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[BruceCLea]

My ex acted like a total bitch one night. I got really mad and cussed her out. Then we had the best sex ever. True story.

 

[navii]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

 

[Risible]

I would've rolled out after the first "bitch".

Straight up. If I tell you to cut that shit out and you keep doing it I'm out.

My wife and I always have each other's back in public. We may fight on occasion but never in public, and regardless of how we may be feeling we never cut each other down in front of others.

 

[Zeneric]

male gossips.

 

[Beefy]

To be fair, it's not enough to go on beyond "she's drunk and I've 'been drinking' she said some things I found hurtful, demanded sex and now I'm done". In all honesty this sounds not major at all and sounds like a sleep on it, morning after discussion, upon which at that point OP can say "I'm willing to give this another shot because you're not normally like this" OR OP can say "I didn't appreciate that and I'm not willing to give a second chance! I'm done with you and the relationship!"

Still doesn't mean he needs to have people joke about it. As others have said if this was the other way round it would be completely different. yes it may turn out to be simply two people got drunk and said stupid shit. But that doesn't mean people have to put him down for it.

 

[lostsupper]

Way to not use that dick, OP.

 

[ExVicis]

If anything, your drunken state is the purest version of yourself.

Really? I always view these comments with suspect because when I'm at my drunkest I'm actually the most sober I'll ever been in my life where I painstakingly try to regulate myself and my actions and talk in clear and complete thoughts and sentences to the point that people believe that not only am I not drunk, but that I'm almost robotic. So when people say this it say to me I hear "Well if you're a cold and rational person drunk to the point that you're a robot, that's actually how you are."

Still doesn't mean he needs to have people joke about it. As others have said if this was the other way round it would be completely different. yes it may turn out to be simply two people got drunk and said stupid shit. But that doesn't mean people have to put him down for it.

Maybe you're right, but again we have zero context and barely any follow-up so people are in their heads completing the story for the OP. And in their heads maybe he was called a bitch for something really trivial. I never said that's "OKAY" but I am saying is that we're not working with a lot to go on and I at least understand why they are making light of the situation. I can at least do this much.

 

[Kinitari]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

I don't like to use the term, I really really don't, but this is some toxic masculinity bullshit. Comprehend how terrible what you're saying is. Comprehend what it's like to feel pressured to have sex when you don't want to. Grow the fuck up

 

[Ekdrm2d1]

What a thread

 

[The Silver]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

You should never refuse to fuck a man

Hmm wait that doesn't sound right

 

[LiveFromKyoto]

LOL. She's drunk. He's drunk. Up until this moment she's been 'incredible'. OP is super passive aggressive, spewing his one-sided relationship nonsense on Neogaf to get people to support his knee-jerk decision to dump his SO after seemingly one major fight.

Flipping the genders doesn't change any of that.

Pray tell, what's the other side of this story that would made it okay?

 

[Pancake Mix]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

Do you have the clap, per chance?

 

[Ekdrm2d1]

LOL. She's drunk. He's drunk. Up until this moment she's been 'incredible'. OP is super passive aggressive, spewing his one-sided relationship nonsense on Neogaf to get people to support his knee-jerk decision to dump his SO after seemingly one major fight.

Flipping the genders doesn't change any of that.

wow

 

[j0hnnix]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

I don't like to use the term, I really really don't, but this is some toxic masculinity bullshit. Comprehend how terrible what you're saying is. Comprehend what it's like to feel pressured to have sex when you don't want to. Grow the fuck up

You should never refuse to fuck a man

Hmm wait that doesn't sound right

The first post has started a fire. Caliente!

 

[NormalFish]

Pray tell, what's the other side of this story that would made it okay?

"I was, like, super drunk"

 

[SuperStiltzkin]

LOL. She's drunk. He's drunk. Up until this moment she's been 'incredible'. OP is super passive aggressive, spewing his one-sided relationship nonsense on Neogaf to get people to support his knee-jerk decision to dump his SO after seemingly one major fight.

Flipping the genders doesn't change any of that.

This is the biggest load of shit I've read all day.

 

[ishibear]

It's like most only saw the part where she demanded sex from the OP.

Really? We're doing this?

 

[Admiral Woofington]

I see the fake Internet alpha males have now started to come to say 'bro you always down to fuck yo yeah yeah yeah bros bros'

 

[j0hnnix]

OP. Did you break up with your GF?

 

[HykCraft]

Sounds like a Narcissist (NPD) or she has Borderline Personality Disorder... along with being an alcoholic.

Sounds exactly like my ex gf.

 

[ThisGuy]

I don't like to use the term, I really really don't, but this is some toxic masculinity bullshit. Comprehend how terrible what you're saying is. Comprehend what it's like to feel pressured to have sex when you don't want to. Grow the fuck up

I completely agree, but I think it was a joke post. I was wondering why you don't like the term toxic masculinity. I love the term. Grew up to man up and see how terrible it is, what it leads to. Or at least, my understanding of it. I'm open to differing opinions as I hear them though.

 

[Morrigan Stark]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

Sarcasm/joke right?

 

[soultron]

Break up with her and when she asks why, cut her off with, "Because YOU'RE a bitch."

I'm just joking.

