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Almost 3 months of NoFap. AMA

GeorgPrime

Banned
Yeah, keeping sperm in balls for 3 months is not healthy... No fap only works if you have regular sex. Just use escort girls more often, maybe you will become a regular they won't cancel :messenger_blowing_kiss:

Right now I have a girlfriend, visit prostitues from time to time (less than before GF haha) and still fap (she works in store so a lot of h and in weekends sometimes...), sexual tension is unneeded most of the time.

I mean I go to collect my parcel and see this, after 3 months of not letting go I would end up in prison :messenger_tears_of_joy:

IfSyaAH.jpg

You have a girlfriend and you still seeing prostitutes? I guess your gf doesnt know about it.
 
Yeah, keeping sperm in balls for 3 months is not healthy... No fap only works if you have regular sex. Just use escort girls more often, maybe you will become a regular they won't cancel :messenger_blowing_kiss:

Right now I have a girlfriend, visit prostitues from time to time (less than before GF haha) and still fap (she works in store so a lot of h and in weekends sometimes...), sexual tension is unneeded most of the time.

I mean I go to collect my parcel and see this, after 3 months of not letting go I would end up in prison :messenger_tears_of_joy:

IfSyaAH.jpg
You have a GF but still visit hookers? Wtf!? I hope she doesn't get some nasty STD because of you.
 

Melon

Banned
Yeah, keeping sperm in balls for 3 months is not healthy... No fap only works if you have regular sex. Just use escort girls more often, maybe you will become a regular they won't cancel :messenger_blowing_kiss:

Right now I have a girlfriend, visit prostitues from time to time (less than before GF haha) and still fap (she works in store so a lot of h and in weekends sometimes...), sexual tension is unneeded most of the time.

I mean I go to collect my parcel and see this, after 3 months of not letting go I would end up in prison :messenger_tears_of_joy:

IfSyaAH.jpg

You sound like a real stand-up guy.
 
I'm on day 10 of no fap. This morning was rough, I almost succumbed. Not sure how long I can keep this up. But I've pledged to myself 3 months without porn, just to see for myself. Think my ex is coming over tonight, hopefully.
That's admirable, good job man! You're doing this for you. How I did it was: when you get the urge, just let the feeling subside and remember that it's a choice to touch yourself down there. It's always a choice.
As for everyone else that's still posting: if you guys want the deets, just give this comment a like. I'll make a private conversation. I'm not hiding anything, I just don't want this thread receiving anymore attention than it should, lol.
 
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That's admirable, good job man! You're doing this for you. How I did it was: when you get the urge, just let the feeling subside and remember that it's a choice to touch yourself down there. It's always a choice.
As for everyone else that's still posting: if you guys want the full deets, just give this comment a like. I'll make a private conversation. I'm not hiding anything, I just don't want this thread receiving anymore attention than it should, lol.
You knew exactly what you were doing
 
That's admirable, good job man! You're doing this for you. How I did it was: when you get the urge, just let the feeling subside and remember that it's a choice to touch yourself down there. It's always a choice.
As for everyone else that's still posting: if you guys want the deets, just give this comment a like. I'll make a private conversation. I'm not hiding anything, I just don't want this thread receiving anymore attention than it should, lol.
I want the deets, this thread is fucking dope regardless of what anyone thinks. I find it interesting, and can only support you to the fullest.
 
OP how many times have you accidentally discharged in your sleep?
I think he said he had one a while back, and reset his timer from that. Imagine trying to go to sleep with gay thoughts, in hopes to not ejaculate in your sleep, only to realize you ejaculate way more from this. I'm joking by the way. Don't hate me OP!
 
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SLoWMoTIoN

Unconfirmed Member
I think he said he had one a while back, and reset his timer from that. Imagine trying to go to sleep with gay thoughts, in hopes to not ejaculate in your sleep, only to realize you ejaculate way more from this. I'm joking by the way. Don't hate me OP!
Like I said before, if you aren't fapping/filling someone with creaming you'll have one before a month. That is just science even if you are low t like meeeeeee.
 
