Nothing drains all the fun out of this game quicker than being blamed for losing a game despite doing your best. There have been games where, yes, I've been the only carry (all random) and couldn't carry hard enough. I'm ok to admit that.
There have also been times when someone isn't playing very well and they feed, or also can't carry as hard as they need to. But I either say something constructive or not at all, it's not hard to be a massive knob about it.
Whats strange is that these people are probably perfectly reasonable people in real life, but put them in this game where they have to win or not be at fault and they just turn in to children...
So I was the only carry, but I was a BH, not exactly an initiator or a tank, and certainly not a hard carry. I'll either get insulted for not charging in to the fight with the wisp tethered to me, or I'll get insulted for charging in to the fight and getting focused because I'm the only carry. I'll get insulted for going off trying to push lanes (with a tp and an enemy team that never bought wards) while they defend, or insulted for sticking with the team instead of going off to farm. By the end I had a lot of gold and no item slots to use, but not many kills as it was a 'free for all' kind of team. with only 1 carry theyd established as incompetant pretty early on, they were happy to all go for the last hits on enemy heroes.
We lost, but we made a last push which took two rax after winning a team fight of which I played no small part (by this stage I was doing 300 odd damage)
Anyway, I do enjoy BH and want to get better. My items weren't very good but the team comps were both a bit warped (ours especially) that after being accused of getting a refresher (I was building an orchid, but they thought refresher was likely because I was 'that kind of player') I went 'fuck it' and bought 2 sacred relics to go with my deso and BKB.
268830112 is the match id if anyone can offer any tips.