How about 25-50 million traffic tickets being given out a year? That represents 10's of millions of instances of compliance where nobody is being harmed. It would take 10's of millions of instances of non-compliance leading to harm to prove that it wasn't safer to comply.
I agree with part of what you're saying, but disagree with the bolded. We have no clue of the compliance or overall situation in the 25-50 million traffic tickets handed out. It entirely possible that many were handed out
because of non-compliance. Or compliance did not improve or harm those situations.
The point is compliance may increase your odds of survival,
but you don't know. It's a toss up. Because... people.
We have much larger problems, where non-compliance or compliance paired with derision can end in death. Law enforcement is theoretically there to protect the citizens, but as it stands, they are more worried with protecting themselves first and foremost. This extends to situations where the officer was indeed in the wrong, like this one. Situations where fellow officers seek to protect those who have done wrong, rather than find justice for those citizens that have been wronged.
Even beyond that, the system allows that if you feel an order is illegal, you have little restitution in the matter. Many of the officers involved in similar incidents have past crimes under their belts, yet were still allowed to serve, many times by simply switching jurisdiction. It is a broken system and depending on your situation, you may fear compliance can end in death. Judging from some incidents, you would be absolutely right to believe that.
I wouldn't make the same choice, but the focus here is the officer's incorrect actions. That situation did not justify murder.