GAF, I really respect you guys. Whopped by Molly and desperately need some advice.

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Tomasooie said:
Alright, you guys don't get me and Kat. I've put up with 1000 times what you guys are putting up with now (well, very few of you, but I really appreciate it) with her. She sends me DOZENS of texts an hour DAMN-NEAR DAILY for the past two and a half years about her day, her problems, her "relationship" (stalkerish obsession) with this rich guy across the country who she met once, who used to like her, but now has had a girlfriend for two years and does nothing but continue to string her along.
Plus, she admitted that was a joke right afterwards. I think she's finished with the semester.
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This is so boring. Cut her off. Make new friends.
 
Everyone has to fall into a philosphical mindfuck spiral every once in a while. You took a little too much though, OP. Have fun reading this thread in the morning.
 
Tomasooie said:
Alright, you guys don't get me and Kat. I've put up with 1000 times what you guys are putting up with now (well, very few of you, but I really appreciate it) with her. She sends me DOZENS of texts an hour DAMN-NEAR DAILY for the past two and a half years about her day, her problems, her "relationship" (stalkerish obsession) with this rich guy across the country who she met once, who used to like her, but now has had a girlfriend for two years and does nothing but continue to string her along.
Plus, she admitted that was a joke right afterwards. I think she's finished with the semester.
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I think you need new friends, frankly. You guys sound co-dependent as fuck.
 
Yep, you're depressed and in desperate need for a friendly hear.
And it better not be this girl , because at this rate she'll avoid you sooner than later. I mean, Did you even consider the length you what you texted her? Getting angry whenever she wants to talk about something elise...seriously, look for a professional. It will be really useful.
 
Low battery can not look away.... Gah.

And kids don't do drugs or you to might have to read miles of texts someone sends you instead of using your smart phone as you know a phone.
 
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seriously lost it at this
 
OP. I need you to watch this video right now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7Dqfull-mk

Perhaps not fully relevant, but it's a really good video that might give you the type of perspective you need. Watch his other videos if you enjoy this one, Elliot has some really good life lessons.

I would say that the #1 thing that is immediately apparent from your long text messages that you need to do is stop analyzing every single facet of life. Stop analyzing other people's feelings, thoughts, worries and their impression of YOU. This leads to anxiety, depression, and even more useless worries and feelings.

What you need right now is to focus on yourself.

Stop doing drugs, and don't hang out with the people who enable you to use drugs. Focus on improving yourself, like saving money. Pick up a hobby or go back to a hobby that you love to do. Go back to school. You said that you failed your last two semesters. That's okay. Don't let it bother you too much. Do productive things daily and you will enjoy your life more. The #1 thing, I will say again, is don't analyze how other people feel about you too much. I've done the same thing before and it just wrecks your emotional state like nothing else.

I hope you get better man. Good luck.
 
Dude, stop doing drugs.

Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it.


And don't start doing it again. Ever.

You say you're not addicted? Should be easy enough to do, then.
 
Nice bait and switch, OP. Desperate for people to look at your Art, were you?

I feel emotionally vampired just reading your drivel and I'm actually pretty damn angry now. Have known so many men like you. You are not a beat poet or a renaissance man. You need some discipline and to actually learn your craft, because your writing is just the vapid verbal diarrhoea of someone who thinks that every sentence you write has the weight and import of Something Important.

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you don't actually do drugs that much, but when you do its terribly exciting and you post here. I don't think you need help. I think you need a kick up the backside.
 
Normally I wouldn't post, but you are a special case.

I think you would have been better off playing Nintendo then making a thread like this.

I mean.... I don't even...
 
Tomasooie said:
Every single post on this forum, helpful or not, is a "look at me".


Thanks, your post really got to me. But no, I rarely smoke cigarettes. That night though, yes. I think we each had maybe half a pack. We both had a lot of pain in our throats the next morning. I told him it was probably all the cigarettes, but he said, "I doubt it."


I can quit the drugs easily enough. It was always the people (mostly James), never a dependence. I like the effects, but I don't have an addiction to any of them. James and I didn't talk from end of December to mid-March and I had no drugs throughout that whole period except for one night of drinking with some people.

And when I was talking motivation and willpower, I mean to do anything important. To get out of bed. To do any sort of schoolwork. To draw. To practice guitar. To leave the house. To do almost anything I should be doing.


No, New Jersey.
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Go see a psychatrist. Seriously. Huge warning flag for several mental disorders. Considering the synthetic drugs you've taken with who knows what in them a normal psychologist might not cut it for lack of biochemical and pharmalogical training.

I've had contact with several psychiatric patients over the last few weeks (university) that were more ordered in their thoughts than you are right now. Why? Because they sought and got help from professionals. Nobody will judge you or belittle you and in the end you will probably have more fun in life. I'm getting a tube with a camera shoved up my butt on Friday to check if there's really no macroscopic anomality in my Colon causing my abdominal pain. I'm not embarassed by this and while people dread the stigma of seeking help for mental problems, there is nothing to be embarassed there, either.

I hope you'll get better
but I guess like everyone else making an advice thread you'll ignore any advice in a classic example of reacteance.
 
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I got about halfway through before I realized it takes about 3/4 of the first page. And lol OP charges his battery up to 82% and then disconnects it. C'mon OP stop doing drugs and charge it till its full.

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lol everyone covered what I said already. Epic thread backfire though. Would read again. Someone should molly every week and make a thread
 
I've only managed to read half of those, and they don't look like coherent conversations to me, looks like two cleverbots talking to each other.
 
Sai-kun said:
are you fucking kidding me dude? stay off the molly, holy shit. or at least wait till you come down and the aftereffects wear off to process things.



molly = ecstasy

edit: jesus fuckin christ stop rolling
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QFT.

At least wait until you come down before you post on GAF.
 
Katherine is cool, be grateful she tolerated all of that and remember to thank her when you are feeling better.

I hope you go over her assignment for her, she deserves it. Oh, and probably get off the drugs. And if you still feel like making these kinds of threads, go see someone.
 
I admire how long the post is, all those little chatboxes. As I kept on reading I suddenly got this urge to scroll to check how long it was and it was...amazing. I never thought I'd say this but a tl;dr would be nice.
 
Mollywhop-(V.)1.When a grown man beats another grown man as if he were a girl under the age of 10. Getting mollywhopped is not a regular beatdown, but a beating where the victim is so physically or mentally incapable of fighting back they go down like a little bitch.

You're doing it wrong.
 
Fudgepuppy said:
Mollywhop-(V.)1.When a grown man beats another grown man as if he were a girl under the age of 10. Getting mollywhopped is not a regular beatdown, but a beating where the victim is so physically or mentally incapable of fighting back they go down like a little bitch.

You're doing it wrong.
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Why do you want him to beat up James?
 
I remember my teen years, it was all e's and whizz back then. We'd go to raves and afterwards sit in darkened rooms and solve all the world's problems over a few spliffs. Eventually we'd crash out, wake up a few hours later feeling shitty for a while, and do it all over again. I feel sorry for today's youth. They will never know a world where constant judgement and e-crises did not exist.
 
Jesus Christ OP could you be any more pretentious. saying that drugs are giving you deep insight into the world and providing you with an epiphany. The world and life is simple. People and politics make it complicated, but at its core everything no where near as deep as you make out. please get off the drugs and get help!
 
I legitimately have no idea what I just read. I mostly just thought about how long it must have taken to screencap and upload all of those, and I liked seeing the battery percent change.
 
OP you will get much better advice of you edit out the texts and instead give us a short recap of what is in them, and what you need advice for.
 
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