I've moved beyond giving a shit about what other people want and expect in their RPGs. The JRPG fanbase is diverse, much like the genre itself. If people are going to get pissy about what games should or should not have, then they can further limit themselves to a subset of the large genre. And then they can hit the "Submit New Topic" button on the "JRPGs never change" thread.
I don't suppose that--for all people-- FFXIII has it right. In many ways, I think the game was tailor made for me, as if Toriyama, Hamauzu, Nomura, and the rest of the staff were reading my diary. I know that it's not right for everyone. Which is great, frankly, because Square-Enix, Atlus, Namco, and the various other publishers that put out JRPGs have a shitton of series that appeal to all sorts of people. Hell, we even have games with Final Fantasy branding now that appeal to the most hardcore of traditionalists. But I've seen the way people react at simple descriptions of changes in the formula to various games and I've come to the conclusion that video gamers are largely an insufferable bunch, whining about every tweak and change, only to stop to whine about things that have stayed the same.
The way the BoF fanbase turned on DQ struck me as particularly callous and bizarre.