I don't know what would make you think anybody would think you're joking with your first post. I thought you were serious. It would have been a better post if it wasn't a joke. Because it's pretty clear that a girl he met on a dating site and wants to go to his apartment after the bar most likely isn't going wanting to see a puppy.
Dark Souls.
It works wonders.
Yep. Best response so far if OP is genuine and isn't actually conducting some sort of social experiment with GAF.
Honestly, even if she is a dedicated gamer, I am not sure she is going on a date so you can educate her with your vast knowledge of video games. She has Google. If she wants you to do that, trust me, you'll know.
While I have her there, it´s probably the perfect opportunity to show her how far gaming has come since Super Mario World.
So on Friday we´re going to a bar in the neighborhood. She said she wants to see the puppy I have in one of my profile pics (I got a puppy like two months ago), so we´re going to come back to my apartment after the bar.?
Yeah no game on first date. However you should definitely show you passion for games. Let them know that it is a big hobby of yours so she knows what she is getting into.
You don't want to impress her too much that if you end up getting together, and it's only then she realises how much you play games. I'm saying this if you play games a lot of course. If you don't then it's cool.
I've made that mistake of trying not to show my gaming side to chicks I've dated/been with. Like just play games when they aren't around. But if they aren't really into that sort of thing it can be annoying for them to find out how much time you do end up playing games when they move in for example!
I now make it very clear on like my first date how much I play games and how much a part of it is in my life from the get go. Much better that way in my opinion.
Set her up on Ninja Gaiden Black and tell her she cannot leave your apartment until she beats the first level. Make sure she does not have her phone.
If she starts like crying and shit then let her go but make it seem like you are serious. And dont be a dick about it or anything, give her tips and tell her the controls.
Wait, so you have a date set up with plans to go back to your apartment and...you want to show her video games?
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This is why he's on okcupid in the first place.
OP show her Manhunt 2. Kill a dude with a plastic bag and she's yours for life
No, this takes a little finesse. She may be going into this situation looking for sex, but that may change. Let's say, if OP took a neck up photo and is relatively handsome, but has a strange pear shaped body, that may break the deal.
I think you're mistaken.
Despite my first 2 posts in this thread this is pretty true. If the OP is serious (doubtful) games is not your priority. You need to get to know the girl, let her know gaming is your hobby but dont force it on her. If things work out she will eventually want to know more about your hobbies and you can ease her in with something fun and not too heavy (SM3DW, Mario Kart, Nintendoland, Littlebigplanet or a dancing game).Yep. Best response so far if OP is genuine and isn't actually conducting some sort of social experiment with GAF.
HAHA! DO THIS!
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Then turn slowly to her and whisper "now that's playing with power".
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I imagine you didn't go
"Future Ms. Maxcriden, you mentioned in passing you read a comic book once, SO LET ME TAKE YOU ON A MAGICAL TOUR OF HOW FAR COMIC BOOKS HAVE COME!"
There's letting your freak flag fly and hoisting it up on other people's boats.
I love the first post in that thread.
and now the guy is banned.
Also, general life advice
If you're going in to a first date thinking "How can I mold this person in to my ideal?" (which is absolutely the subtext here), you should totally rethink your motivations for going on this date.
"- let's make ourselves comfortable...
- HAVE YOU HEARD ABOUT GRANT MORRISON"
Exactly. As long as you maintain self awareness, it's always better just to be yourself. I honestly don't even undestand people that want to approach dating as some kind of strategy game. Maybe I'm just more of a romantic than I thought but that shit sounds tedious, fake, and not sexy at all. I've always had pretty good luck being myself.
I don't know what would make you think anybody would think you're joking with your first post. I thought you were serious. It would have been a better post if it wasn't a joke. Because it's pretty clear that a girl he met on a dating site and wants to go to his apartment after the bar most likely isn't going wanting to see a puppy.
To be fair to him, in a world of normal decent people around a dinner party, it would be clear to everybody at the table that that was a joke. It's only on the internet on a site like this that people become unsure.
Second, seriouslyNone.
Just talk and have a few drinks.
Despite my first 2 posts in this thread this is pretty true. If the OP is serious (doubtful) games is not your priority. You need to get to know the girl, let her know gaming is your hobby but dont force it on her. If things work out she will eventually want to know more about your hobbies and you can ease her in with something fun and not too heavy (SM3DW, Mario Kart, Nintendoland, Littlebigplanet or a dancing game).
I met my wife when my flatmate brought her over and we played Mario Party 6 on the gamecube, so it was an easy transition to us now sitting doing huge coop sessions on games like DKTF and Hyrule Warriors. Fun times.
This thread is an example of how not to get a woman, why does the OP feel the need to enlighten this woman he barely knows about the state of gaming?