Superimposer
This is getting weirder all the time
Sounds like you simply wanted this to be Bioshock 2.0
I mean, don't get me wrong, it does retain alot of the "Bioshock/System franchise elements"
But at the same time, and this is coming from someone who had similar sentiments to you, STOP comparing this to bioshock.
Honestly, that's what I did and just was not fun for me. Play this game as if it was a completely new ip, and just leave Rapture, Big Daddies (handy men were never meant to be the new big daddies. they were just meant to be a harder enemy variation), Little Sisters, and every of the such in the back of your brain and just enjoy Columbia and Infinite for what it's trying to do, rather than what you WANT it to do.
Just saying, it helped me alot when I wasn't really "feeling" this game early on.
Also, btw there's more exploration/ quiet peaceful moments in Inifinite. Just as much as Bioshock. So don't fret
This was exactly what I was doing wrong.