Like I said before, if you aren't fapping/filling someone with creaming you'll have one before a month. That is just science even if you are low t like meeeeeee.
Surprisingly, I haven't had one in forever. Literally forever. Maybe cause i only sleep like 4 hours a night. Maybe that kills my REM sleep and messes up my cycles. Then again, I got a girl, so that might help some?
 

nush

Member
The difference between having sex and watching porn is not big today. Todays women often do whats seen in porn. Taking it up their ass, blowjob with cumshot in mouth etc.

I don't know what timeline your from, but blowjobs have always been standard operating procedure, even when they provided with the "I don't normally do this" disclaimer. 99% of women I've been with have given head without being asked. CIM is rarer and I've never been interested in A levels.
 

Armorian

Banned
You have a girlfriend and you still seeing prostitutes? I guess your gf doesnt know about it.

Of course not. But in reality the last time I was with a hooker was when we were just afer 2 or 3 dates and there was no "formal" relationship established, so like 4 months ago? It was just a normal part of my life before - once or twice a month I was visiting girls/women of different age, height, hair color and even weight (from super slim to normal, nothing above). Market is so big and I want to try different stuff, oh and every girl only once, there are just too many and I'm not risking falling in love or any shit like that.

You have a GF but still visit hookers? Wtf!? I hope she doesn't get some nasty STD because of you.

They are super clean around here and don't allow sex without condom. Risk is very low I think.
 
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Foamy

Unconfirmed Member
There is no such thing as "clean" hookers.
If it means more money they'd jump in your car 10 minutes after getting dropped off by the dude who paid an extra hundred to blow his load in her.
 
That's admirable, good job man! You're doing this for you. How I did it was: when you get the urge, just let the feeling subside and remember that it's a choice to touch yourself down there. It's always a choice.
As for everyone else that's still posting: if you guys want the deets, just give this comment a like. I'll make a private conversation. I'm not hiding anything, I just don't want this thread receiving anymore attention than it should, lol.
Thanks. Yeah, same here, just do something else to take my mind off it. I had sex with my ex about a week ago, looks like we're gonna be hanging out on weekends, so it's just a no porn/masterbation regimen. It's probably just placebo so far, but I feel better then before, nothing earth shattering, but I'm going a 3 free month trial, just to see.
 

nush

Member
There is no such thing as "clean" hookers.
If it means more money they'd jump in your car 10 minutes after getting dropped off by the dude who paid an extra hundred to blow his load in her.

Well, you've obviously never been with a hooker. Thanks for sharing your non life experience as fact. :messenger_tears_of_joy:
 

nush

Member
You're right I haven't.
Enlighten me.

Sex workers, good ones, professional ones take sexual health very seriously. They can only make money three weeks out of four so don't want to be up on blocks of any of those. Drug addict street walkers are different and anyone should know to avoid them for the reasons you cite.

People seem to think that there only two categories of sex worker, street hooker or high class belle du jour when the reality is there is a middle ground that is much bigger than either of those that's not even visable to the media.
 

sockman

Neo Member
That's admirable, good job man! You're doing this for you. How I did it was: when you get the urge, just let the feeling subside and remember that it's a choice to touch yourself down there. It's always a choice.
As for everyone else that's still posting: if you guys want the deets, just give this comment a like. I'll make a private conversation. I'm not hiding anything, I just don't want this thread receiving anymore attention than it should, lol.

What a cop out.
 

Illo

Member
Good job. Now be like me:
26, never fapped a day in my life or had sex.

I hear I will become a powerful wizard in 4 years. So I have that to look forward too.
 

CrilleS

Neo Member
I also had major issues with porn usage OP. I understand what you're going through. I don't really think many people understand how bad porn can effect your brain, dopamine receptors and cause major ED issues because of desensitization in regards to sex expectations because of porn. I could for my life not get hard when I was with girls because I didn't found normal sex exciting because I was watching too much porn and watching wierd shit that had absolutely nothing to do with normal sex.

