At a point you're just being self-centred. I like fanservice and you don't see me complain that men or women should be more naked in threads for games that don't indulge in it. That would be insane. Yet the opposite the norm whenever fanservice pops up, because such pure and refined tastes apparently supersede those of people that enjoy it, of whom there are plenty considering the usual explanation is based on how marketable fanservice is. Considering yourself [saying "the audience" doesn't change the fact you were expressing your own feelings] disrespected by a product not catering to you specifically is even more indicative of the egocentric attitude behind that.
And if the unthinkable event of games being somehow localised to be more lewd ever happened, I'd still oppose those changes just as much. I want localisation to convey the original to me, not a kiss on the foot.
Edit: lol, bishopcruz' and my wires crossing ( ≖‿≖