 

[Psychoward]

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

add a /s to that next time

 

[Kinitari]

I completely agree. But I was wondering why you don't like the term toxic masculinity. I love the term. Grew up to man up and see how terrible it is, what it leads to. Or at least, my understanding of it. I'm open to differing opinions as I hear them though.

The concept I don't disagree with at all and I've dealt with that same shit you're describing (terrible father), I just don't like to use it because I've seen it overused inappropriately enough that it lost its bite to me. I just can't think of any other term that works here.

 

[Sarcastico]

OP discuss it when you're both sober then decide your future.

 

[SwiftDeath]

Have you talked to her at all since the bathroom scene OP?

I assume by the way you made the thread and talk about the situation, she called you those things in a serious manner albeit drunk, very drunk etc.

Some people can be mean drunks or just not mean what they say at all depending on their personality and how drunk they are.

Talking to her again while sober can likely clear some things up but you shouldn't be talked to like that.

 

[Ryaaan14]

I miss college

 

[Head of Vengarl]

Wonder why they call you bitch?

Spoiler

For real though, she sounds like an angry drunk. If she doesn't sincerely apologize for her behavior, I'd be preparing for a break up if I were you. She sounds like trouble.

 

[ThisGuy]

The concept I don't disagree with at all and I've dealt with that same shit you're describing (terrible father), I just don't like to use it because I've seen it overused inappropriately enough that it lost its bite to me. I just can't think of any other term that works here.

Oh okay lol. Yeah, loss of power in words is not ideal. I hear you on the old school father's.

 

[Stereogatari]

Dissapointed this has nothing to do with a Blu-Ray drive.

 

[ExVicis]

Break up with her and when she asks why, cut her off with, "Because YOU'RE being a bitch."

I fixed it for ya. Nah in all honesty OP. go to sleep and wake up sober and then come to the decision "I want to break up" that way you don't think "Oh jeez, I came to a decision drunk and it wasn't this way at all" because again, you never NEVER want to make a decision after drinking.


Honestly two years ago my SO thought while drunk I, and I'm not making this up, she thought I legitimately loved my VITA more than I loved her and thought for some reason I had told her that she was worthless compared to my Vita and that she mattered way less. She comes to sober the next day to realize she was completely wrong and in her head while drunk came to a completely different conclusion than what had actually happened.

 

[DJKhaled]

Yeah, I wonder if you would be saying this with the genders reversed.

That's some blatant disrespect. Being drunk does not make it okay.

I would say the exact same thing with the genders reversed. Fights happen and being called a bitch and someone saying Fuck You isn't a huge deal, it's shitty and whoever says it should apologise but it really isn't a huge deal at all.

 

[Boney]

Op passed out right?

 

[Calvero]

Your reaction makes me think she might be right though.

wtf?

what's with all the posts slighting op?

 

[DeployThatPizza]

Sleep it off and talk to her when she's sober. Decide your future from there.

 

[j0hnnix]

Op passed out right?

Or is in the bathroom

 

[Salsa]

not to take any responsability away from her but she just sounds like she has a drinking problem

as in she's one of those people that shouldnt get drunk

talk it out sober

 

[ExVicis]

Op passed out right?

I think OP did, poor Gaffer did say they were drinking alot too. Hopefully they resolve this all for the better in the morning and have a nice happy life from here on out.

 

[Kinitari]

Are people really having fights like this regularly? I had fights like this with my abusive ex, for years, and I can't even kind of tolerate it for a second. That shit is the most juvenile garbage highschool drama bullshit that no one should just tolerate.

 

[.JayZii]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujBjn1qeCLs

 

[Flying Toaster]

So easy to be a dick and make fun of the situation. (I usually would but I am feeling nice right now)

Sleep it off, talk to her in the morning. If this is not really how she is in general then perhaps something happened? Drugs, or who knows what.

Best of luck OP.

 

[neurosyphilis]

she came into the bathroom and demanded I fuck her. I legitimately wasn't ready, so I told her we would later. She immediately told me to fuck myself and left to join the rest of the party.

I'm sorry OP, but this shit had me dying right here.

 

[SoulUnison]

woah just wait a minute here.... you turned down sex in the bathroom??

You should never refuse to fuck a woman.

What's with this attitude?

What's with the not-so-subtle condescension and masculinity shaming?

 

[Blablurn]

you should have fucked her

goddamnit

 

[EloquentM]

Well this thread is a mess. Talk to her when sober and see if she apologizes. Personally going from just what we know there's a couple of red flags in that short as hell OP alone.

 

[FUME5]

All these people in this thread who would let someone belittle them in front of their friends and then fuck them as soon as they demanded it trying to shit on the OP. Sad.

OP, I'd try to talk to her about it since it seems you were into her.

 

[atr0cious]

I would say the exact same thing with the genders reversed. Fights happen and being called a bitch and someone saying Fuck You isn't a huge deal, it's shitty and whoever says it should apologise but it really isn't a huge deal at all.

If this is happening in your current relationship, get out of it now.

 

[Rhaknar]

Maybe she's just a big Jesse fan

For real tho, she doesnt sound like a very nice person, but you did say she was hammered. Talk it out when you guys are sober?

 

[Ekdrm2d1]

Or is in the bathroom

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