How Long Does Sex Normally Last?
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SaganIsGOAT
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That sounds right for me and my girlfriend. What are people doing? Just fucking as fast as possible?
As someone who last's about an hour I wish I only lasted 10-15 mins.
- She gets dry and it starts hurting for her, and me in the end
- My back is killing me toward the end, and back pain does not make sex better.
- It takes an hour, each time! Who has time for that.
- You start getting bored while doing it
- Girls think that you don't find them attractive and that's why you don't cum
- I have never had a girl make me cum from oral
- And the sensation when you are having sex is less, so sex becomes less enjoyable.
The only good thing about it is that you don't have to worry about cumming too fast.
- She gets dry and it starts hurting for her, and me in the end
- My back is killing me toward the end, and back pain does not make sex better.
- It takes an hour, each time! Who has time for that.
- You start getting bored while doing it
- Girls think that you don't find them attractive and that's why you don't cum
- I have never had a girl make me cum from oral
- And the sensation when you are having sex is less, so sex becomes less enjoyable.
The only good thing about it is that you don't have to worry about cumming too fast.
CloudyTuba
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Regarding PIV: I consider a quickie to be 3-5 minutes. Normal to be 10-15 minutes. 20+ minutes is long and 30+ minutes is a real workout.
When I hear people bragging about going for an hour I'm just thinking, "Why? Isn't she getting sore? Aren't you getting tired?"
I think the longest I went in a single go was some amount over half an hour and by that point it was pretty clear that we both were satisfied and ready to wrap it up. It's a different situation though if you have some breaks, move locations, stuff like that. In that case the whole event can end up going on for quite a while.
When I hear people bragging about going for an hour I'm just thinking, "Why? Isn't she getting sore? Aren't you getting tired?"
I think the longest I went in a single go was some amount over half an hour and by that point it was pretty clear that we both were satisfied and ready to wrap it up. It's a different situation though if you have some breaks, move locations, stuff like that. In that case the whole event can end up going on for quite a while.
TwEE-N-Toast
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A little beer, a little weed and a partner that likes to go for hours is great.
This "only a few minutes" thing does not sound fun at all. Unless it's quickie in public.
This "only a few minutes" thing does not sound fun at all. Unless it's quickie in public.
Mechanized
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Stop masturbating for a month and you'll cum in 10 minutes or less.
NoblesseOblige
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Learn the secret technique of edging and it can last for hours.
...Principate
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Do you not use lube, cunnilugus, mutual hand job, host of other things? It's just sex bro spend time and have fun, if your focusing purely on and failing at getting each other off, of course it's depressing.
edit: that and as stated above masturbate less if you do.
Had the same problem years ago, due to overuse of porn and masturbation. Just give it up and everything will improve.
Just jack off 15minutes before sex.
Per inch.
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DarkJediKnight
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Lol. If all you're doing is pounding away without pacing yourself, I get it.
If your sex session is less than 20 min, you're doing it wrong.
If your sex session is less than 20 min, you're doing it wrong.
GreatestHits
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newtypepilot
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I just wait until she orgasms before I finish, so usually over 30 min.
Well the guy said he last 4 minutes, and he rarely gets sex. So jacking off beforehand will extend his timing.
Youre not ready to go again after 15minutes?
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Frozenprince
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Best thing about some m/m loving is that it's pretty simple to tell if your partner got off or not.
Going more than 20 minutes sounds like hell, though. Must be nice to be young and never need to worry about chafeage.
Going more than 20 minutes sounds like hell, though. Must be nice to be young and never need to worry about chafeage.
You like to have intercourse for multiple hours straight?
Because that is what the op is about.
Guess im the outlier.
The weird thing is that people like you exists a lot .... which makes me think ... if the MIDDLE is 5 minutes than WHAT THE FUCK is the fastest ?
A time between 0 and 5minutes.
Shao Kahn on the Lawn
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No wonder there are so many angry, frustrated people out there. That average isn't even enough time for foreplay.
An hour in between then?
TwEE-N-Toast
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Yeah, got to get rid of my competition's seed somehow.
This cracks me up every time.
Frozenprince
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You forgot the 3 hours of fore and post play.
You are jumping to a few conclusions here, I never said I had any issues getting her off. And just because it takes an hour does not mean you there is no foreplay. And it's not like I just pound away for an hour, you do take "breaks" to do all the other stuff. And lube only gets you so far, it will start hurting for her after a while anyway. And try using a condom for an hour, That will hurt after a while no matter how much lube you use.
And I have tried the whole no masturbation/porn thing, did not work, I am just not very sensitive.
And it's not that sex is not enjoyable, but lasting forever does not make the sex better like some here think. There are no benefits to lasting longer than 10-15 or so mins. this was my whole point.
And I do not find the sex depressing (altough I can see how my post could be seen that way). It has been like this for 17 years, and I lasted just as long the first time. And I don't see it as a problem, it's just something annoying at times. And my current gf knows that it has nothing to do with her, so she is not depressed by it.
I just want people to see that it is not something to work towards, and be happy that you last 10 mins and just go again after 5 mins if you wish.
adamsappel
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5-10 minutes of intercourse, though that depends on the length of the drought (49 and married 23 years). I used to be able to go much longer when I was in my twenties, and the timing was longest when I was with someone new.
My first time I was able to orgasm twice without stopping while we banged to both sides of Motley Crue's Shout at the Devil. Actually, there were a few bonus minutes of silence after the record ended.
Lol. This post needs more love.
Darryl M R
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This thread is gold.
Kaz pls.
SapientWolf
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Feels good man.
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