Same for me as well. If the game won't give me a sense of reward, I just move on to something else. Year one constraints would only ensure, that I wouldn't be playing the game.
What I like about post-TTK Destiny, is that I can reach 400LL and get good gear without raids. I still haven't completed WOTM even once, and all three of my characters are at 400. I've also gotten most of the current exotics, that don't demand PVP. That's not to say it's too easy, since it took me hundreds of hours to get there.
What would keep me playing the game more often now, is PVE events like Queen's Wrath and getting 400 level faction rewards. That would give me a reason to play patrols again, which is what I enjoy the most. I like their free-form play more than doing strikes, which are now the best source for high level gear.
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I agree that this is whats great about the game now, BUT: some of my best memories of the game take place during the raids, its just so special. I highly encourage you to seek out a cool team to just run through it all. Its magik!!!!!!!!!
The latter, definitely.