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[Weevilone]

More accurate

Awesome.. After it was said they were "Essex girls" and something about accents.. I had Googled and found examples of the accent. Great stuff..

But yeah, rough for OP otherwise. Head high, she'll continue to lie to herself and her friends so best to get on with life.

 

[GreatestHits]

wat...

Idk man we've got like 3 drunk people in this thread, 44 are high, and one is banned. I'm not taking them too seriously. (Except the ban, of course)

 

[Silent_Ocarina]

"taking a shot"? i just thought it was kind of shitty to say that the girls messaging him were uggos, but whatever.

Well you also seem to be really annoyed that he's getting and enjoying the new attention based on your recent posts.

 

[MrToughPants]

It's an anti-climax I'm afraid it's the "cheap" one. a 930V (9300 for the guys in the US of A) Still looks good, but I'd have loved a 4k one, especially a 2016 model.

Highly disappointing OP...now display the dick pic on your OLED for when she comes home.

 

[17 Seconds]

wat...

people were saying they were jealous of him getting messages so quickly, and then he said they wouldn't be so jealous if they saw the girls

 

[Time Flashes]

I read the first post worried about OP's reaction to this situation and now I find you talking about some TV. Can anybody make summary please?

 

[Astral Dog]

you are really cute OP you will find a new GF when you are ready.

Spoiler

what happened to the dog avatar?

 

[OCD Guy]

well, he did kind of just trash the girls who are messaging him and basically called them ugly

everyone started leg humping and the op turned it into a chance to brag

If I've offended you then I apologise.

I've never gone out of my way to be malicious to someone.

Even if you were to look through my post history on this forum, not once will you find evidence of me calling someone obscene names or really being nasty to someone, swearing at them or whatever.

"taking a shot"? i just thought it was kind of shitty to say that the girls messaging him were uggos, but whatever.

I didn't refer to anyone as ugly. Infact I've not used that word or uggo about anyone here.

 

[Cabbagehead]

Well you also seem to be really annoyed that he's getting and enjoying the new attention based on your recent posts.

Some people that popped in here seem like lurkers ready to have at the OP.

lol kind of funny.

 

[spannicus]

Im that babys daddy!

 

[Jonneh3003]

people were saying they were jealous of him getting messages so quickly, and then he said they wouldn't be so jealous if they saw the girls

That doesn't necessarily mean they're ugly, maybe not his type?

 

[Xamtheking]

I read the first post worried about OP's reaction to this situation and now I find you talking about some TV. Can anybody make summary please?

Just look through the last few pages

 

[CMojicaAce]

Good luck OP. I don't really know what advice to give since I've never been in a situation like this. But I think you should try to remain as cool and level headed as possible, seeing as they're already trying to paint her as the victim.

 

[Ric Flair]

OP i just wanted to come in here and comment on the idea of getting Rhinoplasty. It's a terrible idea, even if the surgeon performs the surgery flawlessly you might not look as good as you do right now. And right now my friend you're gorgeous, this coming from a straight man who doesn't find guys attractive very often. I'd let you deflower my butthole, don't fuck with your nose, homie. Also, dump the girl. My grandfather gave me sage advice one time; Once someone cheats, they never can say never again. Don't give her the chance.

 

[GreatestHits]

people were saying they were jealous of him getting messages so quickly, and then he said they wouldn't be so jealous if they saw the girls

Yeah, OP is a monster. 'Twas a downright horribly conceded thing to say /s

Im that babys daddy!

Uhh, wrong thread? Congratulations?

this coming from a straight man who doesn't find guys attractive very often. I'd let you deflower my butthole

Thread's not dead yet... 0hhh no

 

[17 Seconds]

If I've offended you then I apologise.

I've never gone out of my way to be malicious to someone.

Even if you were to look through my post history on this forum, not once will you find evidence of me calling someone obscene names or really being nasty to someone, swearing at them or whatever.

not offended. you seem like a fine level headed guy, i just thought it was weird to kind of insult the girls who were messaging you

 

[Media]

No, I linked to a thread where I posted some time ago it was pre-empting detective gaf. I was asked about pictures, and I specifically said you can search for them but I'm not posting them.

What ended up happenig though is someone posted a picture of a neogaf user (female) and for a short time people were saying that was my girlfriend.

Oh man. I am sorry. That really sucks.

