I agree on the lucky part, because it sucked and was a very toxic fandom then. At the time I thought the final two were mildly disappointing since it was clearly part and parcel of the show's obvious budget problems that had been creeping in over the second half of the series, but I understood what Anno was going for and thought he more or less achieved it. The overwhelming reaction in the fandom, at least online and at conventions in California, was that it was a betrayal of all that was good and pure, and Anno had led us astray and had planned to ruin the show with two episodes of absolute wankery all along.
The first time I saw End of Evangelion was at Fanime Con in 1997, on a rainy afternoon when it was still tiny and held at Foothill College. It was, I believe, a DVD of the film provided by Gainax, and it had no subtitles, but it was the only way to see the thing in the U.S. at the time. When the guy introducing it mentioned that "many of you had some issues with the last two episodes of the series," the whole auditorium erupted in boos and hisses.
Nowadays it seems the fandom accepts the final two episodes as part of the whole package, and there are many who prefer them to the action-packed violence of the EoE movie. I suspect many of the latter are younger fans who watched the whole thing all at once. But believe me, back in 1996, when people thought that was it, and Eva was over, and the big finale was the cast applauding and congratulating Shinji in a group session, I would never have thought that possible.