You need to look at this as a multi year project. Doing this will help you cope with the extra fat you gain during a bulk because your eye will always be on the prize which lies a few years down the road. Learn to disregard the short-term and focus almost entirely on the long-term when it comes to your appearance. The only short-term thing you need to worry about is the progress you're showing with your strength. Everything else will take care of itself. Simple concept but it can be very trying. I hope that helped a little.
Ok so it really is ok to eat 3000 calories every day?
My meal plan leads to about a 3000 calorie diet.
Breakfast is Omelet, Chicken Sausage and Golden Potato.
650 Cals, 39g P, 30g C, 43g F
Snack Cottage Cheese w/ Honey
153 Cals, 11g P, 22g C, 15g F
Lunch Chicken Breast, Brown Rice, Brocolli
472 Cals, 51g P, 51g C, 10g F
(also dinner meal but I do have some variations like salmon and asparagus)
Afternoon Snack Mixed Nuts sea salt and Apple
300 Cals, 6g P, 41g C, 15g F
Then I eat a shake after my workout, it's a doozie, I won't go into the details unless someone wants it but it breaks down to
994 Cals, 89g P, 104g C, 57g F
The entirety puts me around
3041 Cals, 247g P, 299g C, 138g F
Which is a 36/44/20 split.
Not account Fish Oil pills which is add some to fat. Looking at taking 6 a day, split in evening and night.
The most difficult part is on Sat/Sun down the 1k Calorie shake and feeling like I am doing something good.