John Kowalski
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Why make big gifs if they're going to be dithered to hell and back? Come on
People are so conditioned by heteronormativity that they don't even register the possibility that these two are giving each other the fuck me eyes for basically every scene they are in together.
What world do you live where that isn't the case?A character isn't defined by arbitrary things like gender, sexual orientation, or race. Nobody cares about that stuff. Give me a brave, funny character over a character that "looks like me!" any day...
What world do you live where that isn't the case?
People do care, and it does make a tremendous difference:A character isn't defined by arbitrary things like gender, sexual orientation, or race. Nobody cares about that stuff. Give me a brave, funny character over a character that "looks like me!" any day...
A character isn't defined by arbitrary things like gender, sexual orientation, or race. Nobody cares about that stuff. Give me a brave, funny character over a character that "looks like me!" any day...
The Last of Us Part II |OT| Now I know how the Native Americans felt
Not really, Ellie grew up in a militarized zone and talks very much like a teenager today does, if they grew up outside of such zones you'd have a point but aside from being taught to survive in a zone they're relatively normal people.I don't wonder about it, they are clearly attracted to each other. That was never my point. My point was that both these characters are born 6 years into a 20 year period of absolute societal collapse. What they value in emotional attachment to other people/partners is going to be different than what people born before it. I'd imagine sexual proclivity and the nature of romantic relationship to be a much more fluid thing considering that.
Anyways, I am unaware of the developers stating overtly that she was homosexual, so my bad if that's the case. If she's gay, she's gay and that's it.
"i don't see race/gender/sexuality." coupled with a healthy dosage of projecting the "I don't care so nobody else does" mindset. Hey guess what, PEOPLE DO CARE. I care that I got two big budget games this year that allow me to play as a black protagonist.A character isn't defined by arbitrary things like gender, sexual orientation, or race. Nobody cares about that stuff. Give me a brave, funny character over a character that "looks like me!" any day...
Very weird indeed, i didnt knew nobody actually cared about sexual orientation, gender or race, he just forgot to mention religion and social status.What world do you live where that isn't the case?
Besides the writers very clearly saying "Yes she's homosexual. That entire thing was written with it in mind."
Did they actually say this or do you mean the content of the DLC makes it obvious. Because there are many sexual orientations and having a homosexual attraction/relationship doesn't make you homosexual.
Is Ellie gay?
Druckmann: Now when I was writing it I was writing it I was writing it with the idea that Ellie is gay, and when the actresses were working they were definitely working with the idea that theyre both attracted to each other. That was the subtext and intention that they were playing with from the opening cinematic when theyre holding each others hands for too long, or when Riley bites her on the neck; theres that chemistry there from the get go that was important for us so that we earned that moment when they kissed each other. So that it wasnt just out of the blue but also wasnt so overt that youre like Oh of course. Just get on with it.
Yeah. And I remember a recent fallout-ish RPG being really gay too. I wish I remembered it's name.LISA the Painful RPG is a super gay post apocalypse, but not exactly very strong relationships since everyone is a pervert in a men-dominated world
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It's straight from Neil
Man, I'm sick of straight people's discomfort with queer people being masqueraded (especially to themselves) as progressive concern. Two things I want to say about this:
1. As a gay person, I'm really annoyed by the sentiment that gay characters' sexuality should just be a "sublte" trait that "doesn't define them." My sexuality absolutely friggin defines me. I think about the fact that I'm gay literally every single day. It defines who I love, the TV shows and comics I find myself drawn to, how I relate to society, what my politics are, how I view myself- my insecurities and my pride. It defines how people treat me. And It defines the community I find myself in, who my friends are and what my dating pool is- and our communities absolutely come to define us as people.
And this idea that our sexuality shouldn't define us is also a bullshit double-standard, because straight characters are allowed to have their sexuality define them all the time and nobody complains about it. straight people in the real world too. Straight people talk about their sexuality *all the time* and yet nobody complains that they are "letting" it define them. The only reason straight people don't realize how much your sexuality defines you is because you're all surrounded by people just like you. And when I see people say that gay characters like Ellie can't be too in-your-face, that her sexuality should be "sublte" like some kind of footnote in the textbook of her life, all I see is heterosexuals being uncomfortable.
