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Football Thread 2013/14 |OT25| Louis evangaalism strictly prohibited

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I'm always in disbelief until there's a consensus bby

Best way to do it. Such fun catching something when it breaks though. I'm one of those weird people who enjoy the silly muppetry without getting disappointed when nothing happens.

Apart from last season, that made me angry.
 
Summary: live and work with my girlfriend. She left me saying we don't have a future. My friends have kept me sane all day but now that I'm at home alone in the evening I'm a mess. Liquid courage isn't helping. I'm seeing my friends in a bit for a night out but I'm having difficulty coping at the moment. Yurt is a saint and helping as much as he can. On top of that, I have a major deadline coming up in three months for some work I'm doing in my personal life and I think I'm going to be an emotional wreck which is going to fuck that up.
 

Wilbur

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fade

getting over someone takes time. it takes either no effort, because you lie in bed until it naturally happens, or incredible amounts of effort because you're out drinking and socialising

I did both

however you want to do shit, that's the right way to do it. don't listen to mates telling you "come on you have to get out there and eat fanny" when all you want to do is eat dry cereal and watch arrested development

the most important thing about what is happening is you

if you feel like the second you get home from work you want to go to bed, do so. if one more cry will help you, do it.

i cannot offer any more advice than anyone else will, and that advice will be: it takes time. and that's all you can really do, shitty as it sounds. ride out the storm however you want to

buy a flesh light

love from nathan
Xoxox
 

WJD

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Summary: live and work with my girlfriend. She left me saying we don't have a future. My friends have kept me sane all day but now that I'm at home alone in the evening I'm a mess. Liquid courage isn't helping. I'm seeing my friends in a bit for a night out but I'm having difficulty coping at the moment. Yurt is a saint and helping as much as he can. On top of that, I have a major deadline coming up in three months for some work I'm doing in my personal life and I think I'm going to be an emotional wreck which is going to fuck that up.

Keep seeing your friends
Go to the gym
Try something new, fun and interesting
Not too much alcohol
Don't message her in any way shape or form

Keep working on yourself until you know in yourself you're far too good for her and happiness will come to you naturally.
 

Wilbur

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Summary: live and work with my girlfriend. She left me saying we don't have a future. My friends have kept me sane all day but now that I'm at home alone in the evening I'm a mess. Liquid courage isn't helping. I'm seeing my friends in a bit for a night out but I'm having difficulty coping at the moment. Yurt is a saint and helping as much as he can. On top of that, I have a major deadline coming up in three months for some work I'm doing in my personal life and I think I'm going to be an emotional wreck which is going to fuck that up.

Hadn't seen this when I posted. I feel for you man, that's tough. Like I say, if alcohol doesn't help - and it didn't for me for a while, I remember drinking so much at somewhere my ex was going to that I blacked out and my parents had to come pick me up :lol - then turn it down.

I think when people say shit like "easiest way to get over people is to get under" are talking a bit of nonsense. When I slept with people, it kinda just made me miss my ex more. It's really really tough, and unfortunately there's not much more to do apart from say you do whatever you want to do.

Here for you buddy.
 

Blablurn

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yo fade, we'e here for you. if you feel like venting you can always send me a pm. not sure if i got the right answers but i dont mind listening. remember that.
 
Summary: live and work with my girlfriend. She left me saying we don't have a future. My friends have kept me sane all day but now that I'm at home alone in the evening I'm a mess. Liquid courage isn't helping. I'm seeing my friends in a bit for a night out but I'm having difficulty coping at the moment. Yurt is a saint and helping as much as he can. On top of that, I have a major deadline coming up in three months for some work I'm doing in my personal life and I think I'm going to be an emotional wreck which is going to fuck that up.

You should play FIFA with FootyGAF. Good way to talk to them, vent, whatever. Get some support.
 
When a player is in form it doesn't make them the best player in the world.

I understand what you meant but it's the wording I was disagreeing with. I also disagree with the notion that someone who has highs and lows should automatically be picked ahead of someone who is gives more consistent performances. It doesn't matter anyway. Picking an ideal 11 is pointless because of squad rotation, injuries (which Arsenal fans should be familiar with) and the form of players during the year.
 

Barzul

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Dean says Schneiderlin is the main midfield target. I'd like that, he seems the more naturally defensive minded of the trio we're linked with.
 
I like spending time with my friends cause they're keeping me on the level. I think tonight will be the first time in my life that I go to a disco and gradually sober up. That doesn't seem right.

I just miss the stupid shit right now, like the pet names we had for each other and making food for us both. She was my support in a lot of ways but now it feels like that has all collapsed and she's the reason.

Edit: realise this shit is all off topic sorry mods blame it on the ouzo
 

Salvadora

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Dean says Schneiderlin is the main midfield target. I'd like that, he seems the more naturally defensive minded of the trio we're linked with.
I'd have to think that Southampton would be very reluctant to part with him given that they have already lost 2 first team players so far.
 

Yurt

il capo silenzioso
Summary: live and work with my girlfriend. She left me saying we don't have a future. My friends have kept me sane all day but now that I'm at home alone in the evening I'm a mess. Liquid courage isn't helping. I'm seeing my friends in a bit for a night out but I'm having difficulty coping at the moment. Yurt is a saint and helping as much as he can. On top of that, I have a major deadline coming up in three months for some work I'm doing in my personal life and I think I'm going to be an emotional wreck which is going to fuck that up.
Well don't get drunk now! Save some for your night out!

You're freeeee to fuck around (literally) and be lazy at home. Please understand

And what perfect timing :) so you can finish up the work you were telling me about ;)
 

Wilbur

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I like spending time with my friends cause they're keeping me on the level. I think tonight will be the first time in my life that I go to a disco and gradually sober up. That doesn't seem right.

I just miss the stupid shit right now, like the pet names we had for each other and making food for us both. She was my support in a lot of ways but now it feels like that has all collapsed and she's the reason.

Edit: realise this shit is all off topic sorry mods blame it on the ouzo

It's absolutely understandable to feel like that and miss all that stuff, especially when it's fresh. And it isn't easy; took me probably half a year to get back to normal. But when I did, I found myself valuing my alone time again, taking time to focus on me. you just have to be prepared to feel however you're gonna feel right now, because there's no getting past that. It'll just happen.
 

Lightning

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Dean says Schneiderlin is the main midfield target. I'd like that, he seems the more naturally defensive minded of the trio we're linked with.
Also the worst of them though. Signing Bender would be MUCH better.

Khedira first for me, but we won't get him. Then Bender, lastly Schneiderlin.
 

Barzul

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I'd have to think that Southampton would be very reluctant to part with him given that they have already lost 2 first team players so far.

That's the whole point though. Just say screw it and rebuild. They've a already sold a lot of their core. Esp if the player no longer wants to be there. He'll just be asking for a move again next summer.
 
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