too here. It is a gaming site after all.
 
theWB27 said:
If you know you make weird decisions when drunk I think you kinda lose that excuse. Right?
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Exactly. People lean too heavily on the drunk excuse and then abuse it. They use it as a get out of jail free card so they can do whatever the fuck they want and "get away with it".

"But I was drunk when I cheated on you. I couldn't control myself." (Gets drunk again and cheats) "Baby I drank way too much and I cheated on you again. I'm so sorry, I'll never do it again, I swear!" (Gets drunk again and cheats) "Fuck you alcohol ! Why did you always fuck up my relationships ?!?!?"
 
Jea Song said:
Ha. I'm not ofended by the title change. I know I messed up. I deserve this. Its funny actually. But hey I'm on GAF here. I knew what I was getting into. Looking for some Xbox live friends too here. It is a gaming site after all.
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You gonna DM those PS3 friends and tell them that they are more sexually attractive right after I friend you, right?
 
And that's why humor is the most important factor when you judge your comparability level with another person. Lol that was utterly harmless. She wasn't interested in you and that's why she dumped you. She just used that as an excuse. Could have been done unconsciously, even to her.
 
Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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Jea Song said:
Here's the joke. It's stupid, you will all prob say I deserve the breakup but i'll be honest. It's not even a joke really but this is what I said.

She asked me why should she friend me on FB. I listed reasons like I think she is smart, ect

and at the end I said

" And also, you are sexually more attractive than her, LOL"

Look, if I deserved the breakup over that comment. That obviously was stupid, inappropriate go ahead and tear me apart. I want to know if it was justified for her to breakup over that comment.

To be 100% clear nothing ever happened between me and my cousin in any sexual mamer
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That's not too bad man, you could have asked if she was a paleontologist because you got a large bone that needs examining. Other than that, yeah, you're pretty fucked.
 
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