Stabbie said:
How should I deal with being incredibly weak? Just tried to work on my triceps and I can no longer lift anything after 3 sets of 10 bench dips. Best I can do after that is a couple sets of 4-5 tricep overhead extension until I can no longer lift anything. And for the extensions I use only 7 lbs (for both arms, not per arm) which is considered very weak.
I got this starters program from dentoomw for my arms:
3 x 10-12 Dumbbell Curls
3 x 10-12 Hammer Curls
3 x 10-12 Concentration Curls
3 x 10-12 Tricep Overhead Extensions
3 x 10-12 Lying Tricep Extensions
3 x 10-12 Tricep Kickbacks
3 x 10 Bench / Chair Dips
But I can't even get to half of that with just a 6 lbs weight. I feel like there's no hope if I can't even handle a beginner's program with a lower than recommended weight...
How long should I wait between each set anyway?
Drop isolated arm work completely, for one. As I said on a previous page, you really should consider doing something that incorporates compound, multi-joint movements that hit multiple muscle groups at once. That's how you deal with being very weak.
Also, are you very skinny? If so, you're going to need to make sure you eat, eat, and eat some more. And sleep. You don't grow in the gym, you grow at home while resting.
It sounds like you lack a lot of muscle endurance as well, so you probably will grow the most at first if your volume is low. I'm talking less frequent training per weak, and less sets per bodypart than most people. You need to make sure you are recovering first as strength progression is the ONLY measure that you're recovering and that the program is working.
I'll try and find some stuff for you, but here is a good place to start as you sound like someone who might get labled as a "Hardgainer".
This is a post by Iron Addict who was a great trainer:
Hardgainer Training Manual
Stabbie said:
Still, the OP's program isn't very detailed. Like how long should you pause between each set? How do you decide how much weight to start with?
Stuff like that you learn with experience. For the most part, rest periods when you're on a program designed to illicit strength gains means you take as long as you feel you need in between sets so that you hit the designed reps. Sometimes you might take 2-5 minutes depending upon how you feel and the exercise.
Starting weight you want to obviously start light. So if you're doing something like a Squat you'll start with just the bar and you'll do 5 reps. Add some weight and do another 5 reps. Keep doing it until the weight feels challenging but not difficult and do 5 reps and then stop. Next time that'll be your weight and then just slightly increase each time.