Since I am speaking directly to you, I am glad you are taking this so well. Don't let it get you down, you deserve better, blah blah. And yes, you are COMPLETELY FINE in all meaning of the word so don't think you need plastic surgery and stuff, because again, dayum.

Now that I got that out, I hope you find someone who will treat you right and not go online searching for erm...stimulus.

 

[17 Seconds]

Yeah, OP is a monster. 'Twas a downright horribly conceded thing to say /s

yup, that's exactly what i said

continue leg humping

 

[Weevilone]

It's an anti-climax I'm afraid it's the "cheap" one. a 930V (9300 for the guys in the US of A) Still looks good, but I'd have loved a 4k one, especially a 2016 model.

And there it is.. OP's gf had to step out in search of a better OLED.

 

[Archer]

When you're a 10, all the other numbers are lower. Or.. the higher you get on the scale, the lower everyone else gets... amirite...

This is so true. It gets lonely at the top.

 

[Ric Flair]

not offended. you seem like a fine level headed guy, i just thought it was weird to kind of insult the girls who were messaging you

There's nothing wrong with having taste, and if you find someone butt-fucking ugly there's nothing wrong with that. It's not like he's posting pictures and naming names here.

 

[OCD Guy]

people were saying they were jealous of him getting messages so quickly, and then he said they wouldn't be so jealous if they saw the girls

I've apologised if I've offended you.

I'll clarify it one more time, my post was not malicious. Anyone is welcome to go through my posts and find any where I've gone out of my way to shame someone on how they look, or swore at someone, been malicious etc.

It's just not the type of person I am.

I feel you've taken my post the wrong way.

 

[Randomizer]

not offended. you seem like a fine level headed guy, i just thought it was weird to kind of insult the girls who were messaging you

They were being bitchy to him, so it only seems natural he would vent in some way. Unless you mean the POF girls but I don't recall him insulting them in any way.

 

[HardRojo]

OP you'll be fine, it'll be a hard few weeks but you'll eventually let go of it all. Go out with friends, go to clubs, party, hook up, enjoy your freedom.

 

[The Beard]

Guys stop talking about the OLED TV, I get it that there are a lot of virgins here, you don't have to remind me every other post.

They're called jokes. We're having fun. Even OP has a sense of humor despite what he's going through. Lighten up dude.

 

[Cabbagehead]

people were saying they were jealous of him getting messages so quickly, and then he said they wouldn't be so jealous if they saw the girls

He's just dispelling the myth that that just because you're good looking. Doesn't mean that you get the best of the best. You still need to work for it and this moment in time, his ex gf is evidence of that.

 

[BokehKing]

So I had to actually step away for a bit, how is OCD doing? She didn't come back, staying at the friends for the night? Could we let this dude finally get some sleep?

 

[17 Seconds]

That doesn't necessarily mean they're ugly, maybe not his type?

the implication was very clear

 

[rocketskates]

What happened to her though?

And wtf, OP made a POF account and girls are messaging him FIRST?? Within a span of a few hours? Teach me dude

That's really not uncommon...

 

[spannicus]

 

[Arcteryx]

the implication was very clear

 

[FairyD]

God damn you guys are posting too quickly. Slow the fuck down.

 

[GreatestHits]

yup, that's exactly what i said

continue leg humping

You did the same thing to his post, friend. You misconstrued what he said, you also seem to be giving off a chip on ye olde shoulder vibe

 

[BlueTsunami]

What happened to her though?

And wtf, OP made a POF account and girls are messaging him FIRST?? Within a span of a few hours? Teach me dude

1) Plenty of Fish is hookup central. Its like Tindrs/Grindrs back alley

2) look like OCD

 

[MrGerbils]

well, he did kind of just trash the girls who are messaging him and basically called them ugly

You're making some leaps here and covering it up with "kind of"s and "basically"s.

What he actually said wasn't directly trashing on anyone.

 

[Magwik]

That's really not uncommon...

*for attractive people

 

[OCD Guy]

not offended. you seem like a fine level headed guy, i just thought it was weird to kind of insult the girls who were messaging you

I get what you're saying, and it is bad to do that.

Unfortunately internet dating seems to be really artificial hence why some people get overlooked. In the short time I've been on there (you're talking maybe over an hour) it's quite clear that no one is reading my profile, simply looking at the pictures.

