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It is. Makes dating very difficult unless you decide to break off from all of that.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
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I lost mine at 25.
It's so not a thing to even think about, unless you have underlying problems like social anxiety or issues with your self-esteem.
Work on those before worrying about sex.
It's so not a thing to even think about, unless you have underlying problems like social anxiety or issues with your self-esteem.
Work on those before worrying about sex.
Napoleonthechimp
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I'm 26 and paid for sex three times out of desperation due to extreme anxiety problems. That has lessened considerably and my self-esteem has increased, so once I get into shape and get some nice new clothes my chances should increase dramatically.
I've also had plenty of chances with normal girls and my interactions with them has opened my eyes to female sexuality. I figure all I've got to do is look good and express my desire for a woman in an unapologetic but [cool and] calm manner.
I've also had plenty of chances with normal girls and my interactions with them has opened my eyes to female sexuality. I figure all I've got to do is look good and express my desire for a woman in an unapologetic but [cool and] calm manner.
They probably pick up on your attitude. Maybe if you relaxed more and were more comfortable with yourself then you'd have more interactions with men. They will do the chasing but you have to want to let them.
Little tip for virgins: If you end up in a situation where you get laid, it might be a good idea to tell them you are a virgin. That way the reason you're not good at sex is a lack of experience, and not just not being good at sex. That way she's more likely to have sex with you again later.
Other than that, people shouldn't really care about being a virgin or not. Having sex does not change a person that incredibly much. It's just like discovering a really fun new hobby.
Other than that, people shouldn't really care about being a virgin or not. Having sex does not change a person that incredibly much. It's just like discovering a really fun new hobby.
....Everyone is critical of themselves when looking in the mirror. ...No one you know is seriously calling you ugly right?Still get called ugly IRL haha. But at this point, even if someone did, I wouldn't want to. Haha. So, I am not going to complain about it anymore. You will notice there was no complaining in my post
NinjaBoiX
Member
What's the deal with that chart anyway?
If you didn't have sex before the age of 18, you're "getting up there"? Getting up where? (I was 19. I guess I'm "getting up there", whatever that means.)
And "I hope you at least went to your prom." Uh wut? What's that got to do with anything!
If you didn't have sex before the age of 18, you're "getting up there"? Getting up where? (I was 19. I guess I'm "getting up there", whatever that means.)
And "I hope you at least went to your prom." Uh wut? What's that got to do with anything!
Seen from this point of view. I had never thought about that.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
Banned
Oh and for the record I told my girlfriend that I was a virgin before we officially started dating.
Again, it wasn't particularly a thing, other than her saying at one point, "I'm going to take that shit," which was incredibly funny.
Again, it wasn't particularly a thing, other than her saying at one point, "I'm going to take that shit," which was incredibly funny.
Cameron122
Member
I got a lot of "Does your dick even work?" so I think I can handle telling a ladyfriend that I'm a virgin, when I find myself in that situation.
Rayven_king
Member
I thought the cut off was 16
lost mine at 14
lost mine at 14
Ah? There is a cut off?
Bam Bam Baklava
Member
Hand in your genitals as soon you hit the cutoff. Some of you guys are really proud of getting laid but then again this is the internet.
I can write a biography if you want.
Discotheque
Banned
I lost mine when i was drunk, it wasn't special or a groundbreaking moment. It was just my dick in the cut in the bedroom of a noisy house party. It gets more fun later
Are you? Did you find the image funny?
So do I but in a car. It wasn't a great moment. And honestly, I don't want to think about it, it was strange.
NinjaBoiX
Member
I was 24, on my wedding night. It was (and is) awesome. But it wasn't all religious reasons; there's nothing against kissing in my religion, yet the only woman I've ever kissed is my wife. My dad had kissed probably 70 or 80 girls when he was younger, and I just thought, nah, I want it to be special. So I held off kissing anyone till I REALLY liked her. Then I loved her. Then I married her. Then I had sex with her. Now I have a son with her. Best decision(s) I ever made.
Why does it matter if someone is a virgin when they're 16 or 30? I don't get this mentality.
People who have a problem, why not solve that problem? Just being curious here.
Ah yes, getting laid is all there is. Once you do that, life is complete!
Its not that easy.
I can't think like that. In any case, it's too late for me.
That's actually what I thought about when I was a virgin :b
Because a healthy male should have at least something happening in his twenties. You only get your youth once.
Besides, actively trying to seek sexual experiences can be a lot of fun.
Granted I remain one of those "old-schoolers" that consider virginity to be a richness, I'm extremely virgin tight and take some pride out of it. Still virgin at 21, got only one girlfriend in my life back when I was 14/15. Cooling it on masturbation and porn, as well. K-Pop helps a lot.
No problem, man. Look at my post above. I was 24. I was super happy 0-24, and I've been super happy 24-28. The stigma people inflict (jokingly or not) is ridiculous and should be ignored. Contrary to popular belief, less is more, in this case.
I remember watching a weird video in 8th grade about "secondary virginity." The girl had had sex, but after they told her about secondary virginity, she then told people she was a virgin thereafter.
It's a ridiculous concept taken to the extreme. But at the same time, I do admit that it had a point; it's never too late to decide any intimacy you will engage in will be with someone extremely special to you.
*high five* That's awesome, good for you. We're only "old school" within the past couple decades, anyway. It's a lifestyle that saves you a lot of confusion and grief. I applaud you.
NinjaBoiX
Member
There is zero correlation between being a healthy 20 year old and having sex.
Well ok, I guess sex is good exercise, but the point you are trying to make doesn't really exist. I'm not sure what you are trying to say.
While she was drunk?
HappyBivouac
Member
Always been upfront about it. Didn't have sex until I was 20, with a girl I was dating who was also a virgin. It was nice. Worked out for me in that idiotic romantic fairy tale sort of way.
It's because culture dictates that was the "worth" of a person in that age range, though fame and fortune are still the top things people hilariously value. I always get puzzled by those who think not being a virgin is such a crucial thing in the world when you have children dying of disease, thus never having the ability of getting laid. Guess they were losers, huh?
ThisWreckage
Banned
It really doesn't. I'm pretty much an asexual person and it becomes a complete chore to have to explain that. I've been called every name in the book and names soon to be added. My sexuality has been questioned, etc. I got tired of explaining myself so I began to lie about it when the issue was raised. I am by no means ashamed of myself, but I don't feel like I should tell someone my life story when the issue of sex is raised.
Me too. According to the Internet Alphas I should be joining you in lament.
Assuming what you say is true, yes, you are, in the most literal sense.
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