Beef's post is great and this is why Melee is the exception: nothing plays remotely like it. Nothing. The game not only has no parallel - it damned-near has no ceiling.
I hate citing authority, but if someone like Dieminion can look at a game like Melee and see what makes it one of the most skill-based fighting games of all time; there's no reason why every self-proclaimed FG fan shouldn't look to understanding the appeal of the game. It's like an 09'er claiming to be a FG fan but isn't willing to give Super Turbo a chance; you'd dismiss that person pretty damned quickly, and Melee is starting to get to that level within the FGC.
I refused to try ST for the longest time because of the logical reason of character imbalance (in the form of the game's counterpick circus). Besides there's stupid broken shit in it and stuff. I also left airdashers and KOF untested because long combos are an unnecessary execution barrier. 3S - imbalanced and no fireball game, wtf is this shit.
SF4 felt frustrating (yay getting bopped for 400 on reaction because I had the audacity to throw a fullscreen fireball in Street Fighter) but what can you do? The other games were even worse. Stupid long-ass combos, an even worse fireball game, that constant counterpicking circus with horrible numbers like 3-7 all over the place.
It's very easy to see why someone would dismiss ST, especially with all the balance concerns nowadays.
Logic can be such a bitch if your premises are faulty. All the while I was playing The Best decks in MTG formats, decks that did broken things. I loved playing high-movement games like Melee and Brawl and picked MK in Brawl (ostensibly to escape from the stage counterpick circus, not because I actually just love playing master of all type characters). Just didn't see the signs.
Of course, none of those complaints of logic stood up to the realization that I actually wanted to just play characters that did everything to top tier strength if at all possible and the visceral feeling of fun playing the higher-movement games gave. But for a while they felt valid.