2. Gay people are a community and subculture, and we have shared practices that we use to express our identites- the way we dress for example. Yes, it's true that clothing is inherently neutral and anybody can wear what they want- but it seems that whenever gay people find a way to express themselves in a way that becomes a shared marker of queerness between us, y'all are complaining about "stereotypes." We can't let certain hairstyles, ways of dressing, etc. becomes markers of queerness, you say, lest we perpetuate stereotypes. But these "stereotypes" aren't just made up stuff, these are real queer people who are adopting styles of presentation to celebrate ourselves. I spend so much time in lesbian circles and so many girls proudly wear flannel as a way to express their sexuality, talking about how gay their fashion is. And yeah, of course plenty of queer women don't wear flannel and dress in ways you moght consider "straight." And no matter how you dress doesn't literally define your sexuality and you should dress however you like. But the fact is that for a sizable portion of the LGBT population, certain things become something we positively mark as being "gay" and for a lot of gay people that becomes a really important part of expressing themselves and loving themselves. And when we talk about these things we love that have become part of our shared gay culture, you get concerned straight people coming in warning us "But clothing and hobbies and music and hair don't have a sexuality!! Stop perpetuating stereotypes!" And you might be well-intentioned in that, but I can't help but feel this is another example of straight people being uncomfortable with us and expressing that discomfort in progressive language.
I know this is a discussion for the gay community, rather than here most likely. But in case people think this is a unanimous view in the gay community, it is not.
I am gay and I am not in the same kind of mindset as this. I don't mean we've reached equality, but not everyone is defined by their sexuality like this. It certainly won't mean I can't relate to straight characters to the extent I gravitate to gay media, to use a specific and relevant example.
I am so excited there is an gay/bi main character for arguably one of the biggest titles announced this year. But as with all media if it's written like shit, that is what matters to me.
Not to say the poster I've quoted is wrong for their opinion, it's just one I wanted to challenge as a gay man, myself.
There's something to be said for being true to a character and while there could be other well written extroverted LGBT characters in this game, nothing about Ellie is extroverted.
Huh? 😕Did they actually say this or do you mean the content of the DLC makes it obvious. Because there are many sexual orientations and having a homosexual attraction/relationship doesn't make you homosexual.
Huh? 😕
Huh? 😕
I thought was like, Gay inside. At least thats what they told me87 genders, bruh...
I thought was like, Gay inside. At least thats what they told me![]()
Left Behind is very much a love story. I'm going to be generous and assume people didn't see it because they're not used to seeing actual relationships in a game.
I don't doubt the same people would obviously have the same concerns if either Riley or Elie were a boy, and would think it's too subtle too.
Bruh it isn't cool to use gay as a derogatory it's offensive.
If both were boys i dont think we would have much discussion either...The fact that people find Ellie's relationship with Riley as subtle is ridiculous to me.
If Riley was a dude, it would've been seen as obvious to everyone. But since she's a girl, everyone has to think it's 'subtle' for some reason.
That's pretty much the problem a lot of people here seem to not get. The idea of a man and a woman dating can be as obvious as it wants, but woman and woman, man and man? "No, it should only be implied, or else my dick will get uncomfortable."
I never understood that "in my face" argument... like yeah anything that you witness is in your face no shit...
Personally I would rather all relationships in games and movies were 100% lesbian. Double the chance of a boob shot! Just my honest opinion though, don't kill me.
I think it's great that Ellie is a lesbian but I honestly don't think TLOU2 will be delving much into romance. Ellie looked fucking pissed in that trailer. She's out for blood!
I think it's great that Ellie is a lesbian but I honestly don't think TLOU2 will be delving much into romance. Ellie looked fucking pissed in that trailer. She's out for blood!
Maybe she's out for blood because of romance. Maybe she needs the romance to get out of the blood needing.
Who knows.
Like cool I guess she is gay but who cares.
Not necessarily, no.
If you are going to design a lesbian character, and have her identity (which is one of a subculture), it needs to be approached differently.
Refer back to the original post in this thread. About homosexuality being its own unique subculture. If people want Ellie designed where her sexuality isn't one of her major defining characteristics, then it's a reflection of uncomfortable straight people. If people want Ellie to be defined by her sexuality as a major defining characteristic, then we need to acknowledge that this would require a different degree of attention and design than if her sexuality were to be of low interest to the storyline or if she were made to be straight.
