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[SuperStiltzkin]

Calling someone a bitch and saying Fuck You is not attacking their character, jesus christ you are overreacting, do you live in Ned Flanders world? The only fucked up thing was doing it in front of people and the sex bit but everything else is way too dramatic. You can try to act like every relationship is Ned and Maude Flanders but it isn't a realistic relationship has fights where dumb shit is said.

I've had over a dozen arguments with my boyfriend. Some of them big, some minor. None of them ever resorted to name calling. It really isn't unrealistic to expect arguments to not involve name calling. If that's something you can work through, than great. But people expecting something a little bit more than that aren't living in a fantasy world.

 

[Mammoth Jones]

this thread is just filled with people who act like cheerful lovely people when getting smashed

That's the problem right there: Smashed. My friends and I drink and get smashed and there's never any trouble. Just laughter and fun.

But we don't drink past our limits like we're just discovering booze.

Someone in their mid twenties should be figuring this shit out.

 

[Sickboy007]

do you need dick pills op? or alcohol fucks you up?

More like GifGafIsTheWorstGaf

 

[dlauv]

Dump her. Sounds like something that will crop up again later, and no one needs to go through that shit.

I wouldn't tolerate it.

If the genders were reversed gaf would be singing a different tune entirely.

 

[DJKhaled]

meaning: shit happens, relationships are complicated, and it's never as cut and dry as it might seem by retelling.

All that needs to be said, really, sums up every relationship and people should read this and stop telling OP to leave her straight away.

 

[whatsinaname]

I wonder if any lawyer has tried the "my drunk DUI client cannot be jailed because drunk him was a different person" argument.

 

[ExVicis]

this thread is just filled with people who act like cheerful lovely people when getting smashed

Not me. I already said I become a Robot when I'm drunk.

 

[The_Joker1721]

OP, I don't care if you refused the fuck but were these 20 people your friends? That's the problem I would have the most. If a girl starts getting even a little crazy in front of my friends I'd immediately let her know that's not okay and set it straight. Call me a bitch three times? Tell my friends thanks for hanging out I'll call you to do this again, Aplologize for her behavior and then tell the girl to go home. That kind of disrespect by anybody isn't okay.

 

[Salsa]

I wonder if any lawyer has tried the "my drunk DUI client cannot be jailed because drunk him was a different person" argument.

I dont think anyone's saying being drunk is an excuse

im saying we dont know her history with drinking and she's a young person

it all depends on how she acts the next day for me, if it really is a once time incident in what seemed like a fantastic relationship, as OP describes

 

[blame space]

bitch 3x sounds like a robot prototype that doesn't stop nagging you

 

[Salsa]

Someone in their mid twenties should be figuring this shit out.

emphasis on "figuring" and not "have figured"

 

[akira28]

bitch 3x sounds like a robot prototype that doesn't stop nagging you

I want one.
especially once I give her the ride or die upgrade

 

[Maximo]

Man relationship threads can get pretty messy usually its a majority giving the OP obvious advice, but this one in particular is a roller-coaster of shit.

 

[Bubba T]

Sorry?

Lol, it's a track from Tupac.

 

[gcubed]

If you're an angry drunk, as an adult you stop getting drunk.

Exactly this. I dated a girl who got angry / straight up lied and was a very sloppy drunk. I'm a quiet drunk and generally never like to get really drunk (mainly because I'm old now and can't handle the hangover). One of the times she got bad enough where it was straining and beyond a chore to deal with her we had a long talk about it sober the next day. She even admitted a previous boyfriend had the same complaints.

She stopped doing this and we've been married for almost 10 years.

Don't make a rash decision drunk if you really like her. Talk to her and she if she's willing to not get so drunk.

Also, be ware you may be an asshole drunk too. How friends see you vs a girlfriend are two different scenarios.

 

[Pancake Mix]

If she called him a bitch in front of their friends or in public even after being told to stop, I can see being a little upset. She has no filter and just embarassed and demasculinized him.

Bathroom sex could have been a pretty effective apology though but if you've had too much to drink that can go away too, as you said.

Might have wanted to take that offer though, but it's up to you. She might be a keeper OP, but she can't say shit like that in front of your friends when drunk.

 

[Salsa]

"there's a lot of fish in the sea", sure

but then there's GAF's "you can get a perfect girlfriend at the dollar store" attitude, considering how every relationship thread is instant "DUMP HER"

 

[Admiral Woofington]

bitch 3x sounds like a robot prototype that doesn't stop nagging you

Where have you been. I was talking to parent 2x and they told me that you were a no good piece of shit and this unit is inclined to agree. This unit should have dated successful business 3x like parent 2x suggested.

 

[Maximo]

If she called him a bitch in front of their friends or in public even after being told to stop, I can see being a little upset. She has no filter and just embarassed and demasculinized him.

Bathroom sex could have been a pretty effective apology though but if you've had too much to drink that can go away too.

Wooooow.

 

[EloquentM]

OP ignore gaf and talk to your girl when sober. If she's unapologetic figure it out. If she's apologetic figure it out. Either way do what you think you're willing to deal with. Really, there's nothing else to be said. No gaffer here is you or your girlfriend, so don't expect to find any kind of answer here.

 

[Mineshaft_Gap]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

 

[DJKhaled]

Wooooow.

Oh here come the fake outrage again

 

[O Canada Our Home and Native Land]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

What is going on?