What helped me the most was finding yourbrainonporn.com founded by Gary Wilson. Absolute gem of a man.

For everyone that don't think porn is a worldwide issue... PLEASE watch this video:



I wholeheartedly believes porn is the worlds current biggest addiction besides social media. So so many people used porn everyday to masturbate. It is a major problem in todays society and will only get worse if the younger generations don't get educated on the issues with regular porn usage.

I'm currently 210 days porn free. Quitted cold turkey. I did not masturbation for 21 days in the beginning but after that continued to masturbate regularly but only to sensations. No visual or audio stimulation. Much better and more fulfilling orgasms.

What I also noticed from quitting porn is that my lust for masturbating went down so much. Now I masturbation maybe once a week or once every two weeks. When I saw porn i would do it everyday or sometimes multiple times a day.

This is so damn hard to talk about and most people don't find porn to be a issue. I didn't either. But man... I've never been happier by quitting porn.

I'm not saying everyone should quit porn because not everyone have issues with porn or an addiction. I was addicted. I had no desire to go out and meet women because I could just get my sexual release from porn and masturbation.

If you don't think you're addicted to porn then try and quit it for 90 days and see if you can only masturbate to the sensations. No visual or audio stimulation.

Please do yourself a favor and watch the 1 hour video from Gary Wilson about porn. I can't thank this man enough. Laugh all you want but fuck.. I'm so thankful.
 
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SLoWMoTIoN

Unconfirmed Member
Surprisingly, I haven't had one in forever. Literally forever. Maybe cause i only sleep like 4 hours a night. Maybe that kills my REM sleep and messes up my cycles. Then again, I got a girl, so that might help some?
Yes coming inside of her makes you not come at night.
 

Stouffers

Banned
I don't know what timeline your from, but blowjobs have always been standard operating procedure, even when they provided with the "I don't normally do this" disclaimer. 99% of women I've been with have given head without being asked. CIM is rarer and I've never been interested in A levels.
If you don’t CIM, why bother?
 
What's the prognosis (or a decent guess) on rewiring of the brain? Is the effect that 20 years of porn addiction "curable"?

I've always seen porn and more detrimentally, sex, as...the more I get, and the more partners I have, as a net benefit to myself. However after 25 years of failed relationships (mostly my fault), a ever escalating porn addiction, cheating, promising women the world (Which I ABSOLUTELY feel at the time) only to feel a complete 180 after having sex, is something I've struggled with almost my entire sexual life. Is this something that could take 20 years to undo, or am I forever stuck feeling this way?

Appreciate any feedback, trollish or helpful.
 

DESTROYA

Member
What's the prognosis (or a decent guess) on rewiring of the brain? Is the effect that 20 years of porn addiction "curable"?

I've always seen porn and more detrimentally, sex, as...the more I get, and the more partners I have, as a net benefit to myself. However after 25 years of failed relationships (mostly my fault), a ever escalating porn addiction, cheating, promising women the world (Which I ABSOLUTELY feel at the time) only to feel a complete 180 after having sex, is something I've struggled with almost my entire sexual life. Is this something that could take 20 years to undo, or am I forever stuck feeling this way?

Appreciate any feedback, trollish or helpful.
Sounds like you like the thrill of the chase more than you do the sex.
Sure sex is great and all but it’s not everything in a relationship, seems like you get what you want but then bail when things get serious.
 
Sounds like you like the thrill of the chase more than you do the sex.
Sure sex is great and all but it’s not everything in a relationship, seems like you get what you want but then bail when things get serious.
You're probably not wrong, but the actual sex was what I wanted. But the chase is definitely fun. What's not fun, is knowing with EVERY fiber of my being, that I want a relationship with a girl, one I could even say I love, only to feel a complete abandonment from that feeling just after completion with her. It's the most horrible feeling I've ever had. I won't attribute all blame to porn and by extension, jacking to porn, but maybe 10%. I have other issues too, but trying to find what's causing those has been difficult.
 