I can tell because they're asking me questions they'd know the answer to if they actually read the profle.

Unfortnately we live in a supoerficial society where people now strive to have lots of instagram likes, and feel what they own is what defines them.

This breeds a culture where people love you when you're up and will turn on you without a second thought when you're down.

Again my comment did not show any clear maliciousness to anyone, it was a remark in response to someone who assumed I was being messaged by supermodels.

When that couldn't be further from the truth.

Maliciousness would have been me shaming them, going into detail etc, and I'm just not like that.

 

[shintoki]

1) Plenty of Fish is hookup central. Its like Tindrs/Grindrs back alley

2) look like OCD

The key. Women just creaming themselves over a jawline like his.

/Dreamy

 

[Ardenyal]

What happened to her though?

And wtf, OP made a POF account and girls are messaging him FIRST?? Within a span of a few hours? Teach me dude

If you look like OP then women are as bad as the middle age creeper men.

 

[OCD Guy]

So I had to actually step away for a bit, how is OCD doing? She didn't come back, staying at the friends for the night? Could we let this dude finally get some sleep?

I've not heard from her, or tried contacting her yet.

I need to text her to let her know I've put the chain on the door. As if she comes back she won't be able to get in.

To be honest I'd imagine she's staying at her friends now.

 

[Xamtheking]

I've not heard from her, or tried contacting her yet.

I need to text her to let her know I've put the chain on the door. As if she comes back she won't be able to get in.

To be honest I'd imagine she's staying at her friends now.

Hope for the best
Prepare for the worst

 

[Ric Flair]

I get what you're saying, and it is bad to do that.

Unfortunately internet dating seems to be really artificial hence why some people get overlooked. In the short time I've been on there (you're talking maybe over an hour) it's quite clear that no one is reading my profile, simply looking at the pictures.

I can tell because they're asking me questions they'd know the answer to if they actually read the profle.

Unfortnately we live in a supoerficial society where people now strive to have lots of instagram likes, and feel what they own is what defines them.

This breeds a culture where people love you when you're up and will turn on you without a second thought when you're down.

Yeah, Internet dating is pretty flawed. I found it to be more difficult finding a good date online than meeting someone in public, actually. This might sound weird, but have you ever considered a library or coffee shop for meeting someone? By meeting I mean getting someones number.

 

[Markoman]

Does OldGaf remember how we used to take Polaroids of our Ds and send them via post
to our love/sex-interests back in the 80s? Good ole times. Young folks, you've messed up.

 

[Ric Flair]

Does OldGaf remember how we used to take Polaroids of our Ds and send them via post
to our love/sex-interests back in the 80s? Good ole times. Young folks, you've messed up.

Ahh yes, the 80s. The golden age of sexual harassment.

 

[GreatestHits]

Seeing as I'm not dealing with the pain, I'm quite happy that someone who cheated on a good guy got served. No huge fight or way to deflect onto the victim. Just justice. My faith in humanity just rose 0.01%

 

[OCD Guy]

Yeah, Internet dating is pretty flawed. I found it to be more difficult finding a good date online than meeting someone in public, actually. This might sound weird, but have you ever considered a library or coffee shop for meeting someone? By meeting I mean getting someones number.

I'm not confident enough to approach anyone.

Even on pof I've not messaged anyone, I'm just browsing the profiles.

Being insecure if I send a message and don't get a response I'll start having all sorts of questions wondering why they've not replied. Even though I know that no matter what you look like you're NEVER going to appeal to everyone, different people like different things.

If someone is attracted to a certain race, or certain hair colour, whatever the case is and you don't fit that criteria it doesn't mean they think you're revolting, you're just not their type.

But insecure people assume the worst.

 

[BladeoftheImmortal]

Someone summarize all this for me...it went from 6 pages to 30 while I was sleeping. What the fuck happened?

 

[Mohasus]

They're called jokes. We're having fun. Even OP has a sense of humor despite what he's going through. Lighten up dude.

Oh, the irony.

 

[Xamtheking]

Someone summarize all this for me...it went from 6 pages to 30 while I was sleeping. What the fuck happened?

Fancy dicks

 

[FullMetaltech]

Does OldGaf remember how we used to take Polaroids of our Ds and send them via post
to our love/sex-interests back in the 80s? Good ole times. Young folks, you've messed up.

I can only imagine how many were lost in the process.