I was stuck for over a year in Elden Ring trying to beat Malenia. Being an older new father meant I didn't have the energy or time to dive into gaming (and ER)with the same intensity I used to. Occasionally, I could squeeze in some quick multiplayer games with my patient friends, but those sessions were usually limited to an hour or so.
Lately, my son and I have been enjoying short sessions of Super Mario World and Yoshi's Island on my still working SNES, and it's been a real joy seeing his awe as he experiences these classics for the first time.
Fortunately, my son has settled into a regular sleep schedule, giving me the time to finally beat ER (though I'll need a break before tackling the DLC). Now, I'm making my way through Sekiro. I'm definitely not as quick or dedicated as I once was, but I've learned to be more understanding and forgiving of myself. I'm not as hard on myself anymore, and it's easier for me to step away. With decline and age comes wisdom right? That said, my mates are of similar age and they are still easily competitive in most MP games they play.
I'm hoping my reflexes will hold up enough to get through this game, and maybe even Shadow of the Erdtree, before my daughter is born around December.