I definitely plan on doing NG+ later so hopefully the difficulty will come then. Most of my deaths are from falling off cliffs etc. I suck at traversing areas that have a lot of narrow beams (such as Great Hollow).
I usually check the online guides for stuff I need to upgrade. I'm kinda OCD about upgrading. I always want to upgrade a whole set in one time. So for example, right now I want to upgrade and max out (minus the last part that needs the titanite slab) the Elite Knight Set. I checked online and you need 6 chunks to get each set item to +9. So I need 6 x 4, 24 chunks. Now I'm grinding for those chunks and won't upgrade before I can do all of them in one go. Does anyone else do this? I feel like I'm alone in this crazy habit.
Also, I'm not sure where to put my points. I have 40 END, 50 STR, 20-something VIT. Thinking about some Faith or INT to be able to cast better spells. Any suggestions? I mostly want to stay melee though. One day I'll create a dedicated caster character.