IB armor is no better than Vendor armor. The weapons are alright but nothing worth playing against your will for the most part.
ToO armor looks hot, but if you're strictly a PvE player you're best served by PoE armor. It has extremely strong perks. Those "more armor while in Hive room" things make a far bigger difference than you think.
As for weapons... ToO stuff is great but generally still outclassed by PvE equivalents found in VoG, CE, and some Exotics. That scout is a standout though, I'll give it that. PvE wise though: Fatebringer, Black Hammer, Vision of Confluence, Found Verdict, Praetorian Foil, Corrective Measure are still at the very top of the pack.
I'd love a Scholar or Messenger. I lust for the Eye of Sol or that amazing RL. But mainly because I want them for PvP. I'd likely never use any of those for PvE because I already have better stuff for that.
Basically, you're playing something you don't like for rewards which only shine...in that activity you don't like.
Be happy.