That's the biggest reason I stopped tbh. Don't have a regular crew to run raids or PvP with :/ even tho I've met and played with many awesome people from here it gets old having to resort to pick up groups or be a sub when someone can't show for their regular crew.
Guess I should get into trials since a lot of folks here do that and it's easy to find a group... But in general I prefer to just chill and joke around when playing PvP. Nothing competitive. At least in destiny
Trials can be that way. It depends on who you group with. I can kick back and have fun and crack jokes while being tactical - been to Mercury every weekend since Trials has been up for TTK. However, I'm picky about who I play Trials with and I don't group with folks who get too invested into it. I have no time for those people.
I put personality above skill, and I'm fortunate that most people I know who don't think they're good enough to run Trials won't bother doing it. However playing with the human equivalent of a cardboard box honestly repulses me.