Ugh, I'm so anal about replying to people when people question my post.
I'm mostly over this, but I don't think I'll ever get over reading the books (because I'm going to read them - they're too dense with information and great lines and there are a few characters who don't exist on TV I will want to see end) and knowing the ending of each character. That's so fucking aggravating.
The desperation in this post is so palpable I actually feel bad.
It's not desperation, it's more exasperation that I wasn't able to find words for.
Dude, please go back and read some of the book-reader reactions from this thread:
http://neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=529128&page=155 concerning the Red Wedding (including yours) and tell me with a straight face that you don't understand some of the bitterness and smug satisfaction that certain people may get from this news.
I am not a book reader, and I totally understand why this is could be a huge bummer, but do not feign ignorance as to why people may react this way.
And I can count myself among the rare assholes who made TV watchers have a little bit of hell. I actually meant to point out my own reactions, but like I said earlier, I was a bit lost for words. With both the concept we all had to accept and with the pettiness I was seeing in here. And can I point out that I was banned for that? I wasn't able to talk about the last episode while it was happening because I was banned. I regretted my actions.
I personally do not believe anyone, including myself, were laughing completely out of evil self-righteousness. We laughed because we knew how you felt. You know how many people threw the book against the wall, or in the garbage, or just put it away for months because of that scene? We weren't doing it because "haha this person is going to suffer", we did it because it was "haha, this person is going to suffer like we already did 5, 10, 15 years ago, whenever we read the book". Hell, I've seen people STILL do it on Facebook, Goodreads, and in the case of my young friend who's reading them, in person and you know many of them are only TV viewers in some cases.
People stopped reading after the RW, people sent fucking DEATH THREATS to him. And you know what? A lot of us were spoiled, too, by assholes who were like "hey, check this book series out, it's crazy but the main character dies in the first book". I myself remember someone posting "poor Bran

", not behind spoiler tags at first, on GAF and reading the book expecting Bran to die. Someone else put up fake spoilers, so I kept reading thinking Theon was going to kill Robb.
What I'm saying is, we were pissed like you. I think maybe with the exception of a few sociopaths who love to see people suffer (like the asshole TV viewer who fast forwarded on HBO GO and posted the RW all over the internet and even referenced it in that very thread you posted if I remember correctly - maybe it was another forum), we grinchgrin.gif'ed because we knew how it felt.