yea man I'm 31. I definitely want to have kids eventually and I would like to find someone good.
Let's chat about this girl I met this weekend
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yea man I'm 31. I definitely want to have kids eventually and I would like to find someone good.
Houston3000
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So you're saying that this is all too much for you?she said in the summer, they split custody half the time. and she said please don't call because she has her girls now. we have to make plans via text (red flag)
she said if this is all too much for me, she understands but she had a great time with me sat night. man i'm bummed
If you like her don't immediately dismiss her because she has children. Fuck man, you're 31 years old, make decisions for yourself and grow a pair.
[KoRp]Jazzman
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Im a little concerned by the amount of people still posting advice on when to text her after he mentions the kids and marriage thing.
Either a lot of you dont read the actual threads or you guys have some problems.
Either a lot of you dont read the actual threads or you guys have some problems.
I think what he meant to say was, "Do what females have done to guys since they were 14." Basically, keep your partner chasing you.. keep them interested. Carrot on a stick yadda yadda.
Messypandas
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well then fuck her I guess and move on. You got your priorities
that's my problem, i tend to get attached easily.
i dated a girl with a kid before. i left her because she was crazy, not because of the kid. i liked the kid more than her actually LOL
Devolution
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It's really immature to me. Either you want to spend time with someone or get to know them, or you don't. Pick one. If the person you're interested in is pulling this then just move on to someone else who's not a fickle douche.
SMT
this show is not Breaking Bad why is it not Breaking Bad? it should be Breaking Bad dammit Breaking Bad
Don't worry, OP clings like a latchable watch; he won't follow my advice.
If he were really playing games, he would meet another girl, get her number, and jot her down for another day of the week. Rinse, wash and repeat.
It's not only about tension, but discovering potential suitors. It's about who's best for YOU, and potency of the chemistry.
I see that you're speaking from personal experience here, [edit]. From what I understand, your standards for women you date are extremely low and I'm sure that you've personally been through the little story you wrote here multiple times.
This is [edit], by the way; I'm sure you remember me.
Also, I've already seen your posts in the Dating Age thread, they made for a good laugh; this is one of my favorite:
I mostly find it funny because this is my ex you're talking about here, who I was with at the time. You never had sex even once with this woman and you never "hooked up" with her friend/roommate either.Houston3000 said:
I wish I was aware of how hard you were trying to push yourself (apparently hard enough to make her depressed, shame on you) on my girlfriend at the time (who wasn't at all interested in you if you couldn't tell) so I could have handled the situation accordingly. Instead you insisted that you were "just friends" with her, so I was alright with you desperately hanging out with her all the time.
Another little exert from that thread:
That's funny, I did just that; I allowed that to happen because I thought I could trust that guy since he was my friend, but apparently I couldn't. I knew you were far too much of a loser to actually have any chance with her, and you probably didn't get to be with too many women very often, so I felt bad for you and assumed that there was no risk in it.Houston3000 said:
You're a pathetic, two-faced weasel of a child. The posts I see from you on this site are just pathetic, lie-filled stories from someone who is trying to be a douchebag but realizes just how much of a loser they are (or at least I hope you're aware of it?), poorly-veiled bragging, and overly-confident remarks filled with ignorance. It's interesting to read your posts on here when I know what you actually are in real life.
As far as [edit] is concerned, I've seen you lie to her, lie about her and insult her (probably as a result of you being angry with her when she wouldn't get together with you) in your posts on this forum. She is aware of this as well; if she wasn't so desperate for someone to call a friend and forgiving of you, you would have been kicked the fuck out of their apartment long ago.
I, however, have no pity for you and I won't be forgiving you, especially after the time I gave you a heartfelt apology after telling you off about this very subject, just to later see that my suspicions at the time were all actually true.
If I ever decide to visit NY to see [edit], you would be smart to stay the fuck away from me.
EDIT: names removed by request.
thesoapster
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...well damn.
Messypandas
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Partial Gamification
Banned
All that glitters is not gold -I think there is too much pain to revel in delight.
The next hollywood movie is being written
I thought Freezie got owned in that other thread about being banned but this.. this is IT. Someone got ether'd.
Grabs popcorn.
Messypandas
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well considering how bitter his posts were coming off i'd say its fair game. how do you know its the right dude? i'm guessing some of his posts were super descriptive
He uses the same username for everything and his posts give it away. I knew he was a neogaf member because he would hang out on these forums when we were friends back in college.
Count Dookkake
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RawNuts, you are on the list.
deejay8595
my posts are "MEH"
And this story, my friends, takes a terrible turn for the worse. She wants to see me but she just dropped a fucking nuclear bomb on me. She is currently going through a divorce and has two daughters, 3 and 7. Fuck!
Knew this story was too good to be true
Talk about a downer. I told her i would call her after work and she said "we can make plans via text but don't call because i have my kids." This sounds like she is probably still living with the "ex" and doesn't want him to see who's calling.
Just put her on your resume and move on...
Edit: OH damn @ Rawnuts....
Just like it says, we were quite good friends back in college. We were going for the same major, had a few classes together and our group hung out outside of classes as well. We were both part of a small group of friends who helped each other learn the material and joked around with each other. I really thought of him as a true friend, but he started to get really aggressive toward me around the time that he claimed that he was dating my ex on here.
Since I still thought of him as a friend though, I trusted him for a while when he was hanging out with my girlfriend at the time; in retrospect, it was perhaps a bit naive of me. I wasn't totally aware of what he was trying to achieve at the time.
I learned an important lesson that needs to be shared;
Never use sunblock to fap. My god the swelling...
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Rawnutz..
:O
Devolution
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+1.
NervousXtian
Thought Emoji Movie was good. Take that as you will.
She made it clear to me when I confronted her about the issue; I would trust what she says over his word any day, especially given what he has said in a lot of his posts on this site. I would hate to think that her standards would go that low either, regardless of the circumstances. What he posted is so ridiculous that her friend even laughed at the scenario.
There are other reasons as well, but I don't want to get too personal about her business.
Lemon Crest
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RawNuts has been a member since of oct '11 and only has posts in this thread.
It's like he's been watching and waiting for this moment.
It's like he's been watching and waiting for this moment.
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