Wimbledon

Member
I wanted to share this with my fellow GAFfers before I do the deed. The benefits are insane, but there's one caveat reaching the almost 90-day mark: I'm extremely horny!

I'm more:
energized
goal-oriented
go to the gym once a day
eating healthy

But the pain of wanting to have sex is killing me. I can't think straight, lol! So, instead of releasing it with my hand, I'll be hiring an escort tomorrow.

AMA.

I had this same mindset until i realized that they're both bad. If I'm not watching porn then im checking out escort agencies, and if i'm able to wing myself off escort agencies i default to porn. If i'm able to last long enough , even the slightest thing will set me off a girl wearing yoga pants, a picture or ad with a hot girl.

You already know this as someone who is doing no fap. So im not saying anything new. You made it to 3 months, but im going to be real if i made it to 3 months i'm at least hoping that i have better control mentally and I'm thinking more with my head than with my dick. But i'm a hypocrite so celebrate your 90 days dude.
 
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Elcid

Banned
I'm following Mastak Chia's routine from the Tao. I haven't busted a nut in 7 days BUT I've been fooling around with my wife daily. Tomorrow is the 8th day, when I'm allowed to bust. This is going to be glorious.
 

CrilleS

Neo Member
What's the prognosis (or a decent guess) on rewiring of the brain? Is the effect that 20 years of porn addiction "curable"?

I've always seen porn and more detrimentally, sex, as...the more I get, and the more partners I have, as a net benefit to myself. However after 25 years of failed relationships (mostly my fault), a ever escalating porn addiction, cheating, promising women the world (Which I ABSOLUTELY feel at the time) only to feel a complete 180 after having sex, is something I've struggled with almost my entire sexual life. Is this something that could take 20 years to undo, or am I forever stuck feeling this way?

Appreciate any feedback, trollish or helpful.
Yes the brain is able to be rewired. Some of the longest known cases of porn addiction rewiring has taken up to 9-12 months. Gabe Deem who owns rebootnation.org and has great YouTube videos regarding porn addiction took about 9 months to fully rewire if I'm not mistaken.

Personally i noticed huge changes 2-3 months in of no porn. Morning wood, more social, no more shame, waaaay better at talking to women and holding eye contact and generally just more happy and present in social scenarios.

The thing people needs to understand with regular porn use is how the brain and the dopamine receptors in your brain gets used to the constant dopamine hit of watching porn and "feeling good". When you do this all the time the brain wants more and more dopamine for that "feel good effect". And when you watch porn regularly your brain get bored of the vanilla porn and then you turn into watching wierd shit and niche genres which has absolutely nothing to do with sex or being intimate. I think we all have experienced the so called post-nut clarity where we just sit there and look at the screen and thinks "what the fuck am I watching?".

I have no doubt that the topic of porn addiction will get more spoken about in the future even though the big porn corporations will try and tone it down but in reality porn addiction first really became a problem around 2006 when high-speed internet became normal and all the tube-sites came around.
 

eot

Banned
What's the prognosis (or a decent guess) on rewiring of the brain? Is the effect that 20 years of porn addiction "curable"?

I've always seen porn and more detrimentally, sex, as...the more I get, and the more partners I have, as a net benefit to myself. However after 25 years of failed relationships (mostly my fault), a ever escalating porn addiction, cheating, promising women the world (Which I ABSOLUTELY feel at the time) only to feel a complete 180 after having sex, is something I've struggled with almost my entire sexual life. Is this something that could take 20 years to undo, or am I forever stuck feeling this way?

Appreciate any feedback, trollish or helpful.
I'm not sure that's caused by porn tbh. Over consumption of porn is more related to things like erectile dysfunction, developing fetishes that you don't actually enjoy, not having sex because you prefer porn over the real thing etc. Maybe taking a break from it would still be beneficial to you, but I think for most people porn is a problem when it interferes with actual sex.
 
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