Man, I'm sick of straight people's discomfort with queer people being masqueraded (especially to themselves) as progressive concern. Two things I want to say about this:
1. As a gay person, I'm really annoyed by the sentiment that gay characters' sexuality should just be a "sublte" trait that "doesn't define them." My sexuality absolutely friggin defines me. I think about the fact that I'm gay literally every single day. It defines who I love, the TV shows and comics I find myself drawn to, how I relate to society, what my politics are, how I view myself- my insecurities and my pride. It defines how people treat me. And It defines the community I find myself in, who my friends are and what my dating pool is- and our communities absolutely come to define us as people.
And this idea that our sexuality shouldn't define us is also a bullshit double-standard, because straight characters are allowed to have their sexuality define them all the time and nobody complains about it. straight people in the real world too. Straight people talk about their sexuality *all the time* and yet nobody complains that they are "letting" it define them. The only reason straight people don't realize how much your sexuality defines you is because you're all surrounded by people just like you. And when I see people say that gay characters like Ellie can't be too in-your-face, that her sexuality should be "sublte" like some kind of footnote in the textbook of her life, all I see is heterosexuals being uncomfortable.
2. Gay people are a community and subculture, and we have shared practices that we use to express our identites- the way we dress for example. Yes, it's true that clothing is inherently neutral and anybody can wear what they want- but it seems that whenever gay people find a way to express themselves in a way that becomes a shared marker of queerness between us, y'all are complaining about "stereotypes." We can't let certain hairstyles, ways of dressing, etc. becomes markers of queerness, you say, lest we perpetuate stereotypes. But these "stereotypes" aren't just made up stuff, these are real queer people who are adopting styles of presentation to celebrate ourselves. I spend so much time in lesbian circles and so many girls proudly wear flannel as a way to express their sexuality, talking about how gay their fashion is. And yeah, of course plenty of queer women don't wear flannel and dress in ways you moght consider "straight." And no matter how you dress doesn't literally define your sexuality and you should dress however you like. But the fact is that for a sizable portion of the LGBT population, certain things become something we positively mark as being "gay" and for a lot of gay people that becomes a really important part of expressing themselves and loving themselves. And when we talk about these things we love that have become part of our shared gay culture, you get concerned straight people coming in warning us "But clothing and hobbies and music and hair don't have a sexuality!! Stop perpetuating stereotypes!" And you might be well-intentioned in that, but I can't help but feel this is another example of straight people being uncomfortable with us and expressing that discomfort in progressive language.
Really is a great post. Thank you for being so much more eloquent than me.
yeah my bad i forgot those... also fashion sense, hairstyle, and belt size...
I think Joel should fall for Ellie and not know about her sexual orientation. He lays a kiss on her and things get weird between them. Long story short, a twist of events occur where they are the last two humans alive. Catch is, they have a second shot to save a wide spread of humans by procreation. Ellie has still not heard about "The other way to save humanity" so Joel pulls a fast one and does things the selfish way again. Last of Us 3 in the making.
I think Joel should fall for Ellie and not know about her sexual orientation. He lays a kiss on her and things get weird between them. Long story short, a twist of events occur where they are the last two humans alive. Catch is, they have a second shot to save a wide spread of humans by procreation. Ellie has still not heard about "The other way to save humanity" so Joel pulls a fast one and does things the selfish way again. Last of Us 3 in the making.
Not imagining it happening is how to make things interesting and unpredictable. It would be boring if we really could guess the motivations of characters we thought we knew.I can't see that happening. Ellie pretty much became Joel's surrogate daughter. He grew to love her in a fatherly way and that's the way the relationship panned out. She filled a huge gap that had been gone from his life as evidently shown at the ending when he can finally freely talk about his little girl that you never get the sense that it is that kind of relationship at all. Plus I imagine they'd have given more hints about a romance between them in the first venture. I'm more inclined to appreciate the Joel is dead theory and Ellie is having hallucinations like Mr Robot but I don't like the idea of Joel being dead. So... yeah.
Not imagining it happening is how to make things interesting and unpredictable. It would be boring if we really could guess the motivations of characters we thought we knew.