How Long Does Sex Normally Last?

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Geeze I wish it was that short. Sort of.

Personally I have the opposite problem of it being too short with my new girlfriend. With her it is simply lasting too long imo. At first it was great like, heck yeah shes cumming left and right, enjoying herself, and its really engaging. Then after like an hour and a half of going at it even she is like... wow still have not orgasm yet. Taking too much work to blow my load with the new lady lol.

meh personal problem.

Last gf it was pretty standard 15 or so minutes.
 
I don't know what's more disturbing, a lot of you lasting more than an hour or the penis head being adapted to scoop out the semen of competing males. Fucking gross.
 
Still wondering how they measure this. I cannot imagine couples in their comfortable surroundings only last that short on average. I mean, hell, 5 minutes is like a quickie or if you aren't in the right condition, but not for regular real sex.

However, I did not read that article. Might depend on details like including foreplay, or 5 minutes straight and whatever.
 
In my case,, we'd go at it for like 10-15 mins at a time, then stop for a break (no ejaculation) for a few mins, and repeat for 3-4 hours. I've actually had a few times where I wouldn't even jizz at all, even after several hours.

How would this be classified?
 
After looking it up the first time it happened it seems to be a random thing for seemingly dozens of reasons when guys last for long periods of time without being able to climax with their partner/actual insertion. Mental stimulation, physical stimulation, physical incompatibility, no synergy between partners, sleeping habits, sleeping position, masturbation style, masturbation frequency, and the list goes on.

Honestly the best solution tends to be talking to your partner and discussing why or what they can do to help. Like my current girl loves being on top to death, and going hard for that matter. Honestly it just kinda hurts when I let her simply because of how shes going about it.

eventually I will tell her that hahaha.
 
Mineshaft_Gap said:
I'm female so I think this answer might be different from some others, but in my opinion the ideal amount of time would be roughly two and a half hours. Three if there's an intermission.
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What the hell at two and a half hours? Are you trying to kill the person you're doing this with? lol

20-30 mins is a good average for me. I can't cum any sooner unless it's been more than 3 or 4 days since the last time I had sex, and I rarely get to that point anyway haha.

tearsofash said:
I wouldn't know, because nobody will have sex with me because I'm too nerdy and everyone hates me.
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Find a nerdy girl(or guy?) like I did and let them join on the nerdy sexy fun times. That doesn't mean you need to talk about what class you should do next in Diablo 3 while having sex though. ;)
 
Bisnic said:
Find a nerdy girl(or guy?) like I did and let them join on the nerdy sexy fun times. That doesn't mean you need to talk about what class you should do next in Diablo 3 while having sex though. ;)
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Even other nerds in nerd fb groups and anime conventions want nothing to do with me. i am the scum of the earth
 
tearsofash said:
Even other nerds in nerd fb groups and anime conventions want nothing to do with me. i am the scum of the earth
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I think that if you're looking for other nerds for a date or long term relationship, you shouldn't be at Facebook groups or anime conventions, but actual dating websites. You don't even NEED to exclusively use "nerdy/geeky" dating websites. With enough patience and determination(and sometimes by searching outside your city/region), you can actually find the one you were always looking for even on a normal dating website.

Just a thought.
 
Bisnic said:
I think that if you're looking for other nerds for a date or long term relationship, you shouldn't be at Facebook groups or anime conventions, but actual dating websites. You don't even NEED to exclusively use "nerdy/geeky" dating websites. With enough patience and determination(and sometimes by searching outside your city/region), you can actually find the one you were always looking for even on a normal dating website.

Just a thought.
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I'm on those too. Nada.
 
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tearsofash said:
I'm on those too. Nada.
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I was a lonely, nerdy, skinny guy, with no friends, who was still a virgin in his late 20s, and it took me over a year to find my current girlfriend on a dating website, and she used to live 2½ hours away from my town back when i met her the 1st time. She moved to my apartment a few months later and we still love each other as much as back then.

Anything is possible man. If I could find a girlfriend in these conditions, so can you. I'm not saying it's gonna be easy, but it's never going to be impossible.

But I'm going offtopic now.

Um...Sex is better when it last longer than 10 mins!
Phew, that was close.
 
Bisnic said:
I was a lonely, nerdy, skinny guy, with no friends, who was still a virgin in his late 20s, and it took me over a year to find my current girlfriend on a dating website, and she used to live 2½ hours away from my town back when i met her the 1st time. She moved to my apartment a few months later and we still love each other as much as back then.

