Your vision is like, weird. I mean, it's obvious the Snyder tone is not for you, that's ok, but then trying to convince people of the way you look at things is kind of pointless.As I'm sure I would have said before, my problem is less having an interpretation, but more having that interpretation and still drawing from the well of the character's source material without considering how your interpretation changes things. It isn't that he has a take on Batman and Superman, but that he decides to have that unique 'deconstructed' take and still use elements that belong to different, more traditional depictions of the character - he tries to have his cake and eat it too. He wants a Batman who is nonplussed about killing, and yet he doesn't want a Batman who carries a gun. He wants a Superman who the world has confused feelings towards, and yet. Like, do your own thing or don't, Snyder, but I'm not a fan of the resulting mismatch of elements that don't work in the new context the authorial changes Snyder & Co. create.one that is respected enough to be given a military funeral, as a bonafide hero
Where you see mismatching, others see defined character traits, where you see authorial changes, the film presents you development. Have you seen the UC? Because it sounds like you haven't. And even if you haven't, some of your criticism is either at the very foundation of the work that can't be changed or argued with (Snyder's choices) or some self induced conflicts. The movie now, save for one or two things, makes sense on itself. That's just a fact.
Hell, Batman does carry a gun in the Knightmare just as you want, it's the visual way the movie says "See, this is where he's going if things go to hell". See? You're creating the movie self-conflict in your head.
I say either try to understand the work on its own terms or leave it altogether, sometimes things are not for you, stop torturing youself.