 

[Valkyr1983]

Wow you are way too old to be taking it to heart this much, fights happen and people say dumb shit especially when drunk.

Good people don't get that drunk and act stupid

This chick sounds like a loser, move on OP. I'm 32 and am too old for stupid drama, so are you. What kind of adult runs around calling someone bitch when drunk? Trashy

 

[akira28]

shit just got personally real.

 

[Salsa]

I dated a girl a couple years ago who was real shitty when drunk at a family party once

next day she tried to blame it on me for us not leaving earlier, so she couldnt drink more





posting this for reference of what an actual shitty person in this situation does

 

[Kinitari]

What is going on?

As a fellow Canadian, this shit is just too impolite. It has to not be real, right?

 

[Head of Vengarl]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

I refuse to believe this is real.

 

[LiveFromKyoto]

Oh well thank you doctor, I will be sure to come to you for further advice.. hahahaha people have different relationships, you having mental illness doesn't give anything you say more authority on the situation, I grew up around domestic abuse and violence and have a plethora of mental illness' myself, I know it when I see it, my girlfriend and I say dumb stuff while angry and we love each other unconditionally, we have lived together for 2 years, we are happier than most couple I know, heaven forbid we call each other names while angry and then make up later, shock horror, I know.

That's a dangerous story you're telling yourself. Don't ever assume that's a model for how others should live.

 

[Fusebox]

I wouldn't have put up with being called bitch unjokingly by a GF even once - may even be why they've never called me that.

 

[Pancake Mix]

Don't listen to PlentyofFishintheSeaGAF, try to talk it out when you're both sober. Don't do anything rash.

Wooooow.

What was wrong with the bolded? Hanging kind of loose because of the intoxication understandably prevented it, but come now.

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

What? Is this real?

 

[radios shipping overview]

Wow you are way too old to be taking it to heart this much, fights happen and people say dumb shit especially when drunk.

I'll turn this around and say she's too old to be drinking so much that this kind of bad behavior comes out. She should grow up.

 

[ScatheZombie]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

Best possible plot twist.

 

[Pennywise]

OP ignore gaf and talk to your girl when sober. If she's unapologetic figure it out. If she's apologetic figure it out. Either way do what you think you're willing to deal with. Really, there's nothing else to be said. No gaffer here is you or your girlfriend, so don't expect to find any kind of answer here.

Yep.
Especially with no one knowing the exact circumstances, and knows your relationship.

"there's a lot of fish in the sea", sure

but then there's GAF's "you can get a perfect girlfriend at the dollar store" attitude, considering how every relationship thread is instant "DUMP HER"

 

[darscot]

At 25 its really hard to put up with shit. I know I was not serious about any relationship at that age. I've never been able to handle chicks that get all aggressive and tough when they drink. After the first bitch I would tell her straight up that is not cool don't speak to me like that. It would be over by the third one, I ended things with women for a lot less than that.

 

[Hylian7]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

I'm going with joke post. It ain't real. I think this type of plot twist happened once in the past and since then people have made similar posts like this.

 

[atr0cious]

Calling someone a bitch and saying Fuck You is not attacking their character, jesus christ you are overreacting, do you live in Ned Flanders world? The only fucked up thing was doing it in front of people and the sex bit but everything else is way too dramatic. You can try to act like every relationship is Ned and Maude Flanders but it isn't a realistic relationship has fights where dumb shit is said.

You need to re-read the OP. She's following him around a party being shitty, then calls him a bitch cause he won't fuck. That's specifically a comment on his masculinity. Him standing up for himself is healthy and anyone who would allow that would definitely be the "bitch." I know for a fact I would lose teeth and a nut if I disparaged my partner, and it's never come up in conversation. Nor will it unless we're through.

 

[Salty Rice]

After we had both drank a lot, she came into the bathroom and demanded I fuck her.

Could be worse.

 

[Maximus.]

Wait what is the context? Like why was she calling you names, and was it in front of other people? The sex thing is interesting, that was just the alcohol fucking with her I guess? Why she so angry though?

 

[Arkos]

Ruh roh

*straps in*

 

[FinalStageBoss]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

Joke post?

Cus if not lol

 

[Admiral Woofington]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

Is this for real?

 

[gcubed]

Is this for real?

If you think this is real you should put the booze down

 

[Admiral Woofington]

If you think this is real you should put the booze down

But how can i put the booze down

If it's already in me.

 

[Dominator]

I think that post is clearly a joke.

 

[Makki]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

Hoooooly shit, whiskey dick gone wrong? Easy joke?

 

[Kinitari]

Like... I know Mineshaft is a girl. But I don't know if Mineshaft messes around like that, or if this is legit.

 

[Mr.Sumal]

I think that post is clearly a joke.

Yeah but I wouldn't be surprised if detective gaf comb through the post history

 

[Frozenprince]

Talk to her about it tomorrow when you're both sober. KINDLY. About how it bugged you a little.

That's all, you're both adults. You are gonna do dumb shit to each other occasionally.

 

[darscot]

Well James, you want to post shit about me on the internet? Well how about I post about how you can't get your dick hard when I demand that you fuck me.

Although I guess I'm not saying anything you didn't already admit to.

We're through. Dumping your shit out onto the sidewalk.

If this is true, the OP just dodged a bullet, fuck crazy chicks, bail the fuck out.