Don't feel bad, a lot of people miss that, I'm sure. I wonder how many people figured out that the little number "1" by the travel destinations indicate the NewGame+ level of that area and not the number of travels you have remaining (what I initially thought, thank god the game never attempts to explain that!)So uh...I'm 5 hours in at Lost Bastille and only just learned of the lady near the Majula bonfire that gives you the estus flask and levels you up. oops
I had just lost 20000 souls too (had no idea what to do with them) :L
Most people talk to NPCs until they start repeating themselves. She starts the "you can now access my menu" line the 4th or 5th time you talk to her and the first few words of that line "Bearer of the curse" are repeated lines from earlier dialog. Many people, I think, will walk away from her mid speech thinking they exhausted her dialog.lol how do you even miss that
It's bad design that punishes players who were not following the game pre-release and are not OCD enough to go through several repeated lines from an NPC before they move on.