It seems my copy is waiting for me to go and pick it up.
This will be my first time playing Dark Souls. I do know the "basics" from Bloodborne and in some lenght from Lords of the Fallen, but for the most part, I'm going in blind (and I like it).
Is it possible to make a paladin archetype character? I'm thinking heavy armor, huge shield, maybe a hammer or sword and healing/holy/light magic. So starting class would be warrior, knight or cleric? Would this be viable? I'm not looking to min-max, but if this would totally suck, I'd like to know.
There seems to be a lot more attributes in this game. What attributes should I focus if I'm going for this kind of character build?
Sounds like a perfect cleric build.
Stick to that gameplan and you'll end up min-maxing regardless, and that's a good thing since these games reward a thought out build. Clerics are usually one of the most fun builds to play in my opinion.
Lightning Spear.
You'll need to decide your balance of vigor/vitality/endurance/adaptability mostly, but Cleric is probably the best class for a first time player.