Oh, of course man. I absolutely understand. My anxiety really had to do with my experience in school that caused me to drop out, so I couldn't relate to my peers. I couldn't really connect or have friends, let alone boyfriends or girlfriends. My early college years were pretty shit too, feeling unfulfilled and very lonely, and it still is but more of experience, not so much a lack of people to talk to. For the last few years I've been trying to hone and reshape my life, and for the most part it's pretty okay. What really helped me was speaking to a counselor, and pouring out all of my feelings. Exposing yourself to a stranger, willingly, is very liberating and helpful. It helped defeat my anxiety just with people. It's just a have a lot of fucking stuff on my plate that I want fixed or removed, so relationship stuff is just above having kids on my list. That is to say, it's next to the last thing I want to be doing right now.
If your anxiety is just with women, I'm not sure I can help you as being a bisexual I never got scared of talking to girls in my teenage years for reasons of attraction, but of trust and feeling like I'd not be understood (which applied with men too). If you're just socially anxious in general, I would strong suggest seeing a counseler, especially at a college. Does fucking wonders.
EDIT: If you need someone to talk to, you can always PM me, or if you'd prefer, you can try talking to me on Skype or something. I'm sure you may feel alone or something, but I promise you sir, you certainly are not. <3
