....*sigh*
Like I said, I can't post all my thoughts, but this is an aspect of BB/BCS fandom that has always disappointed me. Whenever people decide that a given character is a hate sink, all their arguments become structured around how pathetic they are, for any reason.
They were both in a hospital room with their dying mother, and all Jimmy could think was to get some food while he was in the grips of such despair that he couldn't even think to eat. Then the moment Jimmy leaves, he breaks down in tears. And when his mother utters her last words, it's about Jimmy. And he's out getting food. He tries to communicate with her, get her to acknowledge him, but she doesn't.
Yes, Chuck has issues, yes, not all of them are justified, yes, he can be a prick, and no, Jimmy didn't actually do anything wrong buy wanting to go get food, but putting the pieces in context, it's pretty clear how this would be a crucial moment in Chuck's life and how it would feed his resentment toward Jimmy, and it's painful to watch because it's so tragic for him. It doesn't make his viewpoint of Jimmy right, but it's totally understandable how he came to it when shit like this happened to him.
This is fiction, where people have a lot more freedom to be unempathetic to human pain. That's obviously how it should be, real people are more important. However, fiction is an odd little area in our lives where we are supposed to treat the fake as if it were real. We may be allowed to react in ways that are horrible to fictional people, but I don't think that makes how we act irrelevant. And if someone really made a thread that essentially described the exact same situation, and you said to them what you're saying about Chuck, you'd be banned, and that should tell you something about the nature of trying to use the death of someone's mother to belittle them. It's something only a complete asshole would do.
There is no part of the BB/BCS fandom I dislike more than when people become so enthralled with their personal dislike of a character that they shut down all attempts to sympathize with a character out of hand. It's an intentional simplification of a complex character, it adds nothing to the discussion, and is just a distasteful act in general.