The difference is that Larian didn't come across as if they had an agenda, and they certainly weren't preachy about any of the content in their game that can be considered "inclusive". It also helps that the game is tremendously well written, so nothing feels out of place.
This is what people need to understand, there has been representation across media and entertainment for pretty much as long as it's existed, but previously none of it was forced, it was natural and the people who were in charge of creating/directing the work certainly weren't doing it for brownie points.
It would benefit you to read through this post I did a few weeks ago on this subject to better understand the context behind all of this:
The big publishers used to threaten GAF with blacklisting for allowing negative opinions and press. It was hilarious, since I never took their payola to begin with.
www.neogaf.com