Anal sex question

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*Rubs chin* possible, possible...but if there's butt talk, and sex talk, can an anal thread really be said to get off track? ;)

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I'm curious as to how you go about this.

It's gonna be a battle of communication. She is absolutely desperate at the moment to try and milk my prostate. I've not tried that before and she's never tried anal before getting with me (so she says) so it's gonna be about give and take. I'll just gently tell her that I'd REALLY love it if she just tried it once. And if shes ok with it, then chances are I'll get it regularly. I'll let her do things that she wants as well.

I don't know why I wanna do it though, just like I don't know why I like chucking my muck over her boobies - I just do. Especially when she tells me to do it. Fucking gets my rocks right off.
 
Damn, this thread got really explicit lol. I read one of those posts like some perverted fanfic on the internet. xD

I wonder what the reaction of the girls y'all are talking about would be if they saw your posts on the internet?
 
When you choke out your whore, and tell her that she's a worthless piece of shit that was born to be fucked in the ass by you.

Then when you're done you spoon, tell her she's the most amazing girl in the word while you feed her strawberries and backrubs.

Man.

fucking this, my dude. fucking this.

anybody here into public humiliation? like going out into the parking lot of a church and fucking her ass until she's sobbing? giving her a few really hard spanks right there and manhandling here like a ragdoll? seeing people walk by, take a quick glance, freak the fuck out, and run away? Walking her on a leash to and from the parking lot? I'm fucked up LOL

also with all this kinky talk lets not forget to inform new or curious people about the usage of a safe word :)

Very important if you're going to take your sex further than just a few spanks here and there.
 
For the OP, work her up to it. Get better lube. And go slow as heck until she's enjoying it. Then go all out. And don't try to do it every day. She won't want that, most likely. A once a week or maybe twice a week thing will probably be your limit.

As it is I'm not even getting sex twice a week. That Saturday was our last sexual encounter and now she's on her period (started today) :/

I tried for sex yesterday, no go.
 
fucking this, my dude. fucking this.

anybody here into public humiliation? like going out into the parking lot of a church and fucking her ass until she's sobbing? giving her a few really hard spanks right there and manhandling here like a ragdoll? seeing people walk by, take a quick glance, freak the fuck out, and run away? Walking her on a leash to and from the parking lot? I'm fucked up LOL

also with all this kinky talk lets not forget to inform new or curious people about the usage of a safe word :)

Very important if you're going to take your sex further than just a few spanks here and there.

I'm starting to get the feeling you guys never had sex and all you do is watch porn 24/7 lol.

Just kidding.
 
My wife and I had our first successful attempt at anal on Saturday. Went in with a condom. Today she told me she is really raw.

Kinda worried it might scare her away from anal forever. She enjoyed the last half of it when she loosened up.

We used tons of lube. Question is: What can remove her raw sensations in the future? Do I need to go slower? It was her first time doing anal (and mine also). Will the raw sensations go away naturally if we do it enough? If so, how long does it take to "break in"?

Dude, you are thrusting up a hole that doesn't lubricate itself, it's always going to hurt afterwards. Simply put, dicks aren't made for buttholes.
 
Bang her balls deep without any lube and let the blood lube her brown eye, trust me she'll like it if she's into kinky stuff.
 
So I think the moral of this topic is that when someone uses the phrase "Tastes like ass," that's probably better than it actually tastes.
 
I've only put a finger into my ex bum. I got to the gates of the chocolate factory, but couldn't enter. Hopefully whoever I'm in a relationship with next will allow me to enter in the promise land.
 
On nights when my girlfriend and I want to explore alternative methods of intercourse, I make sure to keep her as pleased and loosened up as possible. I perform oral on her and masturbate her while she lies in my arms, and since she's into BDSM I whisper into her ear all of the filthy things I would do the next time I tie her up. It doesn't take long for her to cum once or twice if my promises are explicit enough.

From there we usually are able to proceed to vaginal sex, and since she likes it from behind, I take the opportunity to begin prepping her ass for invasion by licking my thumb and slowly massaging the area around the hole, and occasionally the hole itself. This helps her relax a bit, knowing that I'm back there and not just dive-bombing into her butt.

We use Astroglide for lube, and it's while I'm railing her puss from behind that I take a little dollop of lube and begin to penetrate her backdoor with my fingers slooooooowly. The anal experience is all about making the receiving partner as comfortable with it as possible. I'm usually able to go up to three lubed fingers until she considers herself "ready, baby."

She prefers anal via missionary because she only has to concentrate on my wang slipping up her butt instead of that AND riding me/balancing on her knees and hands/piledriver. I drop another dollop of lube onto my pee-pee and work it over until it has a nice shine to it, like a high schooler buffing out a finished piece in jewelry class. I then rub the head of my wiener against her brown-eye, gradually applying more and more pressure--with her consent, of course--until I'm pretty much balls-deep.

This is when I tend to stop for a while, let her muscles acclimate to my girth, and tend to her needs, kissing her breasts or masturbating her once more, whatever she needs to let herself accept my johnson in her bum. In our experience, it takes a few minutes of this until she's ready for me to take her to pound-town, but she's become pretty damn good at it. I've been able to hit it as hard as I hit her pussy, which says a lot about her resilience.

Well, that's my advice. Mileage may vary, but the basics should remain the same. Take it slow, make it about the receiver and not your own need to drop a load in that tight ass, and if he/she looks like they just stubbed all their toes and got their genitals waxed simultaneously, then slow the fuck down. Good luck, and god speed.

Do you have a book or something I can buy?
 
I always find it humorous when people get all uppity when it comes to anal sex.

God made the human body to enjoy, both female and male. Every single inch of it. Be it the back of the earlobe, or the tip of the digits on your hands. It's all there to explore and enjoy.

Sure, you might need a little assistance to enjoy the great chamber, but that's why we're so intelligent to create the proper lubricant to enjoy our endeavours.

So we can become one with our significant others, regardless of where it is. We can combine into each other even if it's hard, even if it requires effort, and planning.

Anal is God's little easter egg.
 
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