Anything is possible man. If I could find a girlfriend in these conditions, so can you. I'm not saying it's gonna be easy, but it's never going to be impossible.
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I'm a 29 year old transgender woman on schizophrenia with no money and no car with an ugly face and a bad personality waiting on disability. Ain't nobody got time for that.
 
I have 20 dicks so I last 600hrs

lol 5-30 mins is the norm for me, depends on how many days the whistle has been cleaned
 
keltickennedy said:
Computer....cross reference posters with anime avatars listing times above 30 minutes.

i kid
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I'd guess we average around an hour, if we know we've got the time. And that's for everything, with the ratio of foreplay to fucking depending on the day.

But if we're just trying to squeeze in some fucking on a Saturday morning or when we know the kids will be bugging us soon, we can easily go start to finish in 5 minutes, 10 tops. It helps that my wife is the sort of orgasm easily from penetration.
 
A quickie for me is 20 minutes, usually my girlfriend and I go an hour or two, longest I've gone is 3.

5.4 minutes, shit, I'm barely turned on 5 minutes in. My girlfriend is one of the "quick blasters" and gets off about every other minute, I'm just naturally long winded, haha.
 
45 minutes to an hour for the wife and I, although 1.5 is also fairly common. Foreplay and sex are interchangeable on the fly. If we know we're going to have sex 2-3 times that day, we make each session around 15-30 minutes.

We have somewhat of a routine that we both enjoy. She gets off twice and rarely three times and I get off once and very rarely twice a session.

I would rate our sex life much higher than the average person's. We have quality and quantity. We've been together 15yrs and we still try new things often.

When we were in the kink scene, sex would frequently last 3-4 hours. Even more if you count set up, clean up, and tear down. We do that maybe twice a year now that we have kids. We're perfectly fine with that.
 
SillyEskimo said:
45 minutes to an hour for the wife and I, although 1.5 is also fairly common. Foreplay and sex are interchangeable on the fly. If we know we're going to have sex 2-3 times that day, we make each session around 15-30 minutes.

We have somewhat of a routine that we both enjoy. She gets off twice and rarely three times and I get off once and very rarely twice a session.

I would rate our sex life much higher than the average person's. We have quality and quantity. We've been together 15yrs and we still try new things often.

When we were in the kink scene, sex would frequently last 3-4 hours. Even more if you count set up, clean up, and tear down. We do that maybe twice a year now that we have kids. We're perfectly fine with that.
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Oblivion said:
In my case,, we'd go at it for like 10-15 mins at a time, then stop for a break (no ejaculation) for a few mins, and repeat for 3-4 hours. I've actually had a few times where I wouldn't even jizz at all, even after several hours.

How would this be classified?
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No, seriously gals. is this is a good thing or not? :/
 
backslashbunny said:
You might want to check out something called delayed ejaculation.

I don't mean this in a patronizing manner, but that's what it sounds like.
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I'll look into it. It doesn't really bother me, as it lets me enjoy sex for more time, but it's weird when you've had sex with the same girl three times and didn't finish in any of them. They start asking questions and stuff, even feel like they're the problem lol. Doggystyle works wonders for me though and I use it when I feel like finishing because she already came and we'd been at it for a good while. You can always go for round 2 and even 3 later :P
 
I just try and ride it out til my girlfriend cums, once she does, i just finish up as quick as possible! The idea of going on for an hour bores me, 15-30 minutes is more than enough for me.
 
If I have a condom on I can last forever. At least an hour, most times an hour and a half. If I'm not wearing a condom, I think 30-45 minutes is the max. This counts foreplay too of course. So intercourse is an unknown for me (while wearing a condom)- I will get tired or just until she's had enough.

It's actually pretty bad :\ can't ever have quickies. Unless I'm doing it without a condom, then yeah I can get that done in like 10 minutes or less hahah

I've only ever been in 1 relationship where I've not used condoms though. Every other person I've had sex with has always been with protection.
 
5-10 minutes sounds about right for us. To me duration is less impressive than frequency. My boyfriend can often cum 3-6 times in one night (~9 hour period). So I'm quite ok with it being short and intense.
 
I have had a couple times where i was done in 5-6 minutes but this can't be an avarage.. I mean.. i don't want to judge people so quickly but damn.
Jesus fellows, put some effort into this sex thing.
I'm all against "all night long" and "for hours on end" (i got othwer stuff to do and i'm no fuckmonkey) but you can at least try to last for a while. Do you just put it in and pump till you blow? Goddamn.
Where is the fun in that? Just jerk off if you want to come fast.

Unless you both like it that way ofcourse. Then it's all fine.

Hopefully a lot of other stuff happens asside from that quicky then.
 
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