Yes it is, and i'm """"fine"""" with bad pc ports because i know how the real world work and that i'm not living in a fable.
Your hope of high standards from every dev is a chimera dude, better be realistic and pessimistic than sorry.
I play on both consoles and pc so there is no me vs you, there is just reality, and the reality is that a beefy pc let you play better in many occasions, i'm not proud of it, i'm not happy that we are in this situation, and i don't condone lazy devs, i just see for what it is dude, i'm always the first one to call lazy devs even if i can play their games decently, it's not like i'm happy that console players play with bad performances, i'm not a child or a master race idiot, i'm just a realist.
I literally bought a powerfull pc because i knew that a console or a mid pc were not good enough for my high standards, you can't pay 500 dollars and expect to have the same performance of a dude who pay 2000+ dollars, excatly like a dude who buy a cheap fiat car doens't expect performances and reliability of a bmw.