Battersea Power Station
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Yeah, it's an annoying dynamic. My previous office overdid the cake thing. I'm not joking: they celebrated a "half-birthday" six months after a birthday. It felt like that Seinfeld episode where Elaine was eating sweets every day.And of course they think I'm the crazy one for not wanting cookie, but they don't see me forcing them to eat kale. Stop taking out your insecurities on me, !!!!!!
To top it off, my in-laws are Filipino, so I frequently am the only one not eating dessert, which must be part of every single meal, it seems. With the amount of ice cream they eat, I have no idea how they're not 300lbs each. Different genes, I guess. I can't afford to eat how they eat.
Anyway, it's annoying because it can make you seem like, at best, a weirdo who is "obsessed about calories" or, at worst, condescending. So I have to make humorous or folksy comments every time I refuse dessert, like "I gotta keep up with you -- I can't be eating stuff like that" and stuff that makes me groan on the inside.