Nah, she said I don't ever want to do anything but play games, watch wrestling, go to bars, play Magic and every other random thing she could come up with to explain why I suck.
I mean, the fact she works 12 hours a day every day was a bigger reason for that, but she doesn't seem to want to take any blame in any way. The reason she's not calling me up or meeting me (she literally abandoned the house last week while I was out with a friend after we had a fight over her last-minute refusal to go) is because it makes her feel bad to have to do it over the phone. She didn't say that directly; she just said when I get upset it makes her upset and she doesn't want that; which I translated as "it makes her feel bad to talk to me over the phone."
I mean, we don't have any kids or have any real property, although we've been together for 11 years. I don't like entertaining the possibility she found another guy, but its hard to dismiss, but not something I think would be even vaguely productive to bring up to her. Or even that I'd want to know given I feel pathetic enough as it is begging her to come home.
