Uh, okay, if you want to do this again then I'll go ahead and start by saying everything she did wasn't because of a do vs die, it was win power vs lose power
I'm not going accept your viewpoint that the two identities (3 eyed raven and Bran Stark) are mutually exclusive. The 3 eyed raven is not some soulless asshole therefore they have a connection to their past lives. The last 3 eyed raven was too old his whole family was probably dead; not Bran, his still a young man and he's reunited with his family.
And when he reunited he didn't care and he told us why. Because he